Ngisho nalapho isehlukaniso selulindelwe isikhathi eside, kuvame ukuphuma ngengcindezi enkulu kowesifazane. Imvamisa, cishe noma umyeni wangaphambilini uzama kanzima, kodwa izihlobo zakhe nezihlobo zakhe ziyamsiza. Akukho okusho ukuthi uma owesifazane enayo ingane, ikhwalithi yempilo yomndeni osele iwela kakhulu.
Ngikholwe uma umngane wakho ehlukane, amathuba wokuthi udinga usizo lwakho, ufuna amaphesenti ayikhulu. Futhi ngaphambi kokusiza, kuyadingeka ukuchaza ngaphambili komsebenzi.
1. Ukubusa Kwemibuzo Kuphela Kuphela "Yebo" no "Cha", Yenza lapha
Owesifazane uvame ukungakwazi ukwakha izicelo ezinembile, ngoba akaziqondi ukuthi umugqa unjani, futhi wesaba ukuwela. Lapho izinketho zosizo zinikezwa, ulungile nobuso. Ungase futhi uqonde ukuthi uzothini "Woza, ngidedele izitsha, waqongelela ngesonto, ngimbheka futhi nginomuzwa wokuthi ngiyamthinta," kunzima kakhulu ukuphendula umbuzo womngane "Mhlawumbe ngizofika, ngizokusiza izitsha, ngasikhathi sinye ngiphuza itiye futhi ngixoxe?" Ngesikhathi sokuxineka, lona wesifazane uvame ukuba nenqikanqika, uyethemba futhi wesaba ukukhathaza abanye, noma ngabe sikhuluma ngokuthile okubalulekile.
2. Musa ukubeka impilo yakho ngosizo
Uma umngani emuhle, wayengeke afune ukuzidela okukhulu kusuka ohlangothini lwakho. Uma kubi, khona-ke akufanele. Nikeza usizo olunjalo olungekho empilweni yakho namandla engcezu enkulu. Vele, kukhona okuhlukile - uma, ngaphandle komunye nomunye, awunawo umuntu othembela kunoma ngubani. Kuwo wonke amanye amacala, lonke elinye noma amabili lithuthukela ngesonto noma, uma umngane enjengomngane, ukuphakamisa usizo lwayo, ngokujwayelekile.
3. Imvamisa owesifazane edivodini kufanele anikezwe
Futhi lokhu, ngeshwa, akuyona inqubo yesikhathi esisodwa. Uma uvumile ukuhlangana futhi nje uxoxe, vele ulungele ukuthi uzokhuluma, cishe, cishe, cishe cishe noma sekuvele ngaphambili. Noma ungahlangane ukuze uxoxe, uzolalela konke ngaye. Intombazane manje ayizikhohlali. Ngakho-ke qhubeka kusuka kuzinsizakusebenza zakho zokuxova futhi ekuqaleni uchaze ngokuqinile (futhi ungazifihli kumthetho wesikhathi) wesikhathi: Ingabe uneminyaka engamashumi amabili kuye noma ubusuku bonke?
4. Cishe amaphesenti ayikhulu adinga usizo ekuxhumaneni nalowo owayengukuqala
Kusukela ukusula iminonjana yokuba khona kwakhe efulethini (Qoqa bese ulahla amasokisi nama-disc), ngoba intombi iyasabisa noma kunzima ukubona lezi zinto futhi ibathinte. Ukuqeda ukuze uhambele intombi eseduze nentombazane ngezikhathi lapho kufanele ahlangane naye. Futhi kufanele. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kuyadingeka ukuthatha noma ukubhekana nenkantolo. Iningi langaphambili elibi kakhulu futhi elinolaka alisombululwa ukuhlasela owesifazane uma kukhona okungenani uFakazi oyedwa oseduze. Uma owayenguye owayengowoFakazi angayeki, ungasiza, uboleke ukuba uphelezele umyeni wakho, umfowenu, umngani wami noma ofanelekile osebenza naye. (Futhi uma kuwe amamitha amabili amamitha amabili nangaphezulu kwamahlombe amabili futhi amahlombe umqhudelwano wesifunda eKarate, futhi akukho ongakusho ukuthi ungafika kanjani ekuphatheni okuhle kowesifazane).
5. Imvamisa umfazi, ikakhulukazi ngengane, akukho ndawo ongaya kuyo futhi akukho lutho
Ungabuzi nokuthi anqume kanjani ukuhlukanisa ngezimo ezinjalo. Mhlawumbe lo myeni wanquma. Mhlawumbe wayenethemba lokusiza izihlobo, futhi nezihlobo konke kwenzeka ukuba nzima. Uma kungekho zintombi ezingeke zithathwe kalula futhi zixazululwe ekhaya / egumbini lokugcina / e-Antlelel, owesifazane onezingane, khona-ke ungaxoxisana ngohlelo "lwengxenye" eyindilinga. "I-Visiga" yilapho umuntu oyedwa ephila izinsuku ezimbalwa komunye, esiza ekhaya noma nezingane njengokubonga. Kungcono ukuhlala phansi izintombi, ama-Nomads ngesikhwama sezemidlalo ngesandla esisodwa nengane komunye ngaphandle kokubuyela kwi-arshole enolaka. Okungenani lapho abesifazane benokukhetha, bavame ukukhetha ngqo "amaqembu". Ngokuqondene nalesi simo, lapho owesifazane enezindlu, kepha akukho mali, khona-ke angenayo, ungasiza nabanye abangane ukuba basize ngezintombi, futhi endaweni ethile ngemuva kwesigamu senyanga ukusiza ukuthola umsebenzi nokulutha ishadi elisha lempilo.
6. Yebo, udinga usizo ngempilo
Ungaqiniseka. Imvamisa abesifazane abaphambukayo bahlushwa ukudangala kwemitholampilo - ngokuzikhethela ngenxa yenqubo yesehlukaniso uqobo, kaningi ngenxa yokuthi wandulelwa. Umuntu ekucindezelekeni kungenzeka angabi namandla anele ekusebenzeni kwenhlanzeko okuyisisekelo. Ngakho-ke ngesibindi unikeze usizo ku: ukupheka, ukugeza izitsha noma ubulili, amakhabethe okubhikisa, ukuvumela ifenisha futhi ngokujwayelekile nganoma iyiphi inqubo yasekhaya ezofika ekhanda lakho.
7. Usizo oludingekayo nengane
Yize kunzima ukubona abesifazane abaningi - futhi kuzwakala, kubonakala kuhlambalaze! "Kepha nengane idonsa amandla amaningi." Mhlawumbe umngane manje useyadingeka ukuba umuntu ahambe nendodakazi yakhe, ngenkathi eya enkantolo noma ethenga, waphakamisa amaqhwa eqhwa nendodana yakhe lapho elala noma alungiselele noma alungiselele noma alungiselele isidlo sakusihlwa.
8. Ungamniki umhlaba wakhe ukuwa
Owesifazane manje ubaluleke kakhulu ngezikhathi ezithile ukuyongena ezweni elikhulu hhayi kuphela ngemikhiqizo noma uhlobo oluthile lwesitifiketi senkantolo. Kubalulekile ukuthi abe nomuzwa wokuthi impilo yakhe ayisona kusuka manje ekuqhubekeni nokusinda kwengane. Ngakho-ke, uma izinsizakusebenza zakho zivumela, zikhiphe ukuze zingene epaki, zibuke ama-movie, hlala endaweni yokudlela yenethiwekhi, dlala imidlalo yebhodi e-antikafe. Noma intombi yakho ingumnqobi, isazokulula umhlaba jikelele.
9. Khohlwa isikhathi sokududuza ifomethi "Ungakhali"
Ukube wayekwazi, wayengeke akhale. Futhi manje usengaba namahloni kakhulu, kepha akakwazi ukubhekana nakho. Ngokuphambene nalokho, masizwisise ukuthi umzuzu wezinyembezi uvele kufanelekile bese konke kuzodlula.
10. Yiba ngasohlangothini lwakhe
Ngokumelene nentombi manje, kungenzeka ukuthi: Umyeni wakhe wangaphambili, izihlobo, ama-cockroached emayelana namanani omndeni wefomethi "makunciphise ummese, futhi kunesidingo sokugcina umndeni!" Futhi umhlaba onesihluku, okungukuthi, lapho kuzothatha khona imali ekukhokhelweni kokusetshenziswa kanye nesibhamu ngobisi lwesidlo sasekuseni. Umdinga ngokulandelayo, noma ngabe angenzi lutho. Iqiniso.