I-Pics.ru iyaqhubeka nokushicilela izindatshana kusuka ku-Blog Psychogist Pavel Zygmantovich. Namuhla, Ulandisa ukuthi kungani umuntu othembekile eyingozi, futhi kwesinye isikhathi kube yingozi.
Ukucabanga okuhle kuyihlaya elihle. Isibonelo, it, asisiniki ukuphelelwa yithemba futhi kwenezela ukukhuthazela ukufeza izinhloso zayo.
Ithemba (elihlobene nokucabanga okuhle) kusenza sibe nempilo enhle, sisheshise ukulungiswa ngemuva kokugula, size sandise amathuba okukhulelwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungukuthemba okusivumela ukuthi sithathe imisebenzi emisha futhi sizuze ukuphakama okusha.
Ngokuvamile, ngaphandle kwethemba akukho ndawo, amatekisi amahle okucabanga.
Eqinisweni, lokhu akuyona iqiniso lonke.
Ngeke kube lula
Uyacelwa ukuthi uqonde kahle - hhayi ithemba elingakanani ngokwalo, zingaki izindlela zakhe kanye nokubonakaliswa kwakhe.
Namanye amafomu nokubonakaliswa kuyingozi. Okuyingozi kakhulu, mhlawumbe, ukholo kalula. Kutholakala kaningi.
Ake sithi owesifazane othile ufuna ukwehlisa isisindo. Futhi ucabanga, bathi, ngizokuthatha lokhu futhi ngaphandle kwezinkinga, ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Ngokukhethekile imicabango enjalo ekhanyayo ivezwa lapho ibheka ividiyo ethile "ekhuthaza" noma uchungechunge lwezithombe ezifanayo. Esimweni esiveziwe, kunjalo, angifuni ukucabanga ngobunzima, ngifuna ukukholelwa ukuthi konke kuzosebenza.
Vele, ukuhamba okukhanyayo ngeke kuphume. Kuzoba nezinkinga, bese kuba yi-heroine yethu, okungenzeka, bawela ekudayisweni. Yize kunjalo, wayengakulungele ubunzima.
Kuyadingeka ukukhumbula - ngethemba lokuthi kuyadingeka ukucabanga ngamathuba akho empumelelo, mayelana nokuba khona (futhi, ngoba impumelelo incike ikakhulu ekuphikelela, imizamo etshaliwe kanye nezindlela ezikhethiwe, hhayi kumakhono).
Lokhu kukhombisa izifundo ezahlukahlukene (ngokwesibonelo, uchungechunge lwezivivinyo ze-Gabriel Endowsting). Abafundi ababefuna umsebenzi okhokhelwa kakhulu futhi balwa nethemba ("thola umsebenzi - bake bakhafulela!") Eqinisweni, bathumela ukuthi kuzodingeka basebenze kanzima . Ngenxa yalokho, izikhundla zokuqala zathola izikhundla ezinhle kakhulu.
Ukusuka ocwaningweni ngo-Etritten ngokusobala ukubonwa - ubani owazi ngobunzima endleleni eya empumelelweni, kungcono ukulungiselela le ndlela futhi usebenza kakhulu kukho. Kunengqondo - uma wazi ukuthi kufanele usebenze kanzima, akukwethusa, futhi uyasebenza.
Ukulindelwa kweRainbow kuphenduka ukulahleka
Inkinga elandelayo yokucabanga okuhle kumaphutha ekuhlolweni kwangempela.
Isibonelo, ekhasino, ongokoqobo kuvame ukukhulisa ukubheja ngemuva kokulahlekelwa okuningana, ngoba bakholelwa ukuthi "manje ngcumpeli" (lelo phutha le-player). Ngasikhathi sinye, abanandaba ukuthi akukho okujwayelekile ekulahlekelweni ngokweqile kwebhola, futhi uma i-fallout ingeyona ingozi futhi amakhasino alungiswa, khona-ke anethemba lokuthola ama-winnings.
Ithemba elithi Ithemba likhuthaza abantu ukuthi bakholise amathuba abo okuphumelela futhi ngokuvamile bahlanekezela ukuhlolwa (lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi i-predisesioposant ivumelanise okwayo). Amathemba akholelwa ukuthi bangabashayeli abahamba phambili kunabaningi abanamathuba amancane okutheleleka ngomusa othile ojabule kunabaningi babo ukuthi banamathuba amaningi omsebenzi omuhle kunabaningi.
Ikakhulu ehlekisayo ukuthi iningi labantu linethemba elikhulu futhi lihlelwe lithandwa okwabo. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi abanye abashayeli abangamaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye bayaqiniseka ukuthi amakhono abo okushayela athi "ngaphezulu kwesilinganiso."
Kuthini? Ekuziphatheni okuyingozi okwengeziwe. Futhi-ke izibalo zeNet ziqala - lapho umuntu ebeka engcupheni yomunye, amathuba amaningi okuhlupheka. Izibalo ezinqunu, akusekho.
Kuyahlekisa, ngendlela, ukuthi abantu abasezingeni eliphakeme lokudangala alinganisela lokho okwenzeka ngobunono. Isibonelo, bona baqonde kangcono izinga lethonya labo ngalesi simo (ie, lihanjiswa kusukela ekukhohlisweni okubizwayo), ungaphikisi izimpumelelo zabo, ungaphikisi umthwalo wabo wemfanelo ekwehlulekeni (okuvame ukwenza amathemba abo) . Ukubheka okunjalo komhlaba kubizwa ngokuthi yiqiniso elicindezelayo futhi, kubonakala sengathi, akukubi kangako.
Vele, ungacabangi ukuthi ithemba elibi libi. Muhle uma uyisebenzisa kahle. Okungukuthi: Vumela isisekelo sethemba lakho ngeke sibe nokholo oluyimpumputhe ngenhlanhla noma ukuthandwa yisiphetho, noma ukuvela ngempumelelo. Vumela isisekelo sibe ulwazi ngamandla alo, isiyalo nokubekezela. Ngemuva kwalokho ukucabanga okuhle kuzokusiza.
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Ithemba (ngokuhlukile - Ukucabanga okuhle) kuyingozi kakhulu uma ngenxa yalokho ukholelwa ukuthi konke kuzoba lula, futhi usekela izinhlelo zakho ze-phenomena evumelanayo (njengenhlanhla). Asidingi ithemba elinjalo.
Ukucabanga okuhle kuwusizo kakhulu lapho uthembela emizamweni yakho futhi wazi ngokuqinile ukuthi unezithiyo eziningi ngaphambili, ezingakwazi ukunqoba. Sidinga ngempela ithemba elinjalo.
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