Umshado akayona ezaphakade (futhi uvame ukufuna ukusho - yeka injabulo!). Abantu bashada, abantu bayazalwa. Isehlukaniso kuphela akuhlali lilindele. Ngesizathu esithile, amadoda ayamangala kakhulu. Isazi sezengqondo uPavel Zyggmantovich uyachaza, kungani amakhosikazi ehamba.
Imvamisa, ukunakekelwa komkakhe kuba ukuduma phakathi kwesibhakabhaka esikhanyayo.Kanjani?! Noma kunjalo, kwakukuhle, futhi lapha, nawe kuwe, sawubona, uthathe futhi uhambe! Yini ... ?!
Ake singivumele ngichaze ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka, lapho konke kwamanga.
Chestyj ngenkungu
Izifundo zengqondo zikhombise ukuthi maqondana nomshado ngamadoda nabesifazane, kunemibono ehlukile kakhulu.
Owesifazane ojwayelekile umele umshado kahle, umuntu angasho ngokuningiliziwe - kufanele ekuseni kakhulu kwabashade naye, njengosuku, njengakusihlwa, ukuthi impilo yansuku zonke ihlukile kanjani olwandle, kanjani ukuya olwandle, kanjani ukuya olwandle, kanjani Iya ekuhambeleni nokuthi ngubani ongahalalisela. Ngezikhathi ezithile, ngihlekisa ukuthi abesifazane banomdwebo obuningi obuningi bokubulala, lapho yonke imininingwane yonke - onke osayizi, amadayimane kanye nokumelana nokubonakalayo kumakwe.
Enye into ngamadoda. Imibono yethu yoMzalwane ojwayelekile ngomshado inkezela kakhulu. Ngokweqiniso emoyeni wehlaya "Booschy! Embhedeni! " Ngamanye amagama, indoda ephakathi ifuna konke kube kuhle, futhi okuhle - kubuthakathaka impela.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula umthetho ongaguquki - okulindelekile ngokwengeziwe, kukhula kakhulu amathuba okuthi iqiniso alihlangani nalo. Futhi lapho nje engazange ahlangane kuzo, imizwa ibanjwa - sibhekene nakho, ekukhulekeni kwesayensi, ekukhukhuyo nasekufihleni okuhle - bummer.
Futhi iqiniso cishe lihlale liphambukezelwe ngokulindelwe kwethu. Ngakho-ke, umfazi ojwayelekile akaneliseki ngomshado wawo kaninginingi kakhulu kunale ndoda ephakathi. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane kungenzeka bahlukanise - yini iphuzu lokuphila nomuntu ongakufaneli? Ukuhlushwa okukodwa.
"Usuku lwakho - okwesishiyagalombili kukaMashi"
Akunasidingo sokucabanga ukuthi abesifazane bakulungile manhlekelele ekuthambekeni kwabo ukuze babe nesithombe esisebenza ngokucophelela. Akudingekile ukuthi ucabange ukuthi indoda iyiphutha ngokwedlulele, inemibono yenkungu ngomshado.
Yebo, zombili lezi zinketho ziyeqisa. Yebo, kungaba kuhle ukuthi ezethulo zabesifazane zincane, futhi izethulo zamadoda zicacisiwe kakhulu (konke kakhulu ukuze konke lokhu kufanelekile futhi kube nezinguquko zokuthambisa).
Inkinga yehlukile. Inkinga isemcabangweni we-seelis wamanye amadoda, angachazwa ngamagama amathathu: "Owesifazane uthi ubuwula." Lokhu futhi kubhekisele kodumile: "Lalela owesifazana bese udweba okuphambene nalokho." Futhi lapho owesifazane eza futhi ezama ngomoya ozolile, ngomuntu, maqondana nokuchaza ukuthi akakuthandi konke okusemshadweni, indoda, ekhanda elinjalo lomqondo onjalo, avele axoshwa kowesifazane.
Lapho-ke, lapho ngibonisana nalawo madoda, bathi, bengingacabangi ukuthi bekubaluleke kakhulu kuye, akazange achaze ukuthi empeleni kwakuyinkinga enkulu, akazange abile.
Eqinisweni, owesifazana, empeleni, wachaza futhi wazalwa, indoda nje ngenxa yomqondo wakhe waxosha, akazange anake. Cabanga, lona wesifazane uthi ubuwula obuthile - ufuna ukuhamba kaningi futhi ngokuvamile ukuxhumana, yimiphi engenangqondo, ungazihluphi ekubukeni i-TV.
Futhi lapho lona wesifazane ehamba, nakhu engasaxoki, nansi ivela ebuchosheni. Kepha 'sekwephuze kakhulu.
Indlela ebonakalayo yokuphuma
Kunesitatimende esincane esilula. Kungadingeka ukunikeza izincomo ezithile, kwesokudla?
Ake siqale ngezincomo zabesifazane. Amantombazane amancane athandekayo! Uma kungenzeka, bonisa ukuthi isimo asikhathazeki nje, nokuthi le yinkinga enkulu ngempela (uma kuyinkinga enkulu impela), okungafanele ukuxazulula ukuxazulula. Akunasidingo sokuthatha udoti ngaphansi kwekhaphethi. Udinga ukuyithola lapho, uhlole futhi uhlangene uyiphonse endaweni eyenziwe.
Manje ukuncoma kwabesilisa. Sithandwa sabathandekayo! Susa, ngicela, kusuka emihlanganweni ye-sobiles. Lokhu, okokuqala, kuwusizo, okwesibili, kuwusizo kakhulu. Phatha ukukhathazeka kowesifazane wakho ngokucophelela - empeleni, hhayi okuningi, lokhu kuyakhathaza, ungacabanga.
Lokhu empeleni kuyinto evamile - phatha umuntu osondelene naye ngokucophelela nokuthi kwenzekani kuye. Ungazifihli, futhi unikeze leli nani, okungenani kancane.
Mina, ngivuma, ngandlela thile kuyamangaza ukubhala konke lokhu, kodwa, maye, - emsebenzini ngihlala ngiza ngawo madoda, amakhanda awo agcwele imiqondo enjalo. Kungaba yinto emangazayo uma abesifazane bengabashiyi.
Ngenhlanhla, ngiyaphinda, umuntu angashintsha kahle imiqondo yakhe, kungaba khona isifiso.
-Nke
Amadoda kufanele anake ngokwengeziwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabesifazane babo, abesifazane bakufanele okuthile okufanele bahlole izinkinga futhi bangathathi udoti ngaphansi kwekhaphethi, abazenzi izinkinga zokuthula. Lapho-ke amathuba omshado ojabulayo akhula kakhulu.
Nginakho konke, ngiyabonga ngokunaka kwakho.
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