Zonke izinkinga ziyasaba izici zeLadan. Nangemva kwakho konke umbuthano ongalungile. Inhlekelele - ukwelashwa okuhle. Ngaphandle kwabo, asisoze saphuma emhumeni, futhi nobuchopho abukhuli, futhi ngokujwayelekile bekuzoba yisidina. Ikakhulu selokhu ungayi ndawo kusuka ezinhlangeni, noma ngabe unothando olukhulu. Ikakhulukazi uma unayo.
Kungani ungazigwemi ubunzima
Uma uhlanganyele ebudlelwaneni, kungekudala uzothola ubunzima bentuthuko. Uma okuthile okuzuzayo kuguquka, kuyamangaza ukucabanga ukuthi zombili lezi ngeke zikuthinte. Izinkinga ezinjalo zifaka zonke izigaba zemvelo zempilo yomndeni - wathutha, washada, wazakhela imali encane ebabazekayo, ingane yabeletha, ingane yaya esikoleni, yawela eshumini nambili. Okungathandeki, kepha okungenani ungaphakamisa utshani.Icebo lenhlekelele ukuthi kuzofanela nibathole noma kunjalo. Kufana nokufuna: uze udlule esigabeni esedlule, ngeke uvunyelwe okulandelayo. Noma ungakwazi ukumelana nabanye futhi uphule ubuhlobo, inhlekelele izokuthola phakathi nenoveli elandelayo. Futhi wonke umuntu kuzofanele aqale futhi.
Kungani udinga inhlekelele
Le nkinga iwuphawu lokuthi awunamathele ngaphansi kwesisekelo. Konke okungathuthukisi - khona-ke kuyathola. Uma uqhamuka ngezikhathi ezithile ezinhlangeni, kusho ukuthi awunakulinganiswa ebhukudeni, ubudlelwano uyaphila futhi udinga kuphela ukunakwa.
Inkinga yikhono lokushintsha konke. "Imisebenzi - ungathinti." Isimiso esihle kakhulu. Okuphambene nalokho kuyiqiniso - uma kukhona okungasebenzi, ngaphandle kokungenelela kwakho, lesi simo sezinto ngeke siguquke. Uma ufuna ukuthola okuthile okungakaze kube khona, yenza engingakaze ngikwenze. Ngalo mqondo, le nkinga iyi-pendel enhle kakhulu yomlingo.
Inkinga ikuvumela ukuba unqume izinto eziza kuqala. Kufana nokuhlanza okujwayelekile. Lapho usanquma ukuwuphonsa konke okungenamsoco, okwami ngangikopishelwa iminyaka eminingi emakhoneni nasekubumbeni ngesithukuthezi.
Le nkinga yithuba lokuthola ukuthi uhlangothi lwesibili lufunani. Ngoba uhlangothi lwesibili luvame ukuthambekela ekuthuleni, kuze kube yilapho livaliwe, bese likhipha zonke izimangalo zaba kanye. Kungaba kuhle, yiqiniso, ukuze yena, iqembu laze lazange lenze izifiso zalo ngokushesha, futhi lalizohamba kahle ePink Pink Pony. Kepha siphila ezweni le-prosaic yangempela, futhi asazishayi ukuduma lapha, indoda ayiwele. Ngakho-ke lalela lokho okuwa ngaphandle - kukhona okusanhlamvu okunengqondo.
Zilungiselele! Isheduli Yezinkinga Zokuphila
Akunakwenzeka ukubikezela bonke ama-majere amakhulu nganoma iyiphi indlela, kepha imingcele yezingqinamba zentuthuko ayibalwa kuphela - sekuyisikhathi eside ibalwa. Nazi izindawo eziphambili zesiphithiphithi:
Ukuguqulwa (izinyanga ezi-3 - unyaka owodwa)
Emasontweni okuqala, bese izinyanga, ama-hormone anesihe athatha ubuchopho futhi afihle ukungahambi kahle kwalokhu kugxila. Kepha ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile, amandla abo omlingo womile futhi uqala ukubona ukuthi uyahlwitha, udla isobho nge-squabble enyanyekayo nemilenze yakhe mncane.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngalesi sikhathi nje, ekugcineni uphuma embhedeni futhi ukhumbule ukuthi impilo ingaphandle kwekamelo lokulala - kukhona abangane, umsebenzi kanye nezinye injabulo ezingenayo. Lokhu kunika lowo mphumela "kodwa ekuqaleni wawuhluke ngokuphelele." Kepha akunakwenzeka ukuthi uhambe yonke indawo njengabathengisi ababili. Ubudlelwano bavalelwe bona bahlaselwe.
Okufanele ngikwenze: Le nkinga ipompa amakhono akho ukuze ifinyelele ekuyekethiseni. Kuzona zidinga ukuthi udinga kanjani ukukwenza phakathi nokuphila okuphilayo. Elinye iphuzu elibalulekile: Inkinga yokuqala ikukhombisa ukuthi eduze kwakho ungumuntu ophilayo ohlukile, hhayi iphupho elihlanganisiwe hhayi ikhophi lakho elifanele. Wena, ngendlela, futhi akuyona ne-Gingerbread yezinyosi. Ekuqaleni, ugxilisane, futhi manje wema. Futhi uma yena, emva kwalokho, akukudabukisi ukubalekela ehlathini, ulahlekelwe ama-sneaker - konke kuzolunga.
Inqubo (iminyaka engu-2-5)
Inkinga yesibili ayisho ukuthi kule nkathi - ingashisa ngaphambili noma kamuva. Imvamisa kuhlotshaniswa nokuzalwa kwengane, kepha futhi akudingekile ukuthola indlalifa. Ngengane noma ngaphandle kwengane, futhi ngalesi sikhathi impilo izoqala ukukudla.
Nobabili nimisa ubunzima ukujabulisa omunye nomunye, impilo iqhubeka nojantshi osongwe, konke kubikezelekile futhi akunazo izicishamlilo. Le ndoda ishaya inselo futhi ifisa leli holide, kepha ubuvila bokumhlelela futhi bunyakaze konke kowesifazane. Owesifazane noma ngabe wenza okufanayo noma aguqule ama-diapers futhi yena, ukubeka ngobumnene, hhayi i-carnival nhlobo. Lokhu kungenye yezinkinga ezimbi kakhulu ebudlelwaneni.
Okufanele ngikwenze: Ukuphuma kule nkinga nodumo nesithunzi, kuzofanela ufunde ukuphumula komunye nomunye - mfushane, buthaka ukuvutha okunye futhi uqaphele ukuthi wonke umuntu udinga isikhala somuntu siqu. Ngasikhathi sinye, sekuyisikhathi sokufunda ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo wokuhlela iholide. Isidina? Bhekana nezokuzijabulisa, hhayi uNowa, ukuthi lo, uzobheka, konke okusemabhulukwe osofa kuyakhuphuka, bekungeke kube khona isimbali.
Ukudumazeka (iminyaka engu-7-9)
Ngalesi sikhathi, nobabili sewenze sekwenziwe kahle nabasebenzi abalulekile emisebenzini yethu, noma nakanjani akwenzekanga. Isimo sokuqala sifaka ukulayisha isihogo futhi siqhume umthwalo wemfanelo, okwesibili yi-Drop ekuzihlolweni nasekucabangeni kohlobo "kahle, lapho ngaphuma khona." Uqhathanisa amaphupho obusha angokoqobo - futhi imali ekhokhwa imalimboleko akuyona i-Fig.
Yebo, ukukuphakamisa konke okuvela kuwe, bese kuthi zombili ikwaya, inhlekelele yaphakathi nempilo ingenzeka ngokuphumelelayo nangomntwana oneminyaka engama-45 no-45. Kunomuzwa wokuthi konke kungahle kuqale kabusha bese kuqala okokuqala, lokho kumane nje kungumlingani, ukutheleleka, kukudonsela phansi. I-Alarm-alamu, okungenzeka kakhulu, lokhu kuyinkohliso.
Okufanele ngikwenze: Ucabanga ukuthi uyamazi, njengoba kwenza inhlekelele - futhi yenza amaphutha. Uvele wajwayela ukukhuluma ngento ethile iminyaka eminingi, kodwa okuthile okuthule. Uma amasu akho engafakwanga ekwehlukanisweni negama lentombazana, ukufundwa kabusha ukuze akhulume, aqhubeke ngalezi zindlela ezijwayelekile zokuziphatha. Nakekela okuthile okusha ngokuphelele, ekugcineni - okungenani ukukhuphuka, nje ukuthi leli cala alihlangene nempilo yansuku zonke.
Ukuvuselelwa kwamanani (iminyaka engu-12-16)
Manje sekuyizindlebe zombili esibucayi sobudala obuphakathi. Izingane, uma zikhona, sezivele zizimele impela, futhi ungaqala ukushiya izindima zikamama nobaba ukubuyela endimeni yabathandi. Le nkathi ingaba yi-honeymoon yesibili - noma iholele ekuqhekeni okuphelele kobudlelwano bezombusazwe.
Okufanele ngikwenze: Nikeza ukubuyekezwa okuningiliziwe kwempilo - kungazelelwe kube khona okusalungiswa kusuka ku-Geshthata ongacaciswanga noma uhlobo oluthile lwephupho, lapho zonke izandla zingazange zifinyelele khona. Futhi uma kungazelelwe kwaqhamuka ngokuzumayo ukuhlanganisa amaphupho akhe, ungahleki futhi ungazihlekisi. Eqinisweni, akusona ngisho nenhlekelele yobudlelwano, kepha inhlekelele yakho. Ungacabangi ukuthi manje usuhlukanisile futhi i-lilac futhi izophinda iqhume futhi, futhi izimvemvane zizovinjwa, futhi uzoba neminyaka eyi-18.