Khuphuka umfana - kuyathakazelisa futhi kakhulu, kuyajabulisa futhi kuyingozi, kuyesabisa futhi kuyahlekisa. Ngokuvamile, le nqubo ihlala idala futhi nakanjani. Futhi ugcine kahle ekhanda "Qaphela mayelana nomfana wethu", ozovusa eminye imizila kule ndlela evelele!
Ukuba abangane naye
Yebo, ama-SIDIAC anawo ama-comrades awo - futhi kuzoba nesixuku se: Kusuka eRex ethembekile nase-DIMKA kusuka ekungeneni kwesibili - ku-palych kusuka ekuhlukaniseni kwe-IT. Kepha umzali, ongaxoxa naye ngenkinga kubantu, ukuzijabulisa ngokuhlekisa futhi wakhe i-Vigvam ngumngane owusizo kakhulu emhlabeni.
Zitholakale kepha ibanga elithile
Kukhona ubuso obuncanyana kanye nebhalansi entekenteke. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuze umfana anomuzwa wobuhlungu wokuthi uphezu kwesigubhu, futhi abantu abadala abazi njalo ukuthi bangayiqeda kanjani. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sizibeka engcupheni yokujoyina indawo yamahlaya adumile ngo "misha, ekhaya!" - "Ngiqandisiwe, mama?" - "Cha, ufuna ukudla!"
Ukupha
Yebo, ngeke kuthule ukuzindla ekhoneni, kungathuli. Futhi uma kunjalo, kungukuthi yisizathu sokufaka phakathi isihloko, noma ngabe yonke into ngengane iyahleleka. Isiqondiso esinokuthula yikho konke okusezinhlelweni zezingane nezamandla. Umdlalo kuRobin Hood, Ibhola, Aikido. Akunangqondo ukushayela ezigabeni ezithile: makazame futhi athole lowo lapho kuzophuthunyiswa khona.
Nikeza umcabango wokudla futhi uzosongwa izibambo
Hlobo luni lwezingane zokulimala kwezingane oluletha isifiso esingenakuqhathaniswa sokuqamba, ibhodi, bubble, ukulala phansi, ukuhambisa ... kepha zingaki izivivinyo ezingabizi futhi eziphephile zingabanjwa nge-competist-in-cosmos-lapse!
Ungazishayeli ngokwakho
"Abafana abakhala", "Ungumuntu", "njengomvikeli wekusasa." Futhi-ke: ah, ah, amadoda ahlala abesifazane abancane. Yebo, yebo, ngoba "i-cho reco" ingcindezi yokubhema nokuphuza. Akekho amagama asemsebenzini okufanele akhulekele, noma izinyembezi zizokhipha - ngoba i-taboo yaqhutshwa phansi isuka ku-diaper ... Kuthembeke kakhulu lapho-masisha ukuthi: "Ibhizinisi labesilisa langempela liyisifo senhliziyo, ndodana."
Mnikeze ithuba lokugcwalisa izigaxa zakhe
"U-Ay-Yai, uWawa uzoba" - kukhubazekile ukuhunyushwa amasiko ubhontshisi. Ngomqondo, uphizi odongeni. Okuthile kufanele kuhambe isipiliyoni sakho, esikhunjeni sakho - kuphela lapho ushayela. Kuzoba namadolo aphukile. Kuzoba nokulimala kokubiza. Kuzoba yisikhwama somdwebi wezinhlungu zokuthandana okungaphumelelanga. Kuzo zonke izindlela zokuphila, utshani ngeke bukhululeke.
Chaza imithetho
I-Logic yabesilisa iyindlela enengqondo kunazo zonke emhlabeni, cha? Ngakho-ke injongo lapho-ke ukubopha izikhala ezinzima "adingekile", "ngeke uqonde", "kungenzeka ukuthi izolo, kodwa manje - cha"? Bona-ke, futhi ubuchopho bentombi bungadiliza - ukuvinjelwa okungaqondakali futhi okungahambelani. Kepha umnikazi wobuchopho we-logic wesilisa uyahlupheka ngamandla.
Unganciphisi
Khombisa noma utshele umfana ukuthi mncane kakhulu futhi uyisiphukuphuku futhi akukho okuzokwenzeka kuye - lokhu kungukushaya okunjalo ngaphansi kwebhande, imiphumela yalokho okuzodingeka yelashwe isikhathi eside. Futhi ukuzethemba ozofaka umuntu endaweni evamile ngaphezulu kolwandle? I-Psychoanalyst yemoto yemali?
Xoxisana
Ayikho ifomula yokubulala kune- "hhayi ibhizinisi lakho." Akekho okhuluma ngokugcwalisa zonke izifiso: asizona izinhlanzi zegolide, futhi akayona indoda endala. Kepha esimweni lapho kunethuba lokungafaki ngaphambi kweqiniso, kodwa ukunikeza ukukhetha - ukukhetha kufanele kube. Yebo, nasezindabeni "zabantu abadala" izixazululo ezisebenzayo kanye nombuzo: "Ucabangani, kungcono kanjani ukukwenza?"
Ukudumisa
Ngokusho kwezibalo, abafana bathola amahlandla amabili avumayo amazwana abantu abadala nezijeziso eziphindwe kane. Ukungalingani ngokobulili.
Nikeza isikhala esanele
Ngomqondo omnyama kuphela, abafana badinga isikhala esithe xaxa kunentombazane yesigaba esifanayo sesisindo. Ukubeka kuye kwema njengehhashi elincane esiteshini esiseduzane. Noma iqala kancane ukudlulisa yonke imitha yakhe kumagajethi. Sawubona, konke okusensimini! Ngomqondo othile, ngempelasonto - ehlathini.
Nikeza isibonelo sabesilisa
Kungenzeka ukucacisa ukuthi kubi ukukhohlisa, noma ukubhema, noma ukufunga. Kepha kusukela ekubonileni kochwepheshe, bonke laba bantu abadala ukusebenza kwezinkolelo ngandlela thile bayaphuma. Nokuthi "ubaba wami uyakwazi!" - Isishukumiso esihle kakhulu. Uma indodana iletha umama, akukho lutho olubi - umfana mhlawumbe unabadala abadala ebusweni bomngane wakhe, noma umalume, noma umkhulu, noma othisha, noma othisha, noma othisha, noma umqeqeshi. Abalingani abafuna ukulingisa entweni ethile kancane.
Ungabi namahloni
Yebo, umfana futhi udinga i-caress, hugs kanye nanoma yimuphi umuzwa wethole. Kepha lapho ngasikhathi esithile afuna ukunciphisa umthamo we-mimi futhi akafuni ukuwabonisa emphakathini - akudingekile ukudlwengula umuntu. Ungumfana wakhe, futhi, futhi angakuthatheli leli qiniso libe yingozi empilweni. Umphefumulo. Nobabili.
Qondisisa Umhlaba Wakhe
Kungenzeka ungabi nakancane kuwe, ukuthi ungadiliza kanjani isibhamu ngamarokhethi amane, kungani inkemba ye-omen, futhi iyunithi yevidiyo yemfashini ikwazile ukuyicasha i-canister ngopende. Yebo, wena futhi uma ufisa, ngeke ufunde ukuzulazula ngokukhululekile lapho zizwa khona njengenhlanzi emanzini. Kepha ukukhombisa intshisekelo nokukhumbula okungenani izikhathi ezibalulekile, ungavakashela kalula uma kungeyona iplanethi yomuntu siqu yengane, bese okungenani kolandelayo. Futhi ungahlali kumthala ode kakhulu.
