Konke okukulesi sibani, okwenzeka phakathi kwabantu kubonakala ngathi kungunaphakade. Yize kunjalo, futhi ngekhulu leshumi nanhlanu, owesifazane wamthanda indoda, futhi ngeshumi nesikhombisa - umama wayethanda izingane, futhi kubantu abayishumi nesishiyagalolunye kwakunguBangane nomunye ...
Eqinisweni, izethulo ezinjalo, zingamanga. Igama lothando alizange liguquke, kepha yena unje. Futhi uthando lwe-Age aseJapan lukaHayene lungakuthusa kakhulu ngokushayisana naye ekusebenzeni. Noma ngaphansi kothando lobuzali manje futhi, ngokwesibonelo, eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu edlule, kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zobudlelwano. Mayelana nezidingo zomphakathi zokunakekelwa kwabazali kungathulwa ngokuphelele. Kepha ngeke. Thina, ngokuphambene nalokho, sizokukhumbuza ukuthi mangaki omama nobaba wababikisi abaneminyaka engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nabekwehluke kakhulu.Ingane ingalimala!
Kubukeka sengathi kuyamangaza, kepha phakathi nobuntwana bethu ngobuningi bokukhala kwabantu abadala, ukumemeza, ukukhathazeka kwengane ngezinqubo zokwelashwa okubuhlungu noma, ngokwesibonelo, ukunwebeka kwimibuthano yemidanso nokuzivocavoca kwabonakala njengezinhlamvu kanye nama-whims adinga ukunqoba. Ngalokho okulimazayo, wawubhekwa! Futhi esikhathini sethu, abahle bezingane zesizukulwane esisha bathi kuzwakala ngokuzwakalayo, uma ukugcotshwa kubuhlungu kakhulu, ngeke kusizakale kuphela, kodwa, kunalokho, okuphambene nalokho, okuphambene nalokho, kuphambene. Abaqeqeshi abaningi bayenqaba imikhuba eyelula eyelulekile bese baya ngokufanayo nakubantu abadala ezikhungweni zokuqina. Futhi ekugcineni abazali baqala ukuncoma izingane ngemuva komjovo noma enye inqubo engemnandi.
Tymiezochka
Siyabona ukuthi ibinzana lalikhona ngokuphelele amashumi eminyaka futhi linoshevu impilo engeyona noyedwa kithi. Kepha ubuhlanya obunjalo ezungeze iqiniso elilula lengane yesifazane ayengekho ngaphambili. Kumashumi ayisishiyagalombili kanye ne-tyshotos iningi, abakabenzanga uthando lwezemidlalo futhi bamane benza imidlalo, ilukuluku lesayensi, impi yokulwa nokuvikela ibhulukwe lamantombazane, i-lilac nezimbali ze-lilac. Emantombazaneni akhona manje, kubonakala sengathi kuqiniswa yimisebenzi engabonakali.
Isimo sempilo
Abazali ngokwesilinganiso bavame ngokucophelela impilo yezingane futhi baphikelela kakhulu ezindabeni zesidingo sokunakekelwa kwezokwelapha, lapho udokotela wezingane ovalekile engakaboni lutho, futhi umama wakhe nobaba usetholile. Mhlawumbe isizathu salokhu ukungaqiniseki ukuthi uma lesi sifo sethulwa, kuzokwazi ukuthola ukwelashwa okujwayelekile. Ngisho nangeminyaka yamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye kuya komuthi osemthethweni wanethemba kakhulu kakhulu kunangaphambili.I-Pelainaka
Ababelethi bethu bebakholelwa ukuthi ama-pelleins angenamikhondo akufanele athinte ingane. Ukuthi uzogula yini, noma okuthile kuyesa. Futhi namuhla kulandelwa uMkhandlu Wezingane ukugwema ukubopha ilineni eliphansi nelizola lelineni lezingane: ngakho-ke, bathi, isikhumba siphefumula kangcono kulo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isimo esingesibucu esidabukisayo emakhaya ethu silungile futhi silukhuni, sibonga indawo yokukhosela yelineni, akusekho olwengeziwe emanzi ngemuva kokomiswa.
Uhlelo lwesikole
Kumashumi ayisishiyagalombili nangamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye, babelindele ukuthi isikole ngokwakhe sizonikeza ulwazi. Yebo, mhlawumbe kufanele uqashe umfundisi, ukuze ingane yazi ulimi olungcono lwangaphandle noma olulungiselelwe izifundo zephrofayili ukujoyina i-University. Manje ukukhokhwa kwabafundisi noma imibuthano ngokuya ngezindlela ezivame kakhulu zesikole (hhayi nhlobo yokutadisha ekujuleni!) Kufakwa kwizabelomali eziningi zomndeni, lapho ingane inguDoros esikoleni. Ngokwemvelo, isikhathi nemali kwimibuthano yentshisekelo kuhlala kungaphansi. Izingane kufanele ziye kulabo abazithandayo abangafundwa kuvidiyo kwi-Intanethi, futhi babambisane ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukuze babelane ngolwazi futhi baziqhayise umphumela.Ukudla
Isiqubulo samashumi ayisishiyagalombili - ingane kufanele idle ngokuqinile. Eminyakeni yamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye, ingane bekufanele idle, hhayi ukuhlela ukudla. Manje into esemqoka ukuthatha ukusetshenziswa kwempilo. Ama-chips ezandleni zamamaki okuqala ayakwazi ukudala izilwandle eziningi ezizungezile. Umzuzu, umama wami ozowondla umama umzuzu uhlushwa ngokuzisola ngonembeza. Izithombe zengane ethona, inkukhu ethosiwe ephelele ye-cholesterol, izodala ukufutheka kwamazwana athukuthele. Ukudla kwezingane (futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, hhayi nhlobo zezingane zeNashelnoy Age), kuyenzeka, kuxoxwe ngawo kwi-Intanethi. Kepha akekho omunye umuntu owenza kube nzima.
Isisusa
Iningi labazali bethu ngokwesimiso akuzange licabange ngendlela yokuxhumana nengane. Kuyadingeka - kusho ukuthi kuyadingeka. Uzofunda okubi - uzoba ngumthandi. Uzofunda kahle - uzoba uthisha futhi uzothola njenge-janitor, kepha ukusebenza ngemfudumalo. Futhi awufuni imbongolo? Izingane zethu zibona sengathi zidinga kuphela isidingo. Yebo, okungukuthi, kuyadingeka ukukholisa okudingeka ngempela, futhi kuvame ukuchaza ukuthi kungani. Kuthatha isikhathi esiningi namandla, kepha ukuthi kusebenza kangcono kunezingsongo ezindala ezinhle - kuze kube manje kuphela ukuthola. Ososayensi baphikisana nokuthi ukucindezela okukhanyayo kunomthelela ekufundweni okusha. Kukhanya, sathi.Izingane zinombono
Akudingekile ukuvumelana naye, futhi abaningi abaphuthuma ukubheka, kepha akusaphikwa njengeqiniso. Umbuzo "Yebo, yini ongaba nayo umbono, ekilasini lesithathu?" - Qaphela ubuntwana bethu, kepha, ngenhlanhla, hhayi inzalo yethu.
Akunakhiye entanyeni
Emindenini eminingi yabasebashiyagalombili - izingane eziyisishiyagalolunye, wayekhulela esikoleni, wakhula futhi ngaphambi kokuhamba wazungeza idolobha noma ahlale ekhaya edwa, ama-sandwich abandayo noma ama-sandwich anama-margarine noshukela. Manje kwi-Intanethi, abazali bathi izingane ngomthetho azinalo ilungelo lokushiywa ngaphandle kweminyaka eyi-12. Futhi empeleni, ukubona abalishumi nanye, emgaqweni opholile odlulayo emgodini, kwaba nzima. Ukuthi umthetho ukhona impela, ngabe konke kukholelwa kukho.
Isikhala Somuntu
Isikhala sezingane sisaphulwa ngenkuthalo ngabazali ngokwabo, kodwa ngokuvamile, okungenani samukelwa. Ukuba khona kwekamelo lakho noma ekhoneni lengane kwaqala ukubhekwa okuphoqelekile - sasinamathela, lapho babekwazi khona, futhi uma benamakamelo anomfowethu noma udadewabo), khona-ke abazali befika lapho ngaphandle kokungqongqoza kanye nengqinamba. Ifulethi langempela, bona, kusho, negumbi futhi, sasinikezwa nje lapho sokulala nokuhlala. Uma sithola idayari yengane futhi siyibheke, siyobe sesihlukumeza ufulawa unembeza. I-Drieries yethu yabuka kalula abafundi ekubhaliselwe.Khuluma ngokuphepha ngokocansi
Ababelethi bethu kubonakala besaba ukuthi uma uxwayisa ngama-pedophiles, kuphuluke, kusemncane, ukuthi konke kwenzeka kanjani nokuthi kufanele siphume kanjani, singaphumela kanjani ngaphandle esifebe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kaningi, uma iqiniso lokuthwala noma lokudlwengula liphuma, kumantombazane esizukulwane sethu futhi liphathwe, ngokuqondene nezifebe ezomile, kungakhathalekile ukuthi zilimele. Ngakho-ke kunalokho okuncamela ukuthula. Ekugcineni sashukumisela ukugxila kokuhlukunyezwa kumdlwenguli (okungenani uma isisulu sikhona noma singaba ingane yethu) futhi, Mekay, bebophezela, ukujuluka, ukujuluka, shutha izingxoxo zokuvimbela.
Sasinda kanjani?
Umbuzo othandwa kangaka ukuthi udideke kwi-Intanethi nokuthi kwesinye isikhathi ufuna ukuphendula: isimangaliso. Iqiniso akuyona ukuthi abazali bethu abazami. Iqiniso ngukuthi, okokuqala, iSoviet Pedagogy yabheka ingane ngokuyinhloko hhayi njengomuntu, kodwa njengokulungiselela umakhamali wesikhathi esizayo sobukhomanisi. Konke okuphazamisekile ehlelweni lokukhiqiza lomakhi kwakubhekwa njengesekondari, futhi amaphimbo okuvikela ukubikwa kobuntu ubuthakathaka futhi enamahloni. Futhi, okwesibili, abazali bethu babengesiso ngempela isikhathi. Ngeminyaka yama-1980, omama abaningi babandakanyeka kulokho abakutholayo. Cha, hhayi i-ponte jeans kanye namarekhodi wetheyipu, kepha ngokungenisa i-counter: amabhuzu, imifino noma izithelo, iphepha lasendlini yangasese ... Yebo, futhi impilo yayinzima kakhulu kunalokho. Ngemuva kokuhlanza - ukulungiswa kokuhlanza (konke ngesandla nangezinto ezingavuthiwe eziluhlaza!) Isikhathi namandla ezinganeni akuhlali. Ekugcineni, lokhu kwasuswa kithina, sabanjwa futhi sandliwa. Eminyakeni yamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye, abazali babezinda ekusindeni komndeni. Omama abaningi sebengashadile, futhi abaningi bathi "ama-shuout" kanye nabathengisi bemakethe ngosuku olungajwayelekile lokusebenza. Sanikezwa ngangokunokwenzeka. Njengoba senza manje, ngokuya ngamathuba ethu akhulisa kanye nobunzima besikhathi (izinkinga ngemfundo, ngokwesibonelo). Umbuzo awuzama kakhulu, kubonakala sengathi iziwula kuphela eziphakanyiswa ... futhi ososayensi abaqale ukusho ukuthi izingane zilahla izingozi zezingane "ezijwayelekile" ezihamba ngobungozi emvelweni noma emathubeni anikeze indawo yokudlala, afuna amathuba amasha engcupheni. Kuyingozi enkulu ukwedlula indlela esilindele. Mhlawumbe isizukulwane esilandelayo ngeke sibuze "Kungani abazali bengasishukushisi kithi?", Futhi "Kungani usithiseleni?" Futhi uqhamuke ezindaweni eziningi zezinzuzo zethu kanye nezindlela ezesabekayo. Kwazi bani.
Kepha, ngokweqiniso, kusekuhle ukuthi manje ingane inombono nesikhala somuntu siqu.