Esiteji sothando nesikhathi esithengwe ngoswidi, abantu balahlekelwa amakhanda - konke kubonakala kukuhle, okhethiwe uphelele futhi akunankinga nhlobo. Kepha kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ngemuva komcimbi womshado onesizotha uza empilweni, okuvame ukuhambisana nokudumazeka. Uma ufuna ubudlelwane obufudumele ukuhleka isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, kufanele ukhumbule izinto eziyi-10 ezidinga ukufundwa ngaphambi kwehhovisi lokubhalisa.
1. Amaqabunga othando. Yebo, ekuqaleni kobudlelwano kanye nokuphila komndeni, kubonakala kungenangqondo, nokho kuhlelo olusondelene lokudonswa kumlingani njalo ngonyaka kuzoba ngaphansi nangaphansi. Kodwa-ke, lesi akusona isizathu sesehlukaniso, ngoba ubudlelwane obuqabulayo bese u-Peppercorn angahlala njalo. 2. Intshiseko inempahla yokuvula kaninginingi. Into esemqoka ukuthi kukhona uthando, ukwethembana nokuqonda phakathi kwabalingani. Izingxoxo ezingasho lutho zizosiza ekuboneni inkinga ngesikhathi esifanele, cabanga ngezidingo zomunye nomunye bese zibuyela esimweni sokusondelana kokuqala. 3. Khumbula izinsuku ezedlule nokuthi zingakanani. Ngokuvamile, khumbula ukuthi uqale ngaphambili, okwakuhehana, yiziphi izikhathi esazikhathele futhi sazikhulula. Yibuyisele kuze kube manje imizwa yakho. 4. Ungayeki ukuba namaRomantics. Ngakho-ke lolo thando alupheli, yenzani imisebenzi yothando. Akunasidingo sokulinda isidingo esibukhali salokhu - ngoba umlilo uhlala kulula ukuwugcina uvutha kunokuwuhlukana futhi. 5. Ekuqaleni, zilungiselele ubuhlakani nokuthembeka. Njengokuzijwayeza, imbangela yezinkinga eziningi ilele ekulimeni nokuthula. Okokuqala, umlingani akayithandi ikhwalithi ethile, kepha ayinakwa, khona-ke iqala ukucasule konke okunamandla, kepha isimo sithule. Kulokhu, ukucasuka kungadluli ngaphandle komkhondo, kuboniswe ekuxabaneni nasekupholiseni imizwa. Kanye nomthombo wokucasuka ngesikhathi umqondo awunakho okwenzekayo. Akunasidingo sokuqinisa iphuzu elibucayi, kungcono ukusho ngokushesha njengoba kunjalo, ngalokho ongakuthandi, kepha uzilungiselele ukushintsha kanye nomlingani ngamazwana akhe. Akekho umuntu okufanele aqagele okufunayo - Khuluma ngezifiso zakho ngobuhlakani, kodwa uqonde. 6. Ungakhombisi ulaka. Umthetho obaluleke kakhulu obhekele emndenini akufanele uthuke omunye nomunye, hhayi ukuthi uhlanzeke futhi ukwazi ukungena esikhundleni sothandekayo wakho. Lalelani omunye nomunye, khuluma ngokulingana okulinganayo ngisho nasezikhathini zokucacisa ubudlelwano, zama ukugcina imizwa ingalawulwa futhi ungakhuphuli ithoni. 7. Gcwalisa uthando nsuku zonke. Musa ukweqa ukuboniswa kothando kwansuku zonke, uhlinzeke ngezimpawu ezinhle zokunakwa. Ukusebenza kahle kulokhu kungaphezu kwesisodwa ngonyaka ukubamba iholide lokwabelana. 8. Khetha njalo endaweni ethile kusuka endlini. Uma umndeni unezingane, muhle futhi ulusizo ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye nazo. Kodwa-ke, ukuze ubudlelwane bungadikibali ezinkingeni nasekuqhutsheni, kwesinye isikhathi udinga ukubashiya ubusuku bonke kogogo ukuze banikele ngesikhathi esithandekayo - Izinsuku ezinjalo zithinteka kahle yikhwalithi yobudlelwano. 9. Azikho izincomo ezingadingekile. Ngaso sonke isikhathi funa isizathu sokuncoma uhhafu wakhoAkukaze kube yisibonelo sokwenza umlingani, umbonga kanjani futhi ujabule kanjani nawe. Isitatimende sezincomo sinomphumela omuhle kuwo womabili - amaqembu asemvemeni akhulisa ukuzithemba, futhi uSomlomo lokhu uphinde wakhumbuza ukuthi uyamthanda futhi uyawazisa umlingani wakhe. 10. Ungesabi ingozi. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, ukuzethemba ngobudlelwano, enye yezindlela ezibalulekile. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuthembela kuphela kungadalulwa ngokuphelele kumlingani embhedeni kanye nezinye izici zokuphila. Unganqikazi ukukhombisa umsebenzi ocansini, zama amathuba amasha, izindawo, noma ngabe kuzohanjiswa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi - ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzodlula, futhi umphumela uzosala. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi yonke imithetho efakwe kuhlu ehlulwe ibukeka ilula futhi ilula, ibala, ngeshwa, akuwona wonke umuntu ongenza. Kepha labo abaphumelela, baphile impilo ende futhi ejabulisa kakhulu ndawonye!