Ubudlelwano nge-pair cishe abushelelezi - ngisho nakumabili aphelele kukhona izikhathi zenhlekelele futhi ziwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngoba lokhu akuhlali kudinga umcimbi omkhulu. Emizweni, lo mbhangqwana wenza isinqumo sokuhlukana ukuze singabe esabona omunye nomunye, kepha ngokushesha nje lapho izinkanuko zizokwenza, zikhumbule izikhathi zobumnandi kanye nobudlelwano obudala engifuna ukuze ngiqale kabusha. Kepha kufanelekile ukwenza lokhu?
Ngokuzenzakalelayo, kukholelwa ukuthi abesifazane banemizwa enkulu futhi engokomzwelo yokuthi baqeqeshwa kakhulu eVest yentombi. Kepha eqinisweni, abantu bathambekele kulokhu konke, ngomehluko kuphela abakhombisa imizwa yabo abasobala.
Ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile ngemuva kwegebe, ngamunye wabahlanganyeli walo mbhangqwana ucabanga ukuthi aqhubeke nobudlelwano obudlule. Futhi naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi imvamisa imvelo izama ukuncipha esigabeni esifanayo, i-Steam ngokwayo itholakala kalula kulokho alahlekelwe yikhefu.
Ezimweni ezinzima kakhulu, abantu bafuna usizo kochwepheshe bezengqondo, kodwa ngeshwa, akuhlali kunikeza imiphumela elindelekile. Ngakho-ke, ukungalahli isikhathi sakho nomunye umuntu ngaphambi kokuzama ukunikeza ithuba lesibili ebudlelwaneni, thatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa:
• Cabanga ngokufanelekile ngalokho okuholele ekuqhekekeni kobudlelwano. Kwenzeka kaningi ukuthi laba bobabili baphule izengezo, nje ngemizwelo nokungaqondi. Futhi kulokhu, kulula ukubuyisa ubudlelwano. Futhi isimo sihluke kakhulu, uma imbangela yokuhlukaniswa kwakungukuvukela umbuso nokukhaphela.
• Uma uthatha isinqumo sokuqhubeka nobudlelwano, bese ulungiselelwa iqiniso lokuthi kufanele ukhohlwe konke okubi okwakuphakathi kwakho esikhathini esidlule. Uma kuqala kusuka eqabungeni elisha, hlambalaza umlingani wesikhathi esedlule - kuzomane kukhulise isimo. Khumbula, kusuka eshidini elihlanzekile - kusho ngeshidi elihlanzekile.
• Ngokuvuselelwa kobudlelwano, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ufunde hhayi nje ukuzikhuluma nje, kepha lalelisisa futhi uzwe umlingani.
• Izazi zezengqondo ziyelulekwa ukuthi zingavi namanga futhi ziphindaphinde umlingani azophinda lokho ofuna ukukudlulisela kukho. Imvamisa kunezimo lapho umuntu engazwisisi ngempela lokho okwakungalungile, nokuthi kungani ukuxabana nokuhlaziywa kwenzekile, kwaholela kwigebe okokugcina. • Futhi khumbula, uma indoda ilungile ngempela nengxenye yakho, kuzofanele ube nomsebenzi onzima ukuze uqalise kabusha ubudlelwano obuphule.