Imvamisa, abesifazane bafuna ukushada masinyane ukuba babe ngaphansi kokuvikelwa kwendoda enamandla nethembekile. Lokho nje "kujabule", ikakhulukazi umshado wokuqala uvela kakhulu. Futhi bonke ngoba ngenxa yesifiso esithi "Ngokushesha", Abesifazane bakhohlwa yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ngabo.
Intatheli uZoya Atiskova washicilela okuthunyelwe okufundisayo kakhulu mayelana nokuthi abesifazane abashadile / abahlukanisile banikeze amantombazane angashadi. Lokhu okuthunyelwe kwathandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabesifazane - othile uyazisola ukuthi wayengazi ngakho ngaphambili, abanye bathumela umbhalo emadodakazini abo ukuze bangafiki ngokufana okufanayo futhi bakhe izimpilo zabo ngenye indlela.
Akudingekile ukuthi ushade kuphela ukuze uphunyuke ezimpandeni zendabuko - kunzima ukuthola umshado kubi kakhulu kunalokho okuqedwa ngokuba mncane kakhulu. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, imingcele izoqhubeka nokuphula imingcele, futhi nenye indoda encane ebekiwe, ethokozela indima yakhe "yinhloko yomndeni."
Okokuqala kufanele uzithole kulempilo - phendula imibuzo "ngingubani", "Engikufunayo empilweni," "Ngizokuya kanjani enjongweni yami" nakho konke ngezindlela ezifanayo - konke okudingayo Nenduku yangaphakathi.
Udinga ukuzama ukuya ocansini kuyo yonke imingcele yawo evunyelwe. Awuneme nalabo bantu besifazane abasanda kubola amadoda angu-1-2 "aphakathi", ngenxa yalokho adumaza ngokuphelele ebulilini futhi aqhubeke nokulingisa ubumnandi, ngemuva kokucabanga ngasikhathi sinye ... "
Udinga ukusungula impilo ekahle ekwethulweni kwakho - ukuhlala okungenani iminyaka embalwa - yebo, yebo, kuneminyaka yobudala, hhayi izinyanga zami. Lungiselela kuphela lokho okuthandayo mathupha, hhayi ama-cutlets "okumnandi, njengonina." Qonda futhi udale indlu ngesimo ekunambithekeni kwakho, hhayi "ama-dumbbells azoma lapha, futhi lapha ukudoba - susa umshini wokuthunga, kuvinjelwe lapha."
Kufanele kufundwe ukuzihlonipha wena, isifiso sabo nendlela yokuphila, hhayi omunye umuntu. Ufuna ukuchitha kusihlwa ngokubuka uchungechunge lwakho oluthandayo ngenkomishi yetiye elinamakha? Wamukelekile! Futhi ungazami ukwanelisa isifiso sakhe, ngoba ngokuzumayo "washintsha umqondo wakhe, amacebo ashintshile, ngizoza kuwe manje" noma "ngingumuntu ongumthetho wamazwi nawe, umfazi, enginawo ukuhluleka."
Khumbula, akekho noyedwa wale ntokazi yokukhanya kwe-wedge ayengehli - agcwele kubo futhi abanakathile.
By the way, ayazisi izifiso zakho kuphela, kodwa futhi nokwenqena. Khumbula ukuthi unelungelo eligcwele lokuthile ongafuni nokungakwenzi. Uma ungafuni izingane manje, noma ungafuni ukuya emhlanganweni nabangane bakhe, ukuvakashela umama wakhe, uma ungumphikisi wobulili be-anal noma enye into evamile futhi ngokwemvelo. Awudingi ukuza ngomphimbo wami futhi ubekezelele, ngakho-ke kwakuhlala kukhululekile. Ukufundisa isipelingi esiqinile "Cha" ngaphandle kokubhekana nonembeza kanye nokuphazamiseka. Okuzocabanga noma kusho abanye yizinkinga zabo.
Qaphela ukuthi umsebenzi wakho uqobo ubaluleke kakhulu kuwe kunomsebenzi wozakwethu. Akunasidingo sokwakha umsebenzi owodwa kwababili, ikakhulukazi uma ngabe lo msebenzi. Udinga ukufunda ukwenza isabelomali somuntu siqu ngokwakho, ungasindi ngokweqile, kepha futhi ungasakazeki ngemali. Ikhono ngalinye lokubheka imali oyisebenzisayo endodeni futhi ayithandana naye. Akudingekile ukuthi ucabange ukuthi uma ekhokha lo mthethositolo endaweni yokudlela futhi kufanele abe yibo ukubonga kakhulu futhi manje kuyadingeka ukukhokha ucansi - Cha! Uchithe imali kwizimonyo, ukususwa kwezinwele, ukugqoka, izicathulo, njll. Futhi bonke ukuze bavele phambi kwakhe nobuhle - yena, okungenani, bavele baphupha futhi baphupha ngemimoya.
U-VBEY ngokwakho - usayizi ubaluleke kakhulu! Phuma ekhanda lomcabango wokuthi "uthando yinto esemqoka esinayo, futhi ngizoyifundisa ukuze ubulili obupholile futhi konke kuzolunga." Ngeke!
"Uthando" luzohluka khona lapho nje lapho izinga lokugculiseka kwezocansi lizodlula zonke izindlela ezivumelekile.
Funda ukuthanda ezemidlalo - noma ngabe kungakudoti nhlobo, zama nje ukuthola leyo okuzodingeka nginambithe. Futhi, yebo, lungiselela iqiniso lokuthi indoda izovimba la makilasi ngazo zonke izindlela.
Ngenkathi ukhululekile - funda ezinye izilimi zakwamanye amazwe. Manje kubonakala kuwe ukuthi asikho isikhathi esanele - esibhekene neqiniso ngempela ukushoda kwesikhathi, ngakho-ke lo ngunkosikazi wakhe kanye nomama abasanda kwenziwa.
Funda ukuba ngabangane nabesifazane futhi ubonge lobuhlobo, ngoba lapho-ke lapho amakapethi aphelele eza ebudlelwaneni - kuzoba wusizo olukhulu.
Ukubheka imibono yakho empilweni. Ngoba ukwakha ubudlelwano nalabo abangabelani nabo banzima kakhulu futhi cishe akunakwenzeka, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuba nalabo ababeka umbono wabo emhlabeni.
Funda ukuthanda, ukuhlonipha umzimba wakho, funa impilo yakho. Ngokuzayo, lapho efuna ukuba ngumama nonkosikazi wakhe - izofika.
Susa wonke ama-stereotypes aphathelene nesikweletu sabesifazane, i-physiology kanye nokunye okuvela emakhanda abo. Khumbula, kufanele kuphela imbiza lapho ngithathe khona imalimboleko nanoma ngubani omunye.
Qiniseka ukuthi uzihlelela ngokwakho isisekelo sokuphepha kwezezimali futhi ungakhulumi ngaye, ngisho nendoda / guy. Kufanele kube nemali eningi kangaka kwi-akhawunti yasebhange ukuze banele okungenani izinyanga eziyisithupha zokuphila. Lokhu kunjalo uma kufanele uthathe ingane ezandleni zakho bese ungena noma kukuphi. Amacala empilweni yomndeni ahlukile, futhi kwesinye isikhathi iwela ngokushesha okukhulu.
Ngaphambi komshado, kufanele uzame kakhulu ukucisha izindlu zakho, futhi ungatshali ngokuhlanganyela ekuhlanganiseni. Uma ifulethi lithengwa emshadweni - yilakho kuphela futhi nesehlukaniso lizohlala lingelakho. Kepha lokhu "Masithengise okwakho, thatha efulethini elikhulu kwimpahla ebanjiswayo," ungaphenduka abe yizinkinga eziningi.
UZarube ngokwakho ekhaleni - ungalokothi ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo, ungathathi izikweletu zabanye abantu, imali mboleko nezinye iziphetho. Emigwaqweni ugibela amadoda amaningi ahlukanisile ngezimoto, imali mboleko eyaqhubeka ikhokha abafazi bayo ex. Kepha ikakhulukazi uNave Madame wakwazi ukuzenzela imali mboleko, nemoto "ethandekayo".
Uma umuntu engavumi ukuthi ngokwesabelo esilinganayo uzonakekela ingane, ahambe naye, aphephe iphalishi, ahambele emihlanganweni eya esikoleni, ukuze anikele kusihlwa, ukuze umama Ungahlala nezintombi e-cafe - akukho okuhlobene nendoda enjalo.
Ekuqaleni, indoda kufanele iqonde ukubaluleka kobungani besifazane, ikakhulukazi lowo ohlala kusukela ebuntwaneni. Uma ezama ukusukuma phakathi kwakho nentombi - mshayelile. Ukukhumbula kanye nakuwo wonke, umbono omubi kakhulu, uzikhethele kubayeni babayeni be-bedelles yangaphambili nabakwa-Real, izidakamizwa nezithandwayo zeziphuzo ezishisayo, noma ngabe zibukeka kanjani. Futhi yini okubi kakhulu - ubelethe kubo.
Ukuze ufunde ukuzivikela - kokubili ngokomzimba, nangomqondo osemthethweni - abesifazane abaningi bangasiza kakhulu.
Ukuze ufunde okungenani kancane ukuqaphela futhi uqaphele ubuntu obungenakuzwela ngesimo se-alphenhony, ama-daffodils, amakholi nezinye izinambuzane ngaphansi kwezibungu zamadoda. Njalo, uzwa, ngaso sonke isikhathi ukugxila - ungalokothi usengozini impilo yakho, futhi kwesinye isikhathi impilo. Futhi "wamzwa" noma "ukuzwela kukangaka kulahlekile" - impilo yakho ibaluleke kakhulu kunemizwa yakhe. Khohlwa "ngezinsuku eziphephile" - ama-STD amaningi kuwo akhona ngokuphelele.
Esinqumweni sokubeletha noma ukuthatha isisu - ngaso sonke isikhathi dweba umbono womuntu kuphela. Izingane ngokuzayo kungenzeka zingabi nawe - ngakuye akuyona inkinga, angangenisa noma ngubani. Futhi ngasikhathi sinye ngiphakamise ingane, uma kungazelelwe isithandwa sesaba izibopho, futhi. Yonke imithwalo yemfanelo kunoma yiliphi icala liwela emahlombe kowesifazane, okusho ukuthi isinqumo sokugcina kufanele sikuthathe.
Futhi owokugcina, ungalokothi ubelethe othandekayo wakho, noma umama, njll. Ungabeletheli uze ufuna ukuba ngumama. Umuntu ophilayo uvela ekukhanyeni, futhi abelethe yena kuphela ukuze ajabulise umuntu - umbono omubi kakhulu.