Akunandaba ukuthi isihloko asibonakala sinjalo, kepha inkinga ayishiyi. Izigidi zabesifazane ziphonswa ebudlelwaneni ngokungazi ngokuphelele, ngaphandle kokuzinikela lo mbiko, ngethemba mhlawumbe. Sonke siyakuqonda kahle ukuthi inhliziyo ayihleleki, kepha ukunyakaza kwenhliziyo kalula kungadideka kanjani ngokukhathazeka ngenxa yengcindezi yabanye! Futhi kungakanani lapho kunenkinga!
Mayelana nokuthi iziphi izifiso zemoto yakhe akufanele zilalele, futhi ake sixoxe.
Akufanele ufune ukusindisa indoda
Uma ufuna umuntu ozosindisa - Gcina amakati, izinja, abhale phansi kwizisebenzi zokuzithandela zesikhungo sokusekelwa, endaweni yokusekela abahlengelekile endaweni ethile abahlengelekile. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kuzoba yiyona kuphela into yempilo yakho yonke, futhi ngokubuyisayo uzokuhlambalaza kuphela.Ngeke ukwazi ukwenza enye into, ngeke ube nesikhathi noma amabutho, futhi ngeke umsize. Lokhu kugijimisana phezu kwempumulo.
Akufanele ube nethemba ngekusasa
Kuzwakala kuyinto emangazayo, kodwa empeleni ichazwa nje. Leyo ndoda ofuna ukuletha ikusasa lakho, kufanele ihlelele manje, hhayi ngolunye usuku kamuva, lapho ibona ukungahambisani amasokisi nokugeza ngemuva kosuku lokusebenza. Konke Angakufunda, usefundile. Futhi awuyena umama, hhayi uthisha, futhi akayena ingane, ngeke akwazi ukukhulisa.
Uzobulala isikhathi esiningi ngezincazelo ezinhle, ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi incwadi ibhale ngokudla okumnandi nokunempilo, kodwa ngoba "yebo, ngiyaqonda" kuzolandela umkhuba wakudala. Ngokuvamile, uyazi, ukulala nalabo abaletha, ngandlela thile abambalwa abangenampilo futhi bawunikeze i-pedophilia, noma i-incest.
Ungazami ukufaka esikhundleni umama wakhe owesabekayo
Uma uke uzwe kuyo indoda yakho iyekisa izindaba ngonina, lesi yisizathu sokuqwashisa. Mhlawumbe amahlandla ambalwa futhi emizuzwini embalwa ngokujwayelekile, kepha uma kuyisimo se-monologue evikelekile masonto onke ngamahora ambalwa ngeso lokuswayipha kanye nokuvalwa kwendwangu yakho ... kubi. Ikakhulu uma lezi ziyizikhalazo ngomuntu oqhubeka nokuphila naye.
Ukube ubunganamatheli le ndoda, ubungeke yini wacabanga ukuthi awuzukupheka ukudla komuntu omdala noma ngicela uthathe udoti - into embi kakhulu engenzeka kumuntu? lapha.
Emzameni wokuvikela isithandwa sakho esuka 'ebusweni ", ubhala ngokushesha imvume yokuthi yini nemidlalo yamakhompiyutha kuze kube ubusuku obu-4, futhi kuwe, ungazifezi yonke imisebenzi ezungeze indlu nakwi Impilo eyabiwe. Uzodinga ukukukholisa ukuthi uye kwenye indawo, bese uthatha isinqumo sokuthi ungaya kanjani, ukuthi ungahamba kanjani, uma ungatholane nani - ngaphandle kokuthi akazange athole umsebenzi noma awenzanga amadokhumenti abalulekile. Ngaphandle kwalokho, uzothola ngolunye usuku ophuma kuwo emabuthweni, futhi, ngaphandle komama abi, kunonkosikazi omubi.
Akudingeki ulalele, yini enhle
Cha, akukubi, kunjalo, kepha uma lokhu kuyiqiniso, hhayi uchungechunge "Yebo, bengizokwenza, ngiyakwazi, kodwa wangivimba." Izaba ezingenamkhawulo, ukwehluleka kwamaphutha azo - futhi ngasikhathi sinye kufanele konke, kepha uyabathethelela wonke umuntu? Hhayi inketho yakho. Amagama anamazwi, kepha impilo idliwa ngezenzo.
Kwenzeka nangeqiniso okuthile akuzange kubambelele, kuvinjelwe, kepha hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iGovarov enjalo igcinwe kangangokuba uma kungekho mbangela etholakele ngaphandle, baqala ukukusola, bese bebambelela. Uma ungashongo kakhulu, ubengeke acasuke futhi angasebenza ngokuqhubekayo, kodwa manje ... manje akakwazi, udinga ukwehlisa umoya futhi achithe izinsuku ezimbalwa zomdlalo / ibhodlela / abangane. Uma ubeka ngaphezulu kwesiketi, hhayi i-jeans, wayengaya enkundleni yeshashalazi nawe, kepha manje awekho. Noma okuphambene nalokho, ama-jean, ngokuya ngokuthi imilenze yavuka noma yimalini ibalwa efasiteleni.
Umqondo wokumangalelwa kwakhe awusoze waqonda. Kepha akudingekile ukuthembeka.
Umbhalo Umbhali: Natalia smirnova