Kungani ungajabuli i-melancholic

"Ukusuka ekumamatheleni kuzoba ukukhanya konke!" - Ngaphansi kwalesi siqubulo, abantu abahle nabanakayo bafuna ukujabulisa wonke umuntu ocabanga ngokudabukisayo acabangele ukuhlangana kwamagatsha ngaphandle kwefasitela ... kahle, noma ngaphandle kokukhanya okuningi embonweni wonyaka. Ngokukhethekile ukuthola lowo ohlala ethule, ecabangayo futhi egwema izinkampani ezinomsindo - abantu bezindawo zokugcina ze-melannolic, impilo yabo yangaphakathi icebile kakhulu kune-mimici, futhi izintshisekelo zilimele. Kepha kufanelekile ukuhlasela isikhala somuntu somunye umuntu ukwenza umhlaba ube mnandi ngokwengeziwe? Ngabe ngidinga ukujabulisa i-melancholic?

Asidingi ukujabula, ngoba sonke silungile

Kutholwe ngokuqapha futhi akucelwanga kakhulu ukuthi uzakwabo odabukisayo akadabuki nhlobo, kodwa ingabe kufana nobuso bakhe? Konke kufanelekile ukuhlala kulokhu. Kuliqiniso, uzakwabo ngemuva kombuzo weshumi "Masha, konke kulungile? Njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi! " Akukuhle kakhulu futhi ufuna ngempela ukubulala ngesimo sokuthinta, futhi iqiniso lokuthi imenencholics ayithambekele ekuvezeni imizwa yayo ngobuhlakani. "Konke kuhamba kahle" kungavezwa hhayi ngokumamatheka okunelisekile, futhi ungajabula ngezindlela ezihlukile eziyisigidi.

Asidingi ukujabula lapho singalungile

Akukho sina. Amahlaya ayisiwula, hamba nge-nightclub nasekusukeni "ukumamatheka - futhi umhlaba uzomomotheka!" Ayixazululi inkinga. Inkinga izoxazululwa uma uthatha isinqumo. I-Melancholics ngokuvamile ithambekele ekukhuliseni ukukhathazeka, kanye nesidingo sokuchaza okuhle, ngokuvamile, umuntu onjalo okwamanje abanaso isifiso sokulalela ama-anecdotes noma izincomo zikaDale Carnegie, wengeza ukungavunyelwa okwengeziwe. Ungase ubuze kunokusiza. Kepha ukufeza lesi sicelo, kunjalo, kunzima kakhulu kunokuncoma "vele umambele kaningi."

Akudingeki ukuba sibe mnandi, ngoba lapho kungekho ukumamatheka akukho lutho olungalungile

Izwe lanamuhla ligcwele umkhiqizo, ukuxhumana nokumamatheka kusuka ekukhangiseni izinyo. Kepha uma esikweletini senkonzo akudingeki sigcine ukumamatheka okubanzi ebusweni - vumela ubuso bethu buzolile futhi baphumule, noma kubonakala sengathi osesimweni esinokuthula njengefu.

Uma ungathandi impilo ezolile nenelisekile ebukeka ngayo, lokhu akusho ukuthi ngokushesha kufanele eze esifundeni esibonakala siyindlela ekholisayo yokuveza "injabulo". Isidingo sokulawula ukuvezwa komuntu, gcina oxhumana nabo bezenhlalo ngokungadingekile kanye nengxoxo engathandeki yezwe - konke lokhu kungukuchitha okukhulu kwamandla azosebenzisa okuthile okumnandi kakhulu.

Asidingi ukuba mnandi, ngoba impilo akuyona isekisi nhlobo, futhi kuyinto evamile

Sihleka lapho siyahlekisa. Simamatheka lapho kwenzeka okuthile okumnandi ngempela. Kepha asifuni futhi ngeke sikwazi ukumamatheka injabulo nenjabulo enesivunguvungu noma yimuphi umcimbi emhlabeni wangaphandle, ngoba ukusetshenziswa kwemali okwengeziwe komthombo. Futhi kungaba ngcono lapho, ezweni eliseduze, ngokujwayelekile into encane kunazo zonke yagcwala - iyaphazamisa kakhulu.

Akudingeki ukuba sibe mnandi, ngoba singakujabulela ukudabuka

Ababhali abaningi, izimbongi, abaculi nabaculi bathola ama-aesthetics akhethekile nokuphefumlelwa. Amandla okuthatha uhlangothi olubi lwempilo, ukupenda okuphefumulayo kulungile. Imvamisa, noma iyiphi indlela yokusekela amabutho akho okudala, uma kungaphikiswa. Futhi ukuncoma i-Gloomy Autumn Sky, akekho noyedwa ongakaze wenqabe!

Asidingi ukujabulisa uma ufuna ukwenza ubungane nathi

Uma uthanda i-melarcholic yanoma yimuphi ucansi - ungazami ukudonsela ngokushesha ephathini yebhizinisi ngemincintiswano ejabulisayo. I-MelanchoLics, vele, ayitholi kuze kube phakade emahlathini okudabuka, futhi kwesinye isikhathi akumelene ngisho nokuthuthela ku-movie noma yeshashalazi - kodwa, njengawo wonke ama-introverts, angadida ukubamba iqhaza kokuzijabulisa okukhulu. Ukuvela kwabo ebuntwaneni kudonswa ngenkani kwaba isenzo esingadingeki, esingathandeki futhi ngokungahambisani ngokuphelele nochungechunge lwabo olungokomzwelo - "Dlala nezingane!", "Uhleli nani ezinhlakeni zakho!".

Kumuntu omdala uMelancholic, njengengane eyasinda kumdanso wokudansa, noma ngubani "futhi woza nenkampani ye-kebabs" noma umane "asizijabulise" kubangela amandla okudangala. Ngakho-ke, indlela ebi kunazo zonke yokubopha ubungani nge-melancholic ukugxeka indlela yakhe yokuphila engiyijwayele futhi izama ukuyikhumbula.