Kukholakala ukuthi uchwepheshe wangempela uyi-Shaolin Monk kanye nesitekisi kumuntu oyedwa: Ayikho imizwa, akukho lutho olukhulu kakhulu, wonke umuntu ungumfokazi. Futhi bonke abanye abantu bayizihlobo ezithile ze-roboc eziqinile zezinzwa.
Futhi ngokuzumayo sabona ukuthi imizwa ngandlela-thile icindezela kakhulu wonke umuntu. Ikakhulu ekwindla. Ngakho-ke, sanquma ukwenza ukukhetha okuwusizo kakhulu kwezincwadi ezizokusiza ukuletha ikhanda lakho ngokulandelana. Ikhanda nenhliziyo, eKarl. Imvamisa ayiyona eLada. Ngokuvamile, izincwadi ezivela endlini yokushicilela "Mann, Ivanov kanye ne-Ferber" yi-Spiderman kumele ibe nayo. Funda!Phila ngomuzwa
Esekuqaleni, le ncwadi ibizwa nge- "Desire Map", futhi, akusekho ngokwengozi. Umlobi uDaniella Laport uhlongoza ukuphenya indlela yendabuko yokubeka izinhloso empilweni ngemilenze ekhanda bese ubona ukuthi kuzokwenzekani kukho. Kungani silwela okuthile, kodwa ngokuphelele singacabangi ngemizwa nemizwa ezokuletha? Ngabe kunengqondo kakhulu ukuqala ngaleyo mizwa nemizwa ofuna ukuyithola? Vuma ukuthi "inkululeko", "ubulili", "ukujabulisa" kuzwakala kukhangeke kakhulu kune- "Thenga i-sofa entsha" noma "iya eholidini"?
Unomhlangano obalulekile. Uyasaba yini. Ufuna ngempela ukuthi ihambe kahle. Bheka esibukweni ungitshele iqiniso: Ngiyasaba. Kubaluleke kakhulu kimi ukuthi umhlangano uhambe kahle. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngifuna ukuzizwa nginamandla futhi nginobuciko, ngifuna ukuba ngumholi nothando. Ngakho-ke, ubuqili bakho bukuthembe. Uthembekile kuwe. Futhi kuyasiza ngempela.
Ukuphupha akunangozi
Le ncwadi yaphuma eminyakeni engaphezu kwengama-35 edlule - ngo-1979 futhi isakujabulela ukuthandwa okuhlanya. Yini imfihlo? Impendulo ilula kakhulu: Le yincwadi yangempela yalabo abafuna ukuzithola bephila futhi babone ubukhulu. Indlela esebenzayo nobulula besethulo yenza incwadi ebaluleke ngempela. Ungakuthola kanjani lokho okufunayo ngempela? Ungasabi kanjani futhi ungabuyi emuva ngomzuzu wokugcina? Ungawathola kanjani amandla futhi ukholelwe ephusheni lakho? UBarbara Cher uyazi izimpendulo!
Uma uthanda ukucula ... cula! Emphefumulweni, ekuseni, wonke amandla amaphaphu, njengamanje. Ngiyakuthanda ukucula. Ngihlale ngicula ekhishini. Angidingi ukubuyekezwa okuhle, futhi ngigqoke, kuzokuthatha kanjani ekhanda lami! Ngokujulile, thatha izifundo zezwi. Kungani kungenjalo?
Yini iphupho
Lokhu ukuqhubeka kwencwadi edlule yeBarbara Cher. I-Dream, kunjalo, ayinangozi, kepha nansi i-SNAG: Abaningi abazi noma abaqondi ukuthi bafuna ukuphupha ngani! Mayelana Nobuchwepheshe Bomsebenzi? Bored. Mayelana nomndeni omkhulu? Bored. Mayelana nenqwaba yemali? Bored. Akukho ngisho nalokho okuyisidina, kepha ngandlela thile akukudonli ephusheni. Umbhali usiza ekuzizwisise, qaphela ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngempela, yiziphi izinyathelo ezibalulekile ukukwenzela lokhu, futhi ufundise ukuphila ukuze ekuseni, ngithanda ukuqala ngokushesha futhi. Kuzwakala ukulinga kakhulu!
Vumela - Ukugcina ekhaya, hhayi eFerris yendawo yonke hhayi phambi kothile - phuma kimi. Cabanga nje ngokuthi yiNkosi uKong. Lapho intukuthelo ithambile, iba nemicabango mayelana nokuziphindisela koSathane, okuyo, ongayisebenzisa. Kuzokuhlekisa futhi ugcine ezinsukwini zentukuthelo. Futhi-ke ikhanda lizocacisa, futhi uzosibona kahle lesi simo.
Umlilo wokuthuthuka!
Ngegama, umcabango udweba inoveli yeLadiesky ngokubopha okuthambile nge-sultry muhle kwisembozo, kepha akunjalo. Inkulumo encwadini ngokuyinhloko yokuthi ungasabi kanjani umlilo wezifiso zakho, ungayivula kanjani inhliziyo yakho uhambe kuye ngokuthi ungathembeka kanjani futhi ungayeki. Futhi-ke, ngenkululeko yangaphakathi ukuze ube yilowo ofuna ukuba yiyo. Izifiso zakho umlilo wakho bukhoma odinga ukuvikela nokunakekela, okunikeza impilo kanye namandla okwenza konke ngokufanele kanjani. Ungaqoqa kanjani izinkuni nezehlukanise umlilo wezulu - encwadini kaDaniella Laport.
Udinga ukunaka kakhulu iqiniso lokuthi kunembile futhi kufanelekile ukudlulisa ubunjalo bakho bangempela, futhi ungakhathazeki ngokuthi uzocabangani ngawe. Khombisa isibindi esanele sokusitshela kumakhasimende akho, abalandeli, abasekeli - mayelana nezinhloso zakho zesibindi, ngoba sizokusiza ukuba uzuze. Ungamangali lapho othile ezothuka. Uma izenzo zakho zingabangeli umehluko, khona-ke awukhombisi ngokuphelele.
Vula inhliziyo kanye nobuchopho
Sijwayele ukucabanga ukuthi abantu bobuchwepheshe bokudala bahlelwe kahle empilweni yeyunithi, abanye bahlale becishe basebenzele kanye nokusebenza kanzima. Sinezindaba: Akunjalo! Incwadi ye-Compatriot Daria Bikbaeva yethu iqoqo lamathuluzi alula futhi aqondakalayo asiza ukudala futhi afike kuwo awagcini nje ngokuthokozela, kodwa futhi nemali! Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyo uzothola indaba eningilizayo yokuthi ungaqala kanjani futhi uthuthukise ibhizinisi lokudala, ngezibonelo ezahlukahlukene. UDariyu utshela udaba lwakhe njengomunye wobufakazi obuningi bokuthi indlela yalo isebenza ngempela.
Khetha amandla okushayela aphumelela kakhulu okwamanje. "Ngifuna": Uma uchaza kahle lokho okufunayo, uyini umgomo (iphupho) ofaka kulo mzuzu, kuzoba lula ukunquma ukuthi ungafika kanjani kukho. "Ngiyakwazi": Lokho okusebenzayo ngempela ukuthi kuvame ukudunyiswa kakhulu, - leli ithalente lakho unikezwe ukuzalwa.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwelayisi
Akuvumelekile ukuthi ungakuhluphi! Le ncwadi ingukukhethwa okuphelele kwamasu wokucabanga wokudala! Amaphazili amaningi, izimfihlakalo, imidlalo kanye nokuzivocavoca okuzokusiza ukuthi ufunde ukucabanga ngobuhlakani, okungeyona eyejwayelekile. Umlobi, uMichael Mikalco, uzuze amasu hhayi nje ososayensi, kodwa kusukela ochwepheshe be-NATO kanye nesikhungo socwaningo se-CIA! Angingabazi ukuthi kufanele akhombise izindlela ezingezona ezijwayelekile kuzona zozimbili lezi zigameko, ngakho-ke i-dude ingathenjwa! Yebo, esimweni esibi kakhulu, kumnandi kakhulu!
Zinikeze inkululeko ephelele futhi ungahlali uhlolisise imibono evelayo kusuka endaweni yokubukwa kwe-sanity. Enye yezinkinga eziphathelene nokuvikelwa kwemvelo yinkinga yokulahlwa kwezitsha zangasese zangasese zakudala, ezisathatha imfucumfucu egcwele izinto ezigcwele. Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi uthi: Ungasusa kanjani izitsha zendlu yangasese? ". Enye yezimo okungenzeka, ngokwesibonelo, njengoba: "Kuthiwani uma nje uphonsa amathoyilethi ama-porfeliali olwandle?"
Hug abasebenzi bakho
Emsebenzini usebenzisa isikhathi sakho esiningi, ngaphezu komndeni nabangane, ngaphezu kothandekayo wakho! Kunengqondo ukuthi abantu abakuzungezile kufanele bathandeke kuwe? Le ncwadi iyinhlangano yangempela yolwazi kulabo bantu abafuna ukwakha iqembu langempela, ubudlelwano lapho kusekelwe ekuzwelaneni, ukwethembana nokujabulisa. Inezibonelo eziningi ezijabulisayo nezindaba ezifundisayo, kanye nezincomo ze-KIP zonke, ukuthi zenza kanjani wonke umuntu ukuba azungeze abajabule ngokwengeziwe. Trifle, futhi kuhle kanjani!
Kufanele wenze njalo ukuthi wonke umuntu wayezwa ababambiqhaza enqubweni yokwenza izinqumo namasu okuvunyelwa. Lokhu kungatholakala ngokusebenzisa izimiso ezinhlanu zokubamba iqhaza ezisiza ukudala umyalo owodwa. Mema: Ungameme umuntu ukuthi axoxe, yilabo kuphela abanolwazi kulolu daba okuxoxwe ngalo. Bese uzama ukukwenza ngendlela yomuntu siqu kakhulu.
Amatekisi omsebenzi!
Ngaphakathi kwesisebenzi se-google, ukuthi wonke umuntu uhlelwe kanjani nokuthi kungani bafuna ukusebenza nabo kuphela. Kuthunyelwe ngumongameli wakhe ophika lwabasebenzi beLeslo Side, futhi uzofunda lokho:
- Udinga ukufunda hhayi kuphela kubasebenzi bakho abakhulu, kodwa futhi okubi kakhulu;
- Udinga ukukhokha "Ungenzi lutho";
- Qasha labo abanobuhlakani kunawe - noma ngabe kufanele ubheke isikhathi eside kakhulu;
- Imininingwane ethi "inkulu" ithembeke kakhulu kunencazelo yakho;
- Uma ungenalo ukungakhululeki kusuka eqinisweni lokuthi wanikeza inkululeko eningi kubasebenzi, khona-ke wanikeza inkululeko enkulu.
Lapho nje ungalinganisa ukubaluleka kwemizamo yakho, kuzokwazi ukubheka isabelomali semali bese unquma, ukuthi ijika lemholo lakho kufanele lakhiwe kanjani. Uma isisebenzi esihle kunazo zonke sidala amanani amahlandla ayi-10 ngaphezu kwesilinganiso, akudingeki ukuthi athole ezinye izikhathi eziyi-10. Kepha ngibheja ukuthi njalo kwabafundi abahlanu.