Ukudlula esikhungweni esifanayo sokuthenga amahlandla afanayo, naka izimpawu zokukhangisa. Ukukala ukuthi bashintsha kanjani ngonyaka owedlule, iminyaka emibili, abathathu. Zingaki izitolo ezintsha, ama-ejensi okuhamba, abalungisa izinwele bavulwa? Futhi zingaki izindawo ezindala ezivalekile? Umfanekiso, futhi ngezinye izikhathi, ukungacabangi kunezimpawu zesikhathi sethu. Era velocity: Lapho uthwala usuku lonke kungaqondakali ukuthi kuphi, ngani.
Ezinye izimpawu zithathelwa indawo abanye, abanye abasebenzi beza, abanye - hamba. Konke okunye kungokwesibili, yonke iminithi. Yibuphi ubudlelwano kuleli zwe lejubane lokukhanya okunelungelo lokuphila? Konke okuzungezile kuyantekenteka, mncane futhi kuyashesha.
Ubudlelwano lapho ingxenye yesibili ihlala iseduze, egumbini elilandelayo - ntofontofo. Uma usuvele uhambisane empilweni yansuku zonke futhi isikhathi eside ndawonye, ungacwila kulokhu kuhlangana.
Ubudlelwano bukude buyinto ethize. Kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi ayiqondakali. Abantu bakholelwa ukuthi bakhe umndeni nomuntu owenzela amakhulukhulu, izinkulungwane zamakhilomitha ziwukuhlola okungaphezu kwamaqiniso. Kepha kuthiwani uma kunemizwa eqinile, ukuqonda?
Ngendlela efanayo nesimo se-stereotype yesidingo somshado uthatha eyakhe, kancane kancane uqonde ukuthi uthando lungenzeka kude. Ukwahlulela ukuqina kwawo kunzima, ngoba kunezinto ezihluke ngokuphelele. Omunye ufinyelela ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi eCanada nomndeni eRussia. Enye ayinakuphila buthule ngisho nangeqiniso elisebenza endaweni eyodwa, futhi indlu isedolobheni.
Nquma ngezifiso zakho. Kungaba kuhle ukukala, usukulungele ukuthi umlingani ulungele ukwethemba ngaphandle kokuthi kungenzeka "ukubheka". Khuluma naye ngethemba lokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo bakho, ngalokho okuzoba nobumbano, hhayi ukwehluka. Isibonelo, iholide elabiwe, elizofika kubani nokuthi lizofika kangaki. Khuluma ngakho konke okukhathazeke ngokwesaba okubonayo. Uma wenza kahle inkinga noma umbuzo, khona-ke uyakuqonda, futhi ngokufanele, funa isisombululo ndawonye silula futhi sisheshe.
Izinzuzo: Kuhlala kukhona okusha, okusha ebudlelwaneni, imininingwane emisha. Isikhathi samahhala singachithwa ukuthi singalungisi ama-pancake, kodwa ku-yoga noma ukuqina. Uma uthanda ukugibela, khona-ke othandekayo wakho uyisizathu esihle sokuhamba ngaphezulu.
Cons: Kwesinye isikhathi ufuna ukusondela kwe-tactile lapho kungekho umlingani oseduze nalo, into yokungathembani ("futhi kwenzeka kanjani ngaphandle kwami?"