Konke sekuphelile. Uthando alusekho. Utamatisi oboshwe. Kanye nemali ... imali? Ngani? KWANI?..
Ubufakazi bokuqala bokuthi othile waphoqeleka ukuba akhokhe okuqukethwe ngemuva kokuphela kwempilo ehlangene, kusekhona amakhodi we-hamurapi. Isigaba 137 Isibonelo, sithi: "Uma umuntu efuna ukushiya umkakhe ambelethile, khona-ke lona wesifazane kufanele abuyise umshado wakhe, anikele, akhiphe isigamu sensimu, ingadi nempahla, amkhulise izingane zawo; Ngemuva kokukhula kwakhe, kufanele anikeze indlalifa eyodwa, ahlanganyele kukho konke okwanikezwa izingane zakhe, bese umyeni ayekuthandayo angawuthatha umshado wakhe. "
Umthetho wasendulo waseRoma odingekayo ukuze uqukathe izingane ezizalwa emshadweni, noma ngabe lo mshado udilikile (njengoba nje khumbula, amaRoma ayenezinhlobo eziningana zomshado osemthethweni, futhi iningi lazo livumela isehlukaniso ngokuphelele).
Imithetho yeConfucius, kunathi, izingane ezinesibopho sokugcina ubaba wazo.
Imithetho yaseYurophu yesikhathi esisha ingaphoqa futhi igcine umyeni ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, naphezu, futhi "owayezimisele okwabo kuphela okwabhalwa kwinkontileka yomshado, kodwa kwesinye isikhathi," ojwayelene nezinga Impilo. " Iqiniso liyaziwa lapho i-Russian Coutess ikhokhwa ekubambezelweni kwe-alimony ngumyeni waseFrance, yize ngokwakhe ayesedingeka kakhulu.
Imithetho yesimanje yaseRussia ephikisana nalokhu, ngokuvamile, inengqondo impela. U-Alimony kufanele akhokhe umuntu onamandla uma amaqabunga ngaphandle kokunakekelwa kwakhe akhubazekile lapho ayengaphambi kwalowo mndeni. Le yingane yomzali, ingane endala enomzali wakudala noma ogulayo, oshade naye ogulayo. Njengoba sibona, izihlobo kuphela zezinga lokuqala zingaphansi kokuphoqelelwa. Akunakwenzeka ukwenza ugogo wakhe, udadewethu, nomshana wakhe.
Kubukeka sengathi konke kucacile. Kepha akunandaba ukuthi cha. I-RunET igcwele ukumemeza kwabesifazane nabesilisa mayelana nokuthi ngubani, ngubani, ukuthi kungubani nokuthi ngubani ophindayo ngokusemthethweni. Umbhalo okhulume kakhulu esawubamba, owabhalwa yindoda ecasulayo, futhi uqhathanisa ingane nemoto, ngokuhlangene ethathwe ngesikweletu. Konke bekungeke kube yilutho kuze kube yilapho umbhali eqala ukukhononda ngokungenzeki ukuthengisa le moto ngokuphelele noma ngemininingwane. Ngokwemininingwane, Karl!
Ngempela, umemukeli we-alimony (ingane) uqala ukuvela njengohlobo oluthile lwefenisha, ngenxa yokuthi umuntu angamfaka okuthile okuthile. Futhi lo mbono ukhombisa izinga langempela lokucabanga kwabantu abaningi emhlabeni, hhayi kuphela ama-macrost yethu.
Kepha, ngokwanele, kukhona okusanhlamvu okunempilo ezingxabanweni zomshayeli. Leli igama elithi "Loan". Noma yikuphi ukukhishwa kwemali kwemali mboleko ethathiwe (futhi kusetshenziswe isikhathi eside) isikhathi eside. Kulula ukuthi lokhu kuqondise isibonelo se-Alimony kubazali. Uyakhula? Lapha, nikeza okubi kakhulu.
Ingane nayo ihlala - ukuthenga ngesikweletu. Uma nje umuntu engekho ezinyaweni zakhe uqobo, kudingeka atshale imali, futhi atshale imali, futhi atshale imali. Futhi kuthiwani ekugcineni? Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu omusha. Nawe? Ungeyona into ebonakalayo (ngaphandle kokuthi kungenzeka, i-alimony ephambene ubudala). Ungaqhathanisa nokwakhiwa kwebhuloho, isonto, ipaki noma itshe lesikhumbuzo emalini yakho: awukwazi ukubeka ephaketheni lami, ungadli, ngaphandle kokuthi isibonakaliso ngegama lakho singafakwa. Qaphela ukuthi bese uphule uma umphumela ungahambelani, ngeke banikeze noma. Iqiniso lokuthi unalo ezimbili ukukhokha kwephrojekthi, alikwenzi impahla yakho. Ngokumangazayo.
Ake sibheke ukuthi udinga ini umdinga umntwana ochumayo edolobheni elichumayo laseRussia ukusekela le nhlala-kahle. Ake sithi ingane isivele ingena engadini noma esikoleni, kepha ingakafinyeleli iminyaka eyi-12. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ingane ngenyanga kufanele ikhokhe inani lezinkulungwane ezi-2-4 esikhungweni; Ingane idinga izingubo ngeminyaka, ingane kumele yondliwe. Sizothatha imininingwane yokukholwa kwezibalo zombuso: Ubuncane be-Workissence enganeni kwikota yesithathu ka-2015 kwakungama-ruble angama-9396 ngenyanga. Khokha uhhafu wale mali kungaba ngisho umlintshi.
Futhi konke? Akunandaba ukuthi kanjani. Ingane eneminyaka engaba ngu-12 ubudala, njengoba sonke sikhumbula, awukwazi ukushiya eyodwa. Kuyadingeka ukumnakekela. Emndenini (ezintweni ezijwayelekile), lo msebenzi usatshalaliswa kumalungu omndeni phakathi kwawo, noma othile usebenza wedwa kancane, afunde okuncane futhi aphumule ukwedlula enye, eyayinelungelo lokubala amakhukhi athile. Kepha manje akukhangeli kithi ukuthi kuxazululwa kanjani emndenini, sixoxa ngokuthi sihlukane kanjani ngokulinganayo.
Ingane kufanele futhi iqoqwe futhi ishiywe engadini noma esikoleni amahlandla angamashumi amabili nanhlanu ngenyanga, iveze kusuka enkulisa noma yandise amahlandla amahlandla amabili ngenyanga, ilele. Ungathola kanjani ukuthi kubiza malini? Sicacisa intengo yentengo yensabi. (Njengoba wazi, noma yimuphi umsebenzi umi kakhulu njengoba udinga ukukhokhela ukuze ungakwenzi). Ngakho-ke, ngaphandle kwezinsuku, kuphela ngezinsuku zokusebenza, amahora okusebenza angu-5-6 athatha amahora angama-5-6 asebenza. 125-150 amahora okusebenza ngenyanga. Lowo mzali ongasebenzelani nengane ngezinsuku ngokwawo, emcabangweni, ngesigamu kulokhu, waqasha umhlengikazi noma uqashe umzali wesibili njengomhlengikazi (okungukuthi, ukhokha umsebenzi owenziwa ngumzali wesibili kuye ). Noma ngaphandle kokunaka impelasonto ne-arvi engenakugwenywa, sekuyimali ehluke ngokuphelele.
Ngokuvamile, sizwelana kakhulu nangozwela ngokufudumele nalabo bantu asebandakanyeke kuphrojekthi ye-State Develoc Project, akuhlangene nakancane, ngaphansi kwalokho okubhaliselwe. Cabanga nje - Amanye amazwe athi u-anti wombuso aza kuwe futhi enikeza ukuhambisana nokwakhiwa kwenkundla yemidlalo yaseshashalazini enhle. Ngokugcwele ngemali yakho kanye nemali yakho yozakwethu. Ngokufakwa iminyaka engama-20-30. Cha, ngeke kwenzeke ukweqa. Yebo, iphrojekthi kungenzeka kube nzima, kuzoba nezinkinga zakho. Ugcwele umlingani futhi ushaye ngenjabulo "yebo-a !!!"
Ngakho-ke, noma yimuphi umzali nguye owenze. Othile unenhlanhla, nomsebenzi wakho wobuciko unyaka nonyaka ngaphezulu kwamehlo, futhi imizamo ikhokha ngokucacile. Futhi othile wayenomthakathi, eshiya umlingani wangaphambili wonke izinkokhelo ezimbili.
Umbuso manje ukhokhisa i-Alimony ukuthi izingane, ukuthi abazali, abashadile, hhayi ngezinga elithi "Ukuphila lingakanani ilungu lomndeni elikhubazekile", kodwa kungakanani okuthathwe ku-ardition ". Uma amaphesenti ajwayelekile abalwa ngumholo osemthethweni aphansi kangangokuba ayifinyeleli uhhafu wobuncane bokudla, khona-ke ungafuna izinkokhelo ngesilinganiso esinqunyelwe, imvamisa ama-ruble ayizinkulungwane ezinhlanu. Kodwa-ke, futhi kuwukuqala - umsebenzi wonke. Futhi lapha uma umzali ohlala nengane empeleni ukushukumisayo ngengane uqobo nenhlalakahle yakhe, hhayi ngokuthi "ukuchitha" ama-Khazaras angenangqondo, "kunengqondo ukuqhubeka ngenye indlela futhi ulethe ukuncishiswa kwamalungelo wabazali.
Kungabazali abashiya izingane futhi abangazange bakhulekele amashumishumi eminyaka ngazo, okunelukuluku, kuvame ukuvela ezimweni zokululama kwe-alimony ezinganeni. Futhi kungaba wusizo ngokwengeziwe ukunciphisa umzali wethuba elinjalo. Kodwa-ke, icala ngalinye lesikweletu se-alimony kumele libhekwe ngokwahlukana. Njenganoma yisiphi esinye ukuqothuka kwesikweletu.