- Gcina indoda ?! Uyakudinga? - Dinga? - Okwani? - Ngifuna ngempela! Well, kusukela "kuyadingeka", khona-ke udinga ukunquma ukuthi kungani. Ngemuva kwakho konke, izinhloso ezahlukene ziphakamisa izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokuzifinyelela.
Nazi ezinye izinketho: 1. Umlando "wokulala" omaziyo; 2. Hlala ndawonye okwesikhashana, "bese kuthi umuntu ukhathele, futhi unzima"; 3. "Hambani" ushade ukuze ubelethe ingane, wephule, hlukanisa impahla futhi wamukele i-alimony; 4. Shada futhi uphile ngenenjabulo.Ngakho-ke, ungayifinyelela kanjani umgomo wakho ...
Uma udinga "ubulili" kuphela, yize ngingakholelwa ngempela, - Ngemuva kwalokho, wena ngokwakho uyazi konke: amapende amaningi ebusweni bakho, ubuncane bezingubo, uthele lonke utshwala, bukani. Vakashela Izindawo Zokubuyisana ... Konke! Kungekudala kuzoba ne-Maobel, ngomqondo wenja ... kahle, indoda enjalo edinga "ukufakwa" kothile, - bese uthola ".
Inketho yesibili izokudinga umzamo nesikhathi esincane esizodingeka ukuthi ubukeke kahle, uziphathe kahle, hhayi ukuwuphika, futhi kancane kancane, lapho isobho lemifino (le yilapho isobho lemithi (le yiphi i-borsch) uzofinyelela okwakho - "Iklayenti" lizobe lilungile. Futhi-ke kuyavela, ungahle uhambe kahle kude nenhloso 2 kwenye.
Ngeke sikhethe isinkwa kusuka kuzazi zezengqondo sibhalela izihloko "zabesifazane" futhi zitshele ukuthi zizofinyelela kanjani izinhloso uNombolo 3 no-№4. Inethiwekhi igcwele izeluleko ngokuthi "Ungayithola kanjani", "Ungabamba kanjani" ukucisha kanjani ", njll.
Engxenyeni enkulu, lonke iseluleko sochwepheshe bezengqondo kwabesifazane emkhakheni we- "Capture" Men bazoyinciphisa, basebenzise ithuba lokuthola isimo sabo "sokulunga" emagcemeni ahlukahlukene (u-OkHot "kuma-1 kuye ku-4).
Ukuze ukhohlise, okungukuthi, ukuze uzifakele: Umfanekiso wangaphandle okhangayo, onobuhle futhi ofanele wowesifazane "wanamuhla".
Thatha ithuba lesifundazwe esithi "esingenakusiza", okungukuthi, ukufezekisa ukulawula umuntu ngenkathi ingqondo yakhe "iboniswe" futhi "epholile" ngombono wezingxenye zomzimba wabesifazane ngaphandle kwezingubo. "OkHomat", okungukuthi, ukufeza noma yimuphi umgomo ohlwini.
Lokhu ukwakheka kwenkohliso: Ukwebiwa noma ukutholwa kwelungelo lempahla yomunye umuntu ngokukhohlisa noma ukuhlukunyezwa kokuzethemba. Okungukuthi, ukuthola izinzuzo ezibonakalayo. "Isisulu" ngokwaso sizidlulisela emandleni okhohlisayo. Ukukopela kungukuhlanekezela kwedatha evumelekile noma okuzenzakalelayo mayelana nabo (idatha evumelekile).
Isimo esingenakusiza "esingokwesisulu": Isimo somuntu ngasizathu esingesona sikwazi ukumelana nodlame, noma sasingazwisisi uhlobo lwezenzo ezenziwayo ngenxa yobudala noma isimo sezengqondo futhi kuyisibonakaliso esifanelekile sokwenza lokhu okunjalo kobugebengu , njengokudlwengulwa.
Iningi lezengqondo emkhakheni wobudlelwano m futhi w fundisa amantombazane ukukhohlisa, ukudukisa, sebenzisa inhlanhla enkulu lapho "umuntu ehlaselwe" etholakala ekufezeni umphumela awadingayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, bafundisa abesifazane njengawo wonke umuntu ngokulandelana kubantu ababazungezile futhi agcwalise lokhu okulula, futhi okuvame ukungcola kwamandla enkunuko. Izimbongi, abaculi, abaqambi, abakwa-choreographs kanye nama-sculptos kungenzeka futhi bahambe emigwaqweni befuna ugqozi, kepha hhayi bonke abantu emigwaqweni yabafundisi bezinkolelo zokudala.
Yebo, owesifazane onjengembali udinga ukunakwa komuntu, kepha kungcono ukujabulela kusuka kumthombo oshaya ngenxa yenu wedwa kunokugijima emigwaqweni ngesikhathi semvula, uzama ukudakwa. Anisoze wazi ukuthi ukuphi futhi yini ngempela ukuthatha emlonyeni.
Yini eluleka izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo?
Kepha babaluleka ukuthi bapendiwe, muhle, nenhle, bajabule, bajabule, banephunga, banukanisa iphunga lamehlo, bakhanyise ngamadolo, bakhanye ngamadolo ... okungukuthi, ikakhulukazi ukuba yilokho Intombazane / umfazi empilweni yansuku zonke akuyona, ukudala kahle ukubonakala kwesithombe sowesifazane, esimnandi kubantu besifazane. Futhi bayalulekwa ukuthi babe yisifazane, kepha abachazi ukuthi kuyini, kepha bakhuluma ngokubonakaliswa kocansi lwabesifazane, bakubiza ngesizathu esithile senzo. Baxoxa nge- "Sales" Feminity, nikeza amasu ahlukahlukene wokuyenga kanye nokuxoshwa nezinhliziyo zesilisa, neminye imizimba.
Ngokumangazayo, izazi eziningi zezengqondo - abesifazane bavuma ubuntu besifazane ngezinga elithile noma elinye "emisebenzini" yabo "bachaza amadoda abubi. Inkinga yonke yabesifazane nabesifazane bezengqondo ukuthi babheka amadoda ezinganeni ezinkulu, ezingadinga ukuphatha injabulo yazo ngempumelelo.
Ngithanda ukukhumbula ukuthi emkhakheni we-psychology esetshenzisiwe, ikakhulukazi i-psychology yobudlelwano phakathi kwe-M no-J Deftersters ngaphezu kwalokho engingathanda. Ubudlelwano babantu - into eqotho futhi engapheli, indlela yokuthuthuka yayo ehlanekezelwe yimihlangano ehlukahlukene kanye nokukhohlisa.
"Ukuthengisa" ubufakusi kungukubukeka: I-Manicure, i-hairstyle entsha yansuku zonke, ukugqoka "kusuka kuCouture", ukuqina, ukuyothenga, izitolo "zowesifazane ozihlikihla" ngokuthengisa "ubufazi bathi kungenzeka ukuthi babone wena kanye" Shayela impilo »amandla abesifazane.
Izazi zezengqondo zinenzuzo, - zixhaphaza imizwa yabantu elula, ephansi, ephansi, abayitholayo.
Futhi inhliziyo yabesifazane iphendula kukho konke lokhu ngento emnandi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, "ukuthengisa" ubufakusi bavumela abathwali bakhe ukuba balawule amadoda ngomzimba wabo futhi bathole izinzuzo ezahlukahlukene zokuphila.
Kepha hhayi ubufazi bangaphandle obudinga amadoda. Ukuvela kwesikhathi njengembali, okuyiyo izolo izolo, futhi yacishwa kusasa. Amadoda awanandaba nokubukeka kwabesifazane, kepha kungomasifazane uNatura.
Futhi kuwo wonke umlando owaziwayo wesintu, imvelo yabesifazane ayikashintshi, - izinganekwane, ama-epics, imifanekiso, imicikilisho, izinkolelo, izincwadi zobuciko kanye nemibhalo yobuciko yithawula kulokhu. Kanye nabagcini abashisekayo nabasezingeni eliphezulu bayo yonke imicikilisho nemithetho yabesifazane.
Kungenzeka ubuntu besifazane kuphela obanakalisiwe. Ukukhishwa kwengezwe kokubi kwabesifazane kwabesilisa, ngakho-ke ama-feminists anjalo "abi".
Ngendlela, ubufazi badalwa ngamadoda, ukuze bagcwalise amafektri namafektri ekuqaleni kokubukeka kwabo kwabesifazane abashibhile futhi banika amandla abesifazane ukuthi balahle imali abayitholayo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, abathengi abaphambili bakwabesifazane. Futhi asikhulumi ngokudla nezingubo zezingane.
Izindima zabesilisa nabesifazane zemvelo manje sezifiphele kakhulu futhi zithathelwa indawo yizinganekwane nangama-surrogates. Ngakho-ke ukudideka nokudideka ebudlelwaneni, kanye nokungcola nobuphukuphukule ngeseluleko sochwepheshe bezengqondo.
Kanye nobufazi bangempela, ukuheha izinhliziyo zabesilisa, kuyisenzo: ububele, ukuzwela, ukuthamba, ukuzinikela, imizwa (ukungathathina, ukuzwela, ukuthakazelisa, amandla okuthemba umuntu futhi ekugcineni ubuthakathaka.
Ubuntu besifazane buveza kanjani kuze kube phakade?
Amadoda athi intombazane ibukeka njengezinwele ezinde, igqoke ingubo ende ende noma isudi ende eziphatha ngesizotha, ngokuzethemba, ngomqondo wokuzethemba.
Ucansi lungaba yindoda kuphela, enkambweni yobudala, lapho ikwazi ngokomzimba ukwenza ubulili. Uma othile enquma ukuthi ngaphandle, ubulili kufanele abonakaliswe ekungeneni kwamadoda anezinhlangothi "ze-chalivily", zimemeza "AH" lapho kuvela khona abesifazane. Usazama ukuqhathanisa nokuziphatha kwamadoda ngamakati "Mashi".
Ubulili bendoda bubonakaliswa ebuhlakani bakhe, bathola impumelelo ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene zokuphila, ukuchuma kwayo, isimo esihle somzimba, inkulumo enhle, njll.
Kepha ubulili ukuheha kowesifazane. Futhi izeluleko eziningi zehla ukufundisa amantombazane ukukhombisa izimpawu ezithile zangaphandle zalobulili. Amantombazane afundiswa kuphela "akhonze" iso lendoda, okungukuthi, ukuzichaza kuphela emkhakheni wemizwa.
Wonke amathiphu ancishiswa kuphela ngaphandle kobuntu bomuntu. Kepha ukubukeka kumane uswidi. Futhi kwenzeka kangakanani lapho uthatha uswidi ngenxa yokuhlanganiswa kwakhe okugqamile futhi okuhle, nangaphakathi kwesiwula se-unisex noma ebukhazikhazi.
Umbono ongelona iqiniso wazo zonke izinsizwa ukukala umhlaba wangaphakathi wentombazane ngokubukeka kwakhe. Amadoda amancane nabangenalwazi ngokuhlukahluka ayakholelwa, uma intombazane ikhanga ngaphandle, khona-ke ilungile noMila.
Ngobufazi, njengoba nobudoda sinezinkinga. Abesifazane abaningi babukeka be-unisex, gqoka tattoo, ukubhoboza, ukusika kokuhamba, kusongwe ngemibandela, - umama-like friki nabesifazane ...
Abanye - izisulu zokuhlinzwa kwepulasitiki, zizama ukuchaza "ngawo" futhi ngaphandle, ukuhlanganisa imicabango yabantu bongqingili "Couturiers" ezingutsheni nasekubukekeni.
Ubufazi, kanye nobudoda, akuzona izici zangaphakathi, konke kuyakhuliswa. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukuphila impilo yakho nendoda, awudingi ukumbamba futhi unqobe.
Impilo yinhle futhi ihlukahlukene kakhulu. Kumuntu ngamunye kuzoba yisinqumo saso. Yiba ngokwakho futhi ungathembeli ngokuphelele ekubukekeni kwakho. Akunandaba noma ngabe ukhonze kanjani, uzokujwayela noma kunjalo. Uma ukudonsela kuphela ukubukeka kuphela, khona-ke kuyisiwula ukumangala ukuthi awukazanga ukwakhiwa ngezinhlamvu nokuthi amadoda ayedwa futhi adingekayo. " Lapho ayekhona ukubona umphefumulo wakho omuhle, uma usifihla ngokungafanele ngokubukeka okukhanyayo.
Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi kungani abantu behlukana? Funda indatshana yezengqondo.