Abesifazane babehlale beyimfihlakalo - asikwazi ukubathanda lezo, ngisho nezenzo ezesabi kakhulu zithola izincazelo futhi zithethelele lokho okungenakwenzeka ukuthethelela. Kepha kufanelekile ukungakhohlwa ukuthi impilo imfushane kakhulu ukushintshana ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi nendoda engafanele. Ngakho-ke, hhayi ukuchitha isikhathi sakho esingenalutho, phula ubudlelwane uma ...
Indoda ichitha izandla
Komunye umuntu, kubonakala kungubumbano wokuthi konke kucace bha - uma owesilisa eshaya, khona-ke udinga ukuhamba ngaphandle kokucabanga. Kepha, njengoba umkhuba wangempela khombisa, owesifazane uzoqhamuka nezizathu eziningi nokuthethelela, kungani indoda enze njalo nokuthi kungani kungathethelelwa kakhulu: Unesikhathi esinzima manje / nginecala, njll. Khumbula kanye naphakade - uma eshaya umuntu wesifazane, lokhu akuseyona indoda futhi nakanjani ikuphinde futhi. Uma ufuna ukonga ubuhle bakho nempilo - gijimani endodeni enjalo ngaphandle kokubheka emuva futhi ungakholelwa izithembiso.Uthi ngeke ulimaze ukwehlisa isisindo
Ngokuvamile, uma indoda ihlala igxile ebubini bowesifazane wakhe, abavame ukumcabanga, akukho okuhle ukulinda ubudlelwane obunjalo. Owesifazane onamahlazo, umgxeka njalo futhi uzama ukulungisa ngokubona kwakhe, indoda eyayinikezile. Akudingeki ukuthi akhulume ngothando oluvela kuye, ebudlelwaneni obunjalo owesifazane ngeke ajabule, kepha ingozi yokuthola ukuzithemba okuphansi kanye nokulimala okuningi kwengqondo.
Kukhona, kunjalo, okuhlukile. Lapho intombazane isisindo ngokwedlulele, kanye nengqikithi yokuvuvukala, indoda ikhathazekile hhayi ngokubonakala kwenenekazi lakhe, kodwa futhi nangempilo yakhe. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokumlalela, impela nje, ukuthi ungakhubeka kanjani ngabo, vele uzibheke ohlangothini bese unikeza isimo sakho isilinganiso esihle.
Umuntu akakholelwa kuwe
Uma owesilisa engahlanganyeli nenjabulo owakhulela emsebenzini, banikeza umklomelo njengesisebenzi esingcono, uma ebeka amalungelo akho namaphupho akho, kodwa ngiyamangala ukuthi umuntu othile wakubonga kuwe Futhi akukho lutho okufanele ukwenze eceleni kwakhe. Ukuba se-pair nendoda enjalo, owesifazane ekukhuleni kwawo kuzoba ukugqolozela kakhulu, futhi kubi, 'bulala "ukuzethemba kwakhe.Uhlala esola umuntu
Enye yezimpawu zobudlelwano obunobuthi ukuba yisisulu kuzo ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo. Uma owesilisa esolwa njalo ngokuthile uhulumeni, umphakathi, abaphathi, izihlobo, abangane nabo bonke - konke - lokhu kumayelana nezinto eziningi. Akakwazanga ukuzinikela ngokwakhe, amukele ukwehluleka kwakhe, okusho ukuthi akakwazi ukusebenza ngamaphutha futhi enze konke njengoba kufanele. Uma kunezinkinga emndenini womuntu onjalo, ziyozixazulula ukuba zibe kumkakhe.
Awuthembi indoda yakho
Umuntu ngamunye unamaqhude abo nezinkinga, futhi lokhu kuyinto evamile. Kuhle kakhulu, uma ukuzethemba kubusa ngobhangqwana futhi bobabili bangakhuluma nemiphefumulo futhi bakhuluma ngobuhlungu, mayelana nezifiso nokwesaba. Uma ukwethuka ukuvula umlingani, khuluma ngezinto ezikukhathazayo, izakhiwo, njll. - Lokhu kukhombisa ukungathembeki kwakho kwalo, ukuthi ezingeni lokuqonda olilindele kumlingani wakho wokukhaphela. Awukwazi ukujabula futhi ujabulele ukuhlala ndawonye nomuntu ongamethembi. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukubhekana nezizathu zokungathembani, noma ukubopha ubudlelwano obunjalo.