Ngobudlelwano phakathi komakalo mazalo makaMaloka Malungu noma uninazala bakhiwa izingoma, badubula amahlaya futhi babhale ama-anecdotes, lokho nje amajuba amadeli ngokwawo awona lula. Inkinga yaphakade ngomkhwenyana ongabekezeleleki "iyaqhubeka nokuba khona. Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ngandlela thile uxazulule le ngxabano yaphakade? Impela! Into esemqoka ukukhetha amaqhinga afanele futhi anamathele emithethweni eminingana.
Imithetho emibili eyinhloko yayo yonke indodakazi
Rule inombolo 1Into yokuqala yokuqonda umalokazana ukuthi umkhwenzimali awushoyo le mpi engeyena umnikelo kuye, kepha indawo ayithatha ngayo enhliziyweni yendodana yakhe ethandekayo ethandekayo. Muva nje, bekungunina owawungowesifazane ophambili empilweni yendodana yakhe, futhi manje isiphukuphuku sabambelela esisekelweni - umfazi. Ngakho-ke, akufanele uzame ukubuyisela umama wakho owuthandayo, kwanele ukuhlala nje umkakhe onothando.
Rule inombolo 2.
Kusakufaneleka ukukhumbula leso sikhalazo njalo nomyeni wakhe kunina, ngalokho akushoyo, kukhona noma yiziphi izitatimende ezingezinhle esiqondisweni sakhe - konke lokhu kubhubhisa ubuhlobo bakho nothandekayo wakho. Yebo, usengumuntu okhulile futhi ungumfana ozimele, kepha umama kuye uzohlala ehlala esondelana kakhulu nowokuzalwa ongavunyelwe ukuthuka noma ngubani.
Umthetho ofanayo usebenza ngakolunye uhlangothi - ukuqinisa nokwenza ubudlelwano nomkhwekazi, konke kuzosebenza nangomlingi wakhe. Mhlawumbe akakhulumi ngakho, kepha futhi akathandeki ukubheka amahlazo akho.
Umkhwekazi wegolide
Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi lezi zikhona kuphela endaweni yonke ehambisanayo? Futhi nakhu! Isimo sokuthuthuka okunjalo kungenzeka ngaphansi kwezimo ezithile, ngokwesibonelo, uma: • Uhlala ngaphansi kophahla oluhlukile. Kunjalo lapho umndeni omusha uqhubekela kwenye indawo yokuhlala, akunjalo nje ithuba elinjalo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ukungqubuzana okungapheli kuvikelwe kahle. Amaphutha amabili ekhishini nawo. Ukunambitha okuncamelayo, imikhuba, izindlela zokupheka zokupheka, indlela yokuhlanza nokunye okuningi - konke lokhu kuzohlukahluka, futhi umkhwenyana uzama nokufundisa "okulungile", okuyinto ngokwemvelo engahambelani Okokugcina. Kepha maye, kufanele kube khona amathebuli lapha, noma azame ukwakha ama-plustimacy ngokumamatheka okunobungane.
• Ngaphezu kwendoda yakho emndenini kukhona ezinye izingane. Yebo, yebo, uma kukhona omunye umuntu, khona-ke unenhlanhla enkulu. Lapho-ke, ngeke "ukhethe" indodana okuwukuphela kwayo, umkhwekazi woyedwa uzoba umuntu ongaphonsa lonke uthando nokunakekelwa.
• Ibhizinisi loMkhwenyana umama kanye nomuntu omatasa kakhulu. Ngokufanelekile, uma enebhizinisi lakhe noma iyicala eliyintandokazi kakhulu, elihlala lilayishwa njalo. Kulokhu, ngeke nje abe nesikhathi esanele sokukhuphukela emndenini wakho futhi enze isimilo.
Kepha konke kuhluke ngokuphelele uma: • Uhlala nomkhwekazi wami. • Umyeni wakho ungumntwana oyedwa emndenini. • Ingane yakho oyithandayo kakhulu noma ende kakhulu. • Umama onothando wakhuphuka wamkhulisa yedwa, ngenkathi esebenza emisebenzini emi-5. • Umkhwekazi wempesheni kanye nomuntu okhululekile ngokuphelele, ngaphandle kokuzilibazisa.
Izinto eziningi zingezendalo zecala lakho, kuzoba nzima kakhulu ukusungula ubudlelwano, kepha azikho izimo ezingenathemba!
Ungahlangana kanjani nomkhwekazi
Inhlonipho yisikhali esiqinile. Ungenziwa ngezethulo, ezingasuswa kumkhwekazi.
Ungaphenduli ubudlova obukhulu obukhulu, zama ukuhlala ubuhlakani nokuhloniphayo njalo. Uma ukuhlaselwa ukungena kwe-penettation kuzoba njalo futhi kungenangqondo, kungenzeka, lokhu kuzophawula umyeni wakho, akunakwenzeka ukuthi athule akhulume nonina.
Zama ukuthola okuthile okufanayo phakathi kwakho.
Ngenxa umehluko eminyakeni yobudala, ngeke kube lula, kepha ngeke kube yinhle. Mhlawumbe unentshisekelo kwezemidlalo, noma uthanda ukuhamba uyothenga? Noma mhlawumbe uthanda ngempela ukupheka?
Zama ukuhlukanisa ezinye zentshisekelo yakhe, cela imibuzo yakhe kwiZingqikithi lapho ungochwepheshe. Mema i-cinema noma eshashalazini ngokubamba iqhaza komlingisi wakhe othandekayo, vakashela i-salon noma i-spa ndawonye. Ngemuva kwakho konke, yize kunjalo ukuthi umkhwekazi wakho - okokuqala ungowesifazane onezintshisakalo nezifiso ezifanele.
Ungalokothi ukhonze isithandwa sakho kumama wakhe
Amadoda ngokuvamile abekezelela amaslayidi abesifazane, futhi lapho abesifazane ababili abazibandakanyekile kulokhu, akukho lutho oluzosho. Lapho ngakolunye uhlangothi lukankosikazi, kodwa komunye umama, kunzima kuye ukwamukela uhlangothi lomuntu, ngoba lezi zinketho zilahlekelwa ngamabomu. Futhi noma ngabe ngokwezinye izikhathi azivumela ngezinkulumo ezingenasisekelo ezibheke kumama, lokhu akusho ukuthi kuvunyelwe futhi wena.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, akunakwenzeka ukubeka othandekayo wakho ngaphambi kokukhetha "noma mina, noma yena" - amakhosikazi angaba kakhulu, futhi umama ungomunye - okukodwa kusobala. Futhi ukuze bushelelebule ubuhlobo nomkhwekazi womama futhi ungavuli indlela yokuqhuma - noma ngabe uhlala ngaphandle - kwesinye isikhathi ushayela umama wakhe bese uxoxa nje ngempilo yakhe, uzoba nempilo yakhe, uzoba yimpilo yakhe. kuhle.
Ake ngiqonde umamezala okudingayo
Umamezala unzima kakhulu eqinisweni lokuthi umfana othandekayo, owaphakamisa uthando olunjalo nokunakekela isikhathi eside, kungazelelwe kumshiya. Kuze kube manje, waphilela futhi wayizwa isidingo sakhe. Futhi manje ubona ngokwawo ashiywe futhi adingekile, ngoba izinkinga ziqala.
Ungahlehlisa imiphumela yokuqhekeka ngokwakho - ukukhathazeka kwakho ngakho. Kukhona zonke izingcingo kanye nokuxhumana okufanayo, cela kwesinye isikhathi ukukusiza ngokuthile, makaqonde ukuthi usengumuntu ofanele. Iqiniso lokuthi ngenxa yakho lingabonakala lilingqu, lizoba muhle kuye. Ungazami ukuhlanganisa nomuntu ophikisana nomkhwekazi
Akunandaba noma ngangifuna ukwenza lokhu, akunakwenzeka ukwenza lokhu. Izinto ezinjalo azifani ngokuqina nangesinye isikhathi isimo singaphendukela kuwe. Kwesinye isikhathi, ngokweqiniso, ungaxoxa ngephupho, ngokwesibonelo, umkhwekazi kaRuskazni, kepha ungahambi kakhulu. Buyisela idumela ngemuva kokuvezwa nokusungula ubudlelwano cishe akunakwenzeka.
Musa ukweqa izincomo kanye nobunyoninco ukuze umkhwekazi
Yinikazi engayithandi izincomo? Futhi lapho amagama amahle evela kuMalokazana - kuyajabulisa kathathu. Vele, awudingi ukudumisa ngayo yonke into futhi kaningi, uma kungenjalo kuzobukeka njengokuthopha, futhi akekho ongakuthanda. Inani eliphakeme lekhono lowesifazane - kwesinye isikhathi liyabona ukungapheleli kwabo nokuphakama komkhwenyana entweni ethile. Yebo, kungahle kube kubi futhi kunzima - umphumela walokhu okumangalisayo.
Musa ukukhohlisa izingane
Abesifazane abaningi bazama ukusebenzisa ubuciko esindayo futhi baqale ukukhohlisa izingane - bambeka uTaboo wakhe ekukhulumeni nogogo wakhe, bazibekele kuye, njll. Khumbula ubuhlobo bakho nomkhwenyana uyinto eyodwa, unabo abanye abantu. Ezinganeni, uyindoda yendabuko, ugogo wabo futhi akufanele asolwe ngeqiniso lokuthi abantu abadala abakwazi ukusola. Lezi izeluleko eziyinhloko zizosiza eduze komkhwenyana futhi ziqonde izisusa zokuziphatha kwayo.
Njengomthetho, ubunzima obukhulu kakhulu buvela ekuqaleni kwempilo yomndeni. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lapho abantu bejwayelana, bayakhathaza ngezimpawu zawo wonke umuntu, ubudlelwano buqala ukuzithuthukisa. Futhi khumbula, ukwenza isinqumo sokushada nomuntu omthandayo, usamukela ngokuzenzakalelayo zonke izihlobo zakhe.