Ngokushesha nje lapho owesifazane efika eminyakeni ethile noma ashade, iNhlangano ibheka umsebenzi wayo ukumenza umgodi ekhanda lakhe ", futhi uzozala nini umntwana?" Siqoqe izimpawu eziyi-10 ukuthi ziba kusenesikhathi. Ungathola umbhangqwana - uthumele umphakathi ngesibindi!
Ufunda izindatshana zokuhlunga ezivela esigabeni "Lokho umama omncane ngokuzalwa kwengane ancishwa
Futhi awutholi amandla okucabanga okuthile okuphikisana nakho konke lokhu okwesabekayo. Uzwelana nabo bonke: umzimba wakho, isikhathi samahhala, utshwala, amaqembu, ukuhamba, ukuzulazula nakho konke ongakwenza ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi unesibopho sokucabanga ngomunye umuntu, omncane futhi ongakwazi.Ngabe kwenzeka kanjani ukwaba uswidi wokugcina ebhokisini? Futhi uma indodakazi ikhula futhi iye ku-Ilinganise (futhi iphule!) Izicathulo zakho ozithandayo? Futhi uma indodana ikhula iye komunye umfazi ?! Hhayi, cha, awuzange ubhalise kulo!
Uwedwa
Vuma - Ukuze ubelethe ingane, indoda ayidingeki ikakhulukazi. Futhi ngokuvamile, kukholelwa ukuthi kungcono ukuzala yena, ngoba ngeke kube yilutho enganeni yakho. Vele ngeke kube khona. Kepha ekuqaleni ingane yindaba ekhuluma ngokuqhubeka kohlobo lwakho nendoda yakho. Mayelana nothando oludinga iphuzu lesicelo esengeziwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, owesifazane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa futhi iminyaka yokuqala yempilo yengane iba sengozini enkulu. Vele, ungabhekana nakho konke (awushisi lapha? Amahhashi ngeke agxume?), Kepha kungcono ukuthi kunomuntu, esimweni esisiza noma ahlukanise ngayo imisebenzi nawe.
Uyakholisa izihlobo
Ukuhola, ngombono wabo, izimpikiswano ezingenakuphikwa ezinjengokuthi "Awuqondi ukuthi uthando lwangempela luyini nentokozo yangempela!", "Uphila ngengozi yamanzi eneminyaka yobudala ?! " njll. Ukwenqaba ngokusobala futhi ucabange ukubeletha ngemuva. Njengombukiso wokuzijwayeza, i-dozen eyishumi nambili hlanganisa ngemuva komugqa oqondile ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, ngakho-ke uma lezi zingxoxo zikucasule, thola i-paddle ne-bey yonke enozwela ekhanda lakho. Akudingeki ubekezelele ubuhlakani maqondana nokuphila kwakho okuhlukile. Wena, ekugcineni, umuntu ophilayo, futhi ungakhulumi i-incubator.Ungaphansi kwe-18.
Vele, lapha eRussia konke kuthuthukile - iminyaka yokuvuma ngokobulili kithi kusuka nathi kusukela eminyakeni engu-16 ubudala - kodwa, ukungezwani, iminyaka engu-18 ipholile kakhulu futhi imnandi, ukuthi kuyisihawu ukuchitha lesi sikhathi esibekiwe ku-diaper, ama-sprents kanye ne-poop. Ugcwele amandla namandla, ungagingqa i-Everest ye-One One futhi ngokuvamile uzoya e-Antarctica ukusiza ama-penguin. Vele, kunamantombazane asevele eneminyaka engu-14 eyenziwe uhlelo olucacile, kufaka phakathi umyeni wakhe, izingane kanye ne-bulldog puppy esikhathini esifinyelela ku-21, kepha kungcono ukucabanga kahle. Kukhona into enjalo: izingane zinaphakade.
Izingane nguLyku
Uqinisekile futhi wazi kahle ukuthi ingane yakho izovela kanjani ekukhanyeni, wonke umuntu ozungeze uzozenza masinyane, asakaze azungeze wena confetti ne-clutch champagne! Uyayithatha ezandleni zakho, uzomomotheka! Futhi uzoqhubeka nekusasa elihlangene elihlangene, lapho uzosika izithombe ezimnandi ku-Instagram, ubhale okuthunyelwe okumnandi ngokuthi ujabule kanjani, futhi ingane izomamatheka emlonyeni wonke futhi ifanekise ingelosi! Dorusha, funda i-matchast. Okokuqala, ukukhulelwa kanye nokubeletha kungukucindezelwa okukhulu komzimba (futhi ukubeletha kwegazi kuyigazi, amathumbu, umlingisi * rasilo, njll. Konke. Okwesithathu, awutholi ukulala ngokwanele. Kusekusesine, kwesihlanu, kwesithupha namakhulu ayisithupha, ngakho-ke ngizokhipha izithombe ezi-IDyllic ekhanda lekhanda ekhanda, futhi, ngoKristu, bakuchitha, bakhohlwa igama elingathandeki ". U-Estete wethu wangaphakathi wobuhlungu kushaya ikhanda lakhe odongeni.Ukwakha umsebenzi
Ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi nezingane kunzima, kepha uyakwazi. Kepha womabili la macala adinga ukugxilwa kwezimo eziphuthumayo, combens kanye nezisulu. Ngakho-ke akubonakali kungokomzwelo engokomzwelo njenge- "BIOLOBAL Clock umkhaza, futhi wena ngomsebenzi othile!" - Nguwe kuphela onelungelo lokunquma ukuthi yini ebalulekile kuwe. Nomuthi, endleleni, futhi akukufanele. Isibonelo, umthwebuli wezithombe odumile u-Annie Leibovitz wabeletha ingane yokuqala ngo-50, futhi uzizwe njengochwepheshe, futhi uzizwa kahle.
Awufuni izingane okwamanje
Awufuni nje. Noma ufuna, kepha hhayi manje. Futhi unelungelo eligcwele kulo!Awulungele ushintsho
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukushintsha kokubili kwangaphandle nangaphakathi. Awulungele ukuba sengozini enkulu futhi uncike kukho, wesabe lapho ucabanga ngalokho ongakwenza ngenza amaphutha, wesaba ukuba "njengomama" (uma ubunobudlelwano naye). Noma mhlawumbe manje usukhathazekile ngesikhathi sothando ophupha ngayo yonke impilo yami, futhi akukho sifiso sokuvumela ingane kuleli ngokoqobo, uma kungenjalo, impilo yami yonke ibeka phansi ekhanda futhi ilonke njenge Ukuzamazama komhlaba ngamabhola ayi-10 esikalini seRichter. Ukuqina muhle, kufaka phakathi ngoba kungekudala kuzobe kunesithukuthezi bese ucabanga ngezinguquko.
Uyasaba
Ngokwezinga lobuhlobo obunhlobonhlobo besaba izinganekwane, omama abangahle banikeze izingqinamba kulabo abebesabhala ngomnyango ovulekile eminyakeni engama-40, ngoba kusabisa. Ukwesaba okuyinhloko, kusobala, kukhathaza ukuthi ngabe owesifazane angaba ngumama omuhle noma uzenzele laba baphakade "umama, unjani, wenzani nengane yakho ?!". Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuthiwani uma wena nomyeni wakho bengakwazi ukunikeza ingane nayo yonke into edingekayo? Ngesikhathi sethu esinokhadli, uBabiskin, isisekelo esiphathelene nezingwegwe namaphaphu sisebenza ngokuphazamiseka okukhulu! Kuthiwani uma ukhula futhi umyeni uzokuphonsa, ingabe uzohlala wedwa nengane yakho namakati ayisishiyagalombili? Noma uzoba njengomama nalokhu "Ngikubeka impilo yami yonke kuwe, kodwa ngendabuko !!". Ukwesaba okunjalo kungaphenduka i-neurosis ephelele ngokuwela enhlabathini evundile yokudangala kwangemva kokubeletha. Ngakho-ke, mhlawumbe, kungcono ukubabuka kuqala, bese ucabanga ngezingane.Ungasengabantwana
Awukaze udlale onodoli bezingane, awukaze ube nentshisekelo kwezingane zabanye abantu, ufuna ukuhlala kuphela ngentokozo yakho nothandekayo wakho futhi awufuni ukuchitha isikhathi kwenye into. Kuhle, okubaluleke kakhulu, unezinto eziningi eziphikisayo eziphikisayo ngokumelene nokukhiqizwa kwabantu nhlobo. Mhlawumbe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi isikhundla sakho sizoshintsha, kepha ngenkathi ungacabangi ngakho, kepha uphila namuhla. Futhi kulungile! Akukho okudingayo ukwenza lutho, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu ukuze uzame into ebaluleke kangaka njengokuzalwa kwengane. Into esemqoka ukubona ngesikhathi, usazoba nezingane ekugcineni noma ngasikhathi esithile uzobulala indlela yokuba ngumama. Kepha lapha ungakuxazulula kuphela: impilo yakho ukukhetha kwakho.