Ngokuzalwa kwengane, abesifazane abaningi bangena ekubangesheni futhi ngeke baye emsebenzini, bekholelwa ukuthi umyeni uzosebenza, izihlobo zizosiza, umbuso. Kodwa-ke, ingane izokhula, iqale ukuya enkulisa, bese iqala ukuya esikoleni, kanye nokugada komzali unyaka wonke iba kancane kancane.
Imvamisa, abesifazane bathi abasebenzi, ngoba banezingane, akudingeki ukuba uziphonse, kodwa ubanikeze ukunakwa okuningi nokunakekelwa. Kepha izingane empeleni azikabi kangako futhi zidingekile, ikakhulukazi lapho umama enabo amahora angama-24 ngosuku. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzokhathala, ezoqala ukuphula. Ukuphumula ezinganeni kuyadingeka kulokhu futhi kwasungulwa ama-kindergartens, kanti owesifazane akakwazi ukuhlala ekhaya isikhathi eside, njengoba kuqala ukuncipha futhi unciphile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane abasebenzayo babuyela emsebenzini, ukuze bangalahli iziqu futhi bazisebenzise emsebenzini. Yebo, yebo, inhloso yowesifazane ayikho nakancane ukuthi ihlale ekhaya ibilise i-borschi, kepha zama ukubona amandla akho kuyo yonke imikhakha. Ngakho-ke, lapho owesifazane ethi akasebenzi, ngoba unezingane - lokhu kuwuphawu lokungahloniphi. Izingane zidinga ukondla. Thenga izingubo zakho, futhi ungakhohlwa ngawe. Akekho oqinisekisa ukuthi umyeni wakhe uzosisiza njalo, ngoba angahamba, afe. Futhi-ke yini okufanele yenziwe ngowesifazane ongazange aphoqe bona noma izingane zabo?
Enye into lapho owesifazane esho esebenza, ngoba unezingane.
Akudingekile ukuthi ukhethe umsebenzi othatha usuku lonke bese ubuya kuwo oshukunyiswe ngokuphelele. Into esemqoka ukuthi umsebenzi unikeza injabulo, futhi ungabi yi-cortica.
Ungasebenza nasekhaya uma ufisa, futhi ungahlali emyeni wakho entanyeni ucabange ukuthi ngakho konke impilo yami kuzoqhubeka. Okumangalisa kakhulu lapho owesifazane eba nabantu abadala abavele bakhulile, futhi namanje sebekhona umfazi wendlu. Yini i-tog ukucacisa ukungasebenzi kwakhe? Yebo, umfazi wendlu akuwona umsebenzi, ngoba abatholi iholo.
Shesha izingane ziyindlela elula, futhi empeleni lona wesifazane akavumi ukuthi uvila okungenamkhawulo futhi akafuni ukuguqula noma yini empilweni, ecabanga ukuthi uzohlala entanyeni. Kepha esimweni esinjalo, amandla amakhulu, ama-majere athi avame ukwenzeka lapho owesifazane ephoqeleka ukuba ashiye indawo evamile yenduduzo futhi aqale konke kusuka ekuqaleni. Futhi kunzima kakhulu, kuholela ku-neurosis. Umsebenzi uyadingeka kubo bonke abantu, ngoba ngaphandle kwawo baqala ukuzibandakanya okungenangqondo, bacabange eminye imicabango engaziwa. Futhi izingane ngeke zibe khona ngqo.