Ngokuvamile, emcabangweni wokuthi kunjalo, wonke umuntu ufaka incazelo yawo, ngakho-ke azikho izindlela ezinhle lapha. Yini ezokwenza umuntu wesifazane ojabulayo omunye azongenamsebenzi ngokuphelele. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye kunamaphuzu athile athi wonke umuntu wesifazane azozizwa okungenani okuncane, kepha ajabule.
Ukuhlonipha ubuntu bakho
Ukuze sijabule ngokwengeziwe, wonke umuntu wesifazane uqinisekile ukuzwa ubuntu babo. INhlangano izulazula i-stereotype esunguliwe yokuthi umsebenzi wokuqala wowesifazane uzenzele izingane kuphela, engena endlini, ulungiselele ukudla futhi uhlafuna umyeni wakhe. Yebo, entweni eqinisile, kepha owesifazane ungumuntu ofanayo onentshisekelo yakhe, izinto zokuzilibazisa nezifiso - angafuna ukubhala izincwadi, ukuhamba, wakhe umsebenzi emkhakheni othile othokozisayo. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye, ngaphansi kwethonya lomphakathi, abameleli abaningi besandla esihle ngokwabo lezi zikhutho zokuzibona ngokwabo.Lahla ama-stereotypes alimazayo - hamba ngendlela yakho futhi ungalaleli muntu (Yebo, ngaphakathi kwesizathu). Ukukhetha kuphela indlela yakho nokusebenzisa isimo sakho sokuthi ungajabula, futhi akukho okunye.
Ukubonakaliswa kokuzinakekela
Iseluleko sendawo yonke impilo ejabulisayo ifaka njengephuzu lokubalwa kwezimali ngokwalo, ngempilo yabo ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, mayelana nokulingana kwangaphakathi. Owesifazane okhathele futhi okhathele, nomuntu ophelele, i-priori ayinakuzizwa injabulo, noma ngabe konke kuhamba kahle.
Abesifazane ikakhulukazi, kubalulekile ukuzinakekela - ukunikeza isikhathi sokuzinakekela, ukunikezela isikhathi kumakilasi akho owathandayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubandakanyeka kokunye komzimba. Lokhu kungenzeka kungeke kube ngumdlalo uma umphefumulo ungaqambi amanga, ungahlela ukuhamba isikhathi eside, noma ngaphezulu ukudansa ngaphansi komculo ongenangqondo - ukwenza lokho okuvuka umoya. Iholide eligcwele - imfanelo ebalulekile yenjabulo.
Ukukheka
Kwabesifazane, ubudlelwano bubaluleke kakhulu kunabesilisa - noma ngabe konke kuhamba kahle emsebenzini, kunesikhathi sezinto zokuzilibazisa, azikho izinkinga ngemali, ubudlelwano nabantu basadlala indima enkulu. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula into eyodwa - ungalokothi uzikhaphele.Ungalokothi ubekezelele isimo sengqondo sokungahloniphi, ukukhashelwa kuphela kwale ndoda eduze kweseduze. Ungabethemba ukuthi ngokuzayo konke kuzoshintsha nakanjani kuzokushintsha futhi i-cavalier izokhombisa uthando oluningi nenhlonipho - ngenani elikhulu lamacala konke okuba kubi kakhulu. Futhi lokhu kuphazamiseka ebudlelwaneni ngeke kuholele enjabulweni.
Ngakho-ke, ebudlelwaneni kufanelekile ukukhombisa ukukhethwa okuhle - Othandekayo kufanele athembeke ngokwakha ikusasa elihlangene naye.
Indawo efanele
Ukuze ujabule, udinga ukukhetha imvelo efanele, ukuxhumana nabantu abafanele. Ukuba sembuthanweni wethemba elikhulu, kunenhlanhla futhi abantu abazokweseka ngomzuzu onzima bazosiza igama futhi icala cishe lingenakwenzeka ukuba lingajabule. Ngakho-ke, yiba abangane kuphela nalabo abafanele ngempela futhi ujabule!