Ushadile, ushadile: Ungaba kanjani abathumbi be-Love Square

Lapho amabili ayathandana, ayikho indawo yesithathu - ithi abantu bahlakaniphile. Kepha kwenzeka ukuthi ushadile, futhi ushadile. Futhi bonke ababambiqhaza kulowo thando "i-quadrangle" akuyona yonke imizwa ejabulisayo, kodwa ukungabaza okuningi, ukuhlupheka nokungezwani.

Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, umuntu angathanda abantu ababili nabengeziwe ngasikhathi sinye futhi akukho lutho olubi. Ungathola uthando oluhlanya umlingani oyedwa, futhi kwenye imizwa yothando, kodwa uma "ngishadile, futhi ushadile" uthando olunqatshelwe olungavunyelwe ngumphakathi.

Yini abantu abakhuthaza abantu ukuba bahlanganyele nobudlelwano obunjalo?

1. Kungaba uthando olusha, umhlangano omusha omubi. Abantu abathembekile badonsela omunye komunye. Noma mhlawumbe, uthando oludala lwahlangana, futhi imizwa yakhanya futhi.

2. Ubudlelwano be-Extramarital typed, njengomthetho, lapho kukhona okushodayo. Njengoba abashadikazi babopha lo mkhuba, izingane, indlu, kepha akukho ukuqonda nokunakekela.

3. Isifiso sokudalulela impilo engokomzwelo neyazocansi. Abalingani abasemthethweni babevele bengama-crap. Futhi ngifuna imizwa ebukhali. Ubudlelwano obuhleliwe bungabambezeleka bese ungena kulo mkhuba.

4. Izinkinga ezindala nezinkinga zomndeni. Isifiso sokuziphindisela ekuvukeni ngukuvukela umbuso. Kepha imvamisa abesifazane bathi: Nginomyeni omuhle. Ngiyamhlonipha yena futhi unguyise wezingane zami, kepha anginakwenza lutho nami. Futhi abesilisa bembozwe iqiniso lokuthi abakwazi ukuphonsa izingane zabo.

Lapho ubudlelwane obunjalo bubambezeleka, ukungqubuzana kudilizwa ngokungafanele, hhayi ebudlelwaneni bomndeni kuphela, kodwa nasemphefumulweni wakhe. Noma ngabe yini uzungu okubonwayo, iqiniso lokukhashelwa noma kamuva lizovula abalingani basemthethweni. Kuzophakamisa isikhathi sokukhetha: Ukuthi uzowubhubhisa umndeni noma uqhubeke nokuphila ngomqondo wesikweletu esenziwe? Abesifazane babukhali babhekana nezimo ezinjalo. Bayizinto ezithambekele ezinguquko eziyisisekelo empilweni, kodwana okhethiweyo omusha ongaba ngubaba omuhle wezingane zakhe? Ukuthi uzogcina ukuthembeka yini, ngoba ubuhlobo nabo bungaba ukuqina okuqiniswe ohlangothini. Kungavuleka nomyeni wakhe, futhi ngokwengxenye yalowo okhethiweyo ngeke alandele.

Kunoma ikuphi, ukuba sezinhluphekweni ezinjalo, zithola injabulo nenduduzo yangaphakathi, awukwazi ukuphumelela. Uzoxoshwa umuzwa wecala phambi kwe- "PRELED PUNT".

Futhi ngaphambi kokwenza isinqumo, kufanele ucabange kahle ukucabanga uma "ubudlelwano ohlangothini". Mhlawumbe cabanga ngendlela yokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo noshade naye?