Ingxenye yokuqala yempilo itshalwa kuma-stereotypes - ukuze sizame ukuzikhulula ngosizo lwe-psychotherapist ngosizo lwe-psychotherapist. Siphakamisa ukuthi sisindise izingane zethu imali nesikhathi, bese sizama ukuzikhulisa mahhala emihlanganweni yobuphukuphuku. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akunzima kangako, njengoba kubonakala.
Nge-pink - kwesokudla, ngombala oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka - kwesobunxele
Ngabe ucabanga ngempela ukuthi intombazane yenza intombazane isiketi esipinki, futhi umfana uyi-cap eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka? Noma yini abafana abangakhali, namantombazane awakhuphukeli izihlahla? Ngokuqinisekile bayayeka ukukwenza uma benqabela. Ukuze ubethembeke, unganikeza nentombazane unodoli lapho engenawo inzalo, futhi umfana uyisibhamu esikhundleni sehhashi lakhe elithandekayo. Ngisebenza ngempumelelo kakhulu - ukuvikela intombazane kuyo yonke ezobuchwepheshe, futhi umfana uvela kubo bonke nsuku zonke.
Yikuphi okwesabekayo okuzokwenzeka uma intombazane iqoqa amakhadi bese ihlangana nembongolo e-vetteli, nomfana, iNkosi iqhuma, ilingene unodoli. Kuzokwenzekani kuye? Angakhula ... Baba!
I-Gender Stereotypes ingenye yezinto ezingejwayelekile futhi eziyingozi. Musa ukukhawulela ingane ngesisekelo semibono yamanga abafana namantombazane ayizindawo ezimbili ezahlukene. Akukho cwaningo oluhle lwesayensi oluqinisekisile ukuthi ubuchopho besilisa buthambekele ekufuneni okubalulekile nokungenamsoco, kanti insikazi iloliwe ukuze ihlanze futhi isula i-pop.
Izintshisakalo ezixakile
Ingane ngaphandle kokuncipha iletha i-triton ekhiqizwayo, yakha itshe lesikhumbuzo seqhwa eGulum nenhlanzi yakhe emnandi, nakuMusha Omusha igqoke i-vampire? Ugogo esikhundleni seSkihar Burns Bram Stoker ekotishi, ekhuphukayo: "Ama-Psychopaths ayakhula, ugqugquzela ..."?
Izintshisakalo ezingekho kanye nomehluko omkhulu ukuthi umqondo wokuthi "Ubuhle" ugcwalisiwe ngokuya ngeminyaka, uvame ukuphoqa abantu abadala ukuba bavimbele uChad ". Izintshisakalo zezingane zithiwa zingafanele, futhi ingane ngokwayo impofu futhi ingaphansi kokubeka embhedeni we-procrustero okulindelwe emphakathini.
Umndeni waketter waketers "Ingane Efanele", futhi ngenxa yalokho nomuntu ongeyene ungajabuli, okungenzeka ukuthi akanakunikeza okuthile umphakathi owusizo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, inqubekela phambili ishukumisela imibono emisha nokuhamba okungeyona okujwayelekile. Futhi hhayi ngaso sonke isifiso sokuthobela imithetho ukukuthatha futhi unqamule ikhanda ngeqiniso lokuthi ufana nowo wonke umuntu. Grey, eyisidina, ethukile.
Imidlalo eyingozi
Amabhonasi, inzalo nge-Aqualung emthonjeni, emaphaketheni avela emashidini naseTarzanka ngaphezulu kwedwala ... konke kuyingozi ngempela. Ikakhulu lapho umzali evutha kwamanye amaqembu futhi evimbela konke - konke. Abantu abadala kulula ukunqabela ukufana, kunokuba basebenzise amahora ambalwa ukufundisa ukujabula ngomlilo okuphephile, futhi ungabaqonda - sonke singabantu futhi sifuna abantu abaphilayo futhi besifuna ngemuva kwethu.
Futhi noma kunjalo lokhu kunjalo kanye icala lapho kungenzeki ukungasebenzi. Kunenzuzo enkulu ukuyeka umlilo ngomlilo ovela endaweni ephephile ukukhombisa ingozi yalesi senzo kunokuba uphuthume ukuhlinzwa ngomunwe ovelele ngokuzimela e-Ice umunwe futhi ubone, kodwa ingane ende kakhulu. Ungavumeli, kepha ukufundisa indlela eyingozi ngakwesokunene - Nasi isifundo esibalulekile okufanele sifundwe ngasikhathi sinye ezizukulwaneni ezimbili.
Amakhono angenamsebenzi
Umzali uvame ukukholelwa ukuthi ingane kufanele ibe matasa kuphela, imisebenzi ethuthukayo. Ngenxa yalokhu, iningi lethu likhuthaza ngokuzithandela ukuthi lizoletha izabelo futhi lithethelele isikhathi esisetshenzisiwe, futhi sibhekisele ekudeleleni amakilasi ezingane angenamsebenzi. Ejikeni ngalinye, sifuna ukubona isandla somculi we-primitivist, kuyo yonke ikhekhe lesihlabathi - ukwakheka komklami, noma umklami. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kungani konke?
Futhi konke lokhu - ukuqinisa ukuzethemba ongakunika owakho emhlabeni. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi kuzoba yinyoka yamaphepha ayisiwula, i-sloppy collage noma imashi eyenziwe emabhodweni. Kubalulekile ukuthi lokhu kuqiniseka yilokho ingane yakho esosizini ezokwazi ukuncika esikhathini esizayo. Futhi-ke ngeke aphenduke umbhali, ogaya uthando olukhulu ngokwesaba iminyaka engama-20 ukuyomletha emhlabeni, umthwebuli wezithombe ongaphelele noma onekhono, ngasizathu siqu. "
Noma noma kungahleki ubuhlakani. Lokhu akubalulekile kangako. Mamvumele abhale indatshana eyakhiwe ngendlela emangalisayo futhi azokwenza izithombe ezinesicefe emhlabeni, kunoma yikuphi ukuxhumana necala nezwe ngolimi lwakhe kuzomlethela ubumnandi obuningi. Futhi le njabulo yinto engenakulahleka nganoma iyiphi indlela. Angeke nje akwazi nakho konke.
