Ixesha lokuthenga i-buckwheat, gcina ngombane kwaye ufunde into encinci eyadlulayo kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo kwaye ngoku ibuya. Kulo nyaka. Kwakhona, yandoyikisa ngokwam nangobothandayo, yaphinda yoyika ukuphulukana nokuphela kwengeniso yengeniso-yomsebenzi. Iingcali zengqondo zibiza ukuba zingakhathali, ziphefumle nzulu kwaye zifunde uvuyo lwanamhlanje.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba uloyiko lwethu kunye noxinzelelo yinto elawulwa ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba uyakwazi. Akunjalo, kunjalo, ukuze sifune - soyika, kodwa sifuna - hayi. Kodwa kwinqanaba elingaphezulu okanye elincinci loyika- kakhulu.Ngaba kuyanengqondo ukuzama ukuzinceda ukuze uve okungenani lula? Ndicinga ukuba bambalwa abantu abangafuniyo.
Ungalawula njani uloyiko?
Nakuphi na uloyiko, ubuncinci malunga nomsebenzi, ubuncinci malunga neepisses zenziwa entlokweni ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
- Okokuqala kufuneka ucinge ngento eya kwenzeka. Cinga ngekamva.
- Emva koko kufuneka ubone inkathazo esoyikisayo kweli zekamva. UTlen, uthuli nowonakaliswe.
- Kwaye kwisiphelo kubalulekile ukuba ucinge kakubi ngokwakho. Ndilibali elinjalo elingazi ukuba makenze ntoni, kwaye andikwazi ukujongana nayo yonke le nto. Ilungile: Indoda ihleli, yonke into eyoyikekayo, iyangcungcutheka.
1. Jonga kwikamva
Ndingenza ntoni? Ngokucacileyo: ukuphila namhlanje. Uya kuthi: Ngekamva kuphela isidenge asicingi. Kwaye ndiza kuthi: Kodwa uhlala ukonwaba. Uthi: Ungacinga njani ngekamva? Xa ucinga. Kwaye ndiza kuthi: Ewe, cinga ngokwakho, kutheni kungenjalo. Nje-zama kancinci. Nangaphezulu-malunga novuyo lwanamhlanje. Izakunceda.
2. malunga nezi ngxaki ukuba ungoyikisile kwingcinga yakho
Abanye abantu baphulaphulayo - kwaye ucinga: Yeyiphi italente inyamalala! Ijonga phi i-hollywood? I-Golden Feat Drama! I-Shakespeare yayiza kufunda - yalila! Inani leengxaki ezinokubangela umntu kuxhomekeke kwitalente yakhe ebalaseleyo, kwaye kuyanengqondo yokufumanisa - apho iqinisekiswe khona kwaye inoyiso, kwaye iphi imeko enzulu. Kwaye kule nto kukho umbutho olula: Ngaba bakho ubungqina bokuba uloyiko lwenzeka ngokwenene? Ewe, yiyo yonke loo nto iya kugxothwa emsebenzini, andiyi kufumana enye iinyanga ezintandathu, kuya kufuneka utyele i-brotit enye kwaye usele, ndiqale ndikhangele, ndikufa, ndifune, -Ngabakho bungqina bokuba kunjalo? Kwaye nalapha ukuya kuthi ga kungekho bungqina-Ngaba indoda yoyika ntoni? Ilungile le nto: izihlobo zakho. Kwaye le, kunjalo, inomdla. Kodwa ayinegalelo kwintuthuzelo yomphefumlo. Ke ngoko, ukwanela ngakumbi, manene, kwaye kuthathe amagqabi, ukuphatha, kwaye ubhale uluhlu lwento esikoyikisayo. Susa iintsomi.3. Kwaye eyona nto ibalulekileyo ngaxeshanye. Malunga noku "kubi ukucinga ngawe"
Umbutho wethu usicebisa ukuba 'singanikezeli ku ", cinga ngokuthozama, nangabanye, ngokuchaseneyo, kwaye ngalo moya. Ke uya kuba ngumntu ofanelekileyo. Ngenxa yoko, yintoni? Indoda ekuseni ebuntwaneni isebenzisa ubugcisa bokubekiwe, kwaye ihleli kwaye icinga kuye: Ngaba kungcono kunabanye? Ndiyafana nayo yonke into! Iingcali ezinjalo zibambe i-prudi! Kwaye baya kuthathwa ukuba basebenze kuphela ukuba unethamsanqa. Ewe, ukuhlaselwa ngumntu edidekile. Kuba ezingqondweni zakhe, akanakwenza nantoni na ngentando yakhe. Kwaye ukuba umntu wayehleli kwaye ecinga ukuba: "Ewe ngokubanzi, ayinamsebenzi ukuba akho njani! Bayeke bafune. Kubalulekile ukuba mna ngokwasemphefumlweni - senziwe kakuhle kakhulu! Kungako kunjalo. Kwaye ke ngoko. Ke ngoku ndiza kucinga, kwaye ndenzekile, ke niyabona, ndocinga, ndicinge. Kwaye ke loo mntu uya kuqala angaphulukani nethemba, kodwa acinge. Kwaye into ethile iya kuza. Kungenxa yokuba kunjalo, ngokucacileyo: Akukho kuphela kokukhetha kobu bomi-ukuya kulo msebenzi kwaye ufumane ezi mali. Abantu abasixhenxe abazizigidi baphila ngaphandle kwale ndawo apho uhlala khona ngoku, kwaye ngandlela thile.
Ke, shwankathela: Zingaphila ngovuyo lwanamhlanje, nangaphantsi kwezinto ezinqabileyo. Ukuba bangamanyala-mafutha-musa ukulibala ukukhangela indlela ekwakuthetha ngayo uNaphtanatd. Kwaye ukuba kukho izoyikiso ezisebenzayo-ukuyeka ukucinga malunga nokuba unendalo enesidima, ubomi obuphilayo buxhomekeke kumoya ovuthuzayo. Kwaye uqale ucinga ukuba zonke iingxaki ziya kuthatha isigqibo.