Ulwalamano phakathi kwabantu lusebenza njengesatellite esisisigxina ebomini kwaye linefuthe elibiwayo kuwo onke amabakala ayo. Seka ubudlelwane obutsha, gwenxa unxibelelwano lwakudala kwaye uphume ubudlelwane obude buhlala bunzima. Uninzi lwabantu luthanda ukunganikeli ingqalelo kwimiqondiso ephazamisayo ebonisa iingxaki ezinkulu kubudlelwane. Bakhetha ukunyamezela kwaye bayathemba yonke imihla ukuba yonke into itshintsha kwaye iyenza ukuba ikwazi.
Kodwa ubudlelwane abusoloko buhlala ngokwabo. Zininzi imiqondiso yokuba lixesha lokuba ayeke ukuthuthuzela omnye komnye kunye nenxalenye ngelixa engakhokeleli kwimiphumo emibi kunye nokwaphula kwezinye iinkalo zobomi. Nika ingqalelo kwiimpawu ezidweliswe ngezantsi. Ukuba ubuncinci bambalwa kubo baziva nkqi ebomini bakho, lixesha lokuba uthathe amanyathelo ngokungxamisekileyo okanye ukusasazeka!
1. Awunakuba nguwe. Ukuba isiqingatha sakho sesibini asikuqondi njengoko unjalo, kunjalo, njengoko besitsho, "nokuba." Awunako ukuzinqanda into ebalulekileyo kuwe, ethanda ubudlelwane!
2. Uyathandabuza ukubaluleka kwakho kunye nexabiso. Olu luphawu olubi oluthetha ukuba awunamdla kwiqabane. Umntu onothando uya kudumisa, alondoloze, ulibale, nako konke ukuphumla!
3. Uziva usinda ngokusichonga idilesi yakho. Ukuba iqabane lakho lagqiba kwelokuba linetyala kuzo zonke iintsilelo zakhe-olu luphawu olucacileyo lokungoneliseki bubudlelwane. Rhoqo yindlela yokutshintsha kolunye uxanduva ngeempazamo zakho.
4. Iingxabano rhoqo kunye neengxabano. Apha, ngokomgaqo, yonke into icacile. Ukuba kubudlelwane obuninzi bokuxabana kunexesha elimnandi, ke leliphi ikamva esinokuluthetha ngalo? Nangona kunjalo, kufanelekile ukwahlula ngokucacileyo kobudlelwane obunomdla!
5. Uhlala ugweba kwaye ucele uxolo ngeqabane lakho. Kufanelekile ukuba ucinga ukuba unokuhlala "uphume" kwiqabane lakho lomphefumlo. Mhlawumbi usebenzise nje itekhnoloji?
6. Uhlala uthandabuza ukuba yonke into yanelisekile yiyo intanda yakho. Olo lwazi luqhubekayo ngokulondolozwa kobudlelwane luphawu oluchanekileyo loqhagamshelo olubuthathaka, "ubudlelwane obungenampilo obungenampilo apho lixesha lokutshintsha into!
7. Iingxaki emsebenzini ngenxa yokucaphukisa kunye nokungasentla kweqabane. Ngokwemvelo, kufuneka ubonakalise ukuba ityhilwe okanye itshiswe imiyalezo. Kodwa, ukuba ukwazi ukuba uxakekile, umntu wakho osondeleyo uqhubeka "ofowuna, efumana ubudlelwane, ebuza, kufanelekile ukuthatha amanyathelo ...
8. Abahlobo kunye noogxa babo qaphela ukuba awutshipheli ngcono. Indawo esihlala kuyo ngokukhawuleza kwaye okanye, ukuba siyibone iqashiso elingaphakathi nangaphandle. Ukuba zenzeka ngokubi, azikho ezinye izizathu, kukho iingxaki kubudlelwane ...
9. Xa iingcinga malunga nokuhlulela kuya kuba lula. Apha unokwenza ngaphandle kokuphawula. Ukuba ungcono kunakwiqabane, ukuba uhlala ufuna isizathu sokuhamba, kubahlobo, ke lixesha lokuphelisa umanyano olunje.
10. Ukungathembani rhoqo. Ayibalulekanga kwalapha, ngubani kwaye kutheni engathembi. Ubudlelwane ngaphandle kokuthembana bungaphumeleli.
11. UKUJONGA I-ANGER NOBUCHULE. Ixhala, njengakwindlela eqhelekileyo kufuneka ukhululeke. Ukuba imvakalelo yesisongelo sivele rhoqo, kufanelekile ukuba sicinge malunga nekhefu sobudlelwane.
12. Impembelelo ezihlwempuzekileyo. Kubudlelwane obuhle, amaqabane aphembelela ngokuqinisekileyo, enceda ekuphuhliseni iimpawu eziyimfuneko kwaye afumane amanqaku afanelekileyo. Ukuba iqabane libangela amandla eempawu ezimbi kuwe, ayizukukhokelela kwinto elungileyo!
13. Unemvakalelo enganyangekiyo ukuba ungonwaba kakhulu! Ukuba ukuqiniseka ngokuqinileyo ukuba ufanele ngaphezulu, akunakulindeleka ukuba utshintsha into kunye neqabane langoku. Lixesha lokuba ujonge umntu owufaneleyo!
14. Izisongelo kunye ne-ultimomumu. Izinto ezifunwayo ukwenza into ongayifuniyo, phantsi kwezisongelo zokuqhekeza ubudlelwane-eli kukuzama ukunyanzelisa intando yakho. Oku akuhambelani nenkqubo yobudlelwane obunempilo.
15. Iimfuno ze-freebroof kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka. Ukuba amaqonga, iminqweno kunye neemfuno zomntu zanelisekile kubudlelwane bakho, oku kubonisa i-disharmony ecacileyo. Ngexesha lolwalamano oluqhelekileyo, iimfuno kunye neminqweno yenani ngalinye kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo kwaye ngokulinganayo!
16. Awufuni ukuthetha ngaphandle. Ukuba iingcinga zakho kunye nezimvo zihlala zigxekwa, uyoyika ukubonisa kwakhona, ngaba unaye umntu?
17. Kuya kufuneka ucele imvume. Ukuba ucebisa xa usenza isigqibo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kodwa ukuba iqabane lihlala lilungisa into, kwaye kunyanzelekile ukuba ucele imvume, lo ngumqondiso ophazamisayo.
18. Azinxibelelani nezihlobo nabahlobo. Unobangela ungahluka, kodwa ukuba awukhathali isangqa sakho sonxibelelwano uyehla umntu, uya kuphulukana nomntu wonke ...
19. Iimpazamo ezisisigxina. "Ukujija" kubudlelwane, xa yonke into ilungile, kubi, ngoko igqibelele, iyoyikeka, ayiyi kukhokelela kwenye into ngaphandle kokuhamba nzima.
20. I-ORMCOM kunye nokucamngca rhoqo. Ukuba uhlala uphatha ukuthandabuza, into ayikufaneli, iingcinga zibandakanyeke kuhlalutyo nokuvavanya imeko, ke kufuneka utshintshe into.
Ewe kunjalo, le ayizizo zonke iimpawu zeengxaki kubudlelwane. Umntu ngamnye ngokwakhe uziva ubunzulu kunye nokunyaniseka kweemvakalelo zesiqingatha sakhe sesibini. Kodwa ukuba uyanda ngakumbi into kubadwelo ebomini bakho, kufanelekile ukuba ucinge ngengxaki enokwenzeka.