Njengoko usazi, unomdla wokuqonda i-Evenet Lizwe Lizwe Elima ngendlela eyahlukileyo, xa kuthelekiswa nenye. Banamandla angaphakathi okuziva eneemvakalelo zabanye abantu, phantse njengabo. Oku kubavumela ukuba bathande wonke umphefumlo, ukuthoba ukungabikho kokusesikweni, kunye nokukhulula abanye kwiNtshutshiso ngokweemvakalelo.
Kodwa ngenxa yeemvakalelo zabo zokuzalwa kunye nenkathalo, i-Empite ihlala isetyenziswa kwizilangazelelo zabo. Makhe sinike imizekelo yeengxaki ezi-8 ngokweemvakalelo apho yonke i-epit-intsebenzo iya kujamelana nexesha.
1. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kubo ukuba bathethe
Kwi-EvEch, ixesha elide lesizungu kunye nokuntywiliselwa kunokuchaphazela amandla abo okuchaza ngokucacileyo njengoko benqwenela. "Ayikho into" encinci "yokuncokola" ayikho into "- ngokucacileyo hayi amagqabi abo.
2. Banokukopa ngokulula
I-Empite engathandekiyo ihlala ifumana ubunzima ukuze icoceke okanye ityhalele iimvakalelo zabanye, kunye nabo balula ukususa ingxolo enkulu ngokulinganayo okanye iphakathi yentlalo.
Kwaye ukuba udibanisa ezi zinto zimbini kunye, akumangalisi ukuba uvelwano luxhomekeke ekuhlaseleni, kwaye amaxesha ngamaxesha ajamelana neemvakalelo ezinzima ekunzima ukuzilawula.
3. Bayaziqonda iimvakalelo zabanye, kodwa bahlala bengaziqondi
Rhoqo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba abantu abanjalo bayazi ukuba ngubani othandanayo nomhlobo wabo, kodwa akaqondi ngokupheleleyo ukuba umntu uyabathanda. Ungayifunda imvakalelo yabanye abantu kubo, kodwa ukufumanisa ukuba isiphithiphithi sethu se-sandle sinokuba nzima kakhulu kwi-Evorting evaliweyo. Ngabo, umkhwa onjalo njengokuqonda kunokuba nzima ngakumbi kunabantu abaninzi. Baziva kwaye baqonda kakhulu oko bahlukanisa iimvakalelo zabo kwiimvakalelo zabanye kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima, nokuba kukho imfuneko.
4. Kunzima ukuvumela abanye ebomini babo.
Imvukelo engathandekiyo inothando kwaye ikhathalele abanye, ngabahlobo abamangalisayo kunye nabathandi bokuthanda. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yemvakalelo yayo ephakamileyo, boyika ukuvumela abanye abantu ebomini babo.
Balumkile kakhulu xa kufikwa eluthandweni, kwaye abanakusilela "nje" ngenxa yokoyika ukuba zinokubandezeleka.
5. Angazi ukuba uthwala abantu abangalunganga
Enye yezona zinto zithiya kakhulu ze-interver-i-prover-i-prover-engazi nto yazibuzayo yokutsala abantu abangalunganga. Banokuba yinyani "yemagnethi" yokufumana ukungakhathali ngenxa yobuchule obunamandla bokuqonda izimvo kunye neemvakalelo zabanye abantu.
Kungenxa yoko le nto abantu abangalunganga bahlala bethanda ukuzibophelela kwaye bonwabele umlinganiswa wabo olungileyo.
6. Basengozini yokuxhomekeka.
Ngenxa yobuntununtunu obuphezulu kwiimvakalelo kunye namandla abanye abantu, impindezelo ezivelileyo zithambekele kuzo zonke iintlobo zokuxhomekeka. Rhoqo baguqukela kwiziyobisi, ubomi bezesondo okanye utywala, ukuvimba iimvakalelo abazivayo kwabanye.
Ukuxhomekeka Kukusebenza njengezigqibo zokuzikhusela ngokweemvakalelo ukuzikhusela kwiimvakalelo zangaphandle nakumandla.
7. Banomdla wokufumana i-cepral demp yehla.
Nangona i-verati engathandekiyo iyakwazi ukuzimela kakuhle iimvakalelo zawo zokwenyani, zikwaxhomekeka kwimozulu. Xa bethabatha inqanaba eliphezulu lamandla amabi, banokukwenzakaliswa, azolile kwaye angonwabanga kakhulu.
8. Bakhangela, kodwa bahlala bengaxabisi
Xa unikela ingqalelo kwizinto ezithi abantu, ukhathalelo olunzulu kwaye bambalwa abanomdla wokuba liziko lokunikela ingqalelo, abantu kunye neengxaki zabo bakhwela ngokoqobo kuwe. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba abantu phantse abazi nemvukelweni, kodwa kukhona into ethile inyanzela abantu ukuba batyhile imiphefumlo yabo kuye. Kwaye ayimangalisi into yokuba le nto iyenzeka ukuba uyayibona indlela abakwazi ngayo ukubanceda ngayo abanye.
I-EVUATY ilumkile kakhulu ngempilo-ntle yabanye abantu, kwaye ke baphulaphule ngokuthe cwaka kwindlela abantu abafunga ngayo kwezi zinto. Nangona kunjalo. I-EvEtiths kufuneka ukuba inolwazi olusecaleni lwabantu xa bebanika bonke kwaye bengafumani nto injalo kwimbuyekezo.