Kuhlala kumnandi ukuchitha ixesha kunye nomntu omthandayo, ndifuna ukuntywila ngokupheleleyo kulowo umthandayo. Ithanda inkwenkwe xa injalo umfazi wakhe. Ibhinqa lifuna ukuziva luphawu ngokulandela kwiqabane lakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha ubudlelwane bunengxaki yabo.
Ukuthintela, kufanelekile ukulandela imithetho ethile yokwakha ubudlelwane obudala kunye nexesha elide.1. Inkululeko kubudlelwane
Wonke umntu ufuna ukuhlala ecaleni kwendlela ekhethiweyo kwaye achithe ixesha labo lasimahla kunye. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abantu banokudinwa omnye komnye. Ukuze ingakhokeleli ukuphazamiseka kobudlelwane, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uphumle ngaphandle komnye nomnye. Chitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo okanye ubandakanyeke kwi-hobby yakho oyithandayo. Indoda yonwabile ke, ukuba iyonwabele isizungu.
2. Ukubonakaliswa kothando.
Wonke umntu ufuna uthando kunye nokukhathalela. Amaqabane akufuneki azifihle iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo. Umntu akakwazi kufunda ezinye iingcinga zabanye abantu. Kubalulekile ukuba amve uthando. Ukuqaqamba uthando lubonakaliswa kwisibini, esomeleleyo amaqabane abanjwa. Ukuncoma umntu esimthandayo ekupheleni kosuku olunzima ngokungathandabuzekiyo kuya kuba kukugxininiswa kokugqibela.3. Inkxaso.
Inkxaso kumaxesha obomi obunzima kubaluleke kakhulu. Olona khetho lubalaseleyo luya kuba sisisombululo jikelele kwingxaki ejongene nomntu osondeleyo. Akukho sidingo sokujika kwiqabane okanye ukungcikiva ngexesha elo.
4. Intlonipho.
Bonke abantu bangumntu kwaye banazo izilangazelelo zabo kunye nezakhono zabo. Musa ukophula kwaye unciphise iqabane kwizinto zakhe zokuzonwabisa. Intlonipho kunye novavanyo loluvo kunye nomnqweno weqabane yeyona nto iphambili kubudlelwane obuphumelelayo. Umntu owaziyo into ayifunayo ekuthathwa njengegunyazisiweyo. Kwaye eyona nto iphambili yile ibangela ukuba iqabane lithathe izimvo zakhe kunye nokufakwa. Musa ukulawula ubudlelwane.5. Kuthemba kunye nokunyaniseka.
Xa elinye iqabane elingakholosanga, inokuba nexhala, kwaye okwesibini asikokuqonda. Intembeko inokuboniswa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo - ukuthetha ngqo kubabukho bento sele ithe yatshixwa, okanye uqinisekise amagama. Iincoko ezinyanisekileyo zibalulekile kubudlelwane. Kuyimfuneko ukuba wabelane ngeyona mibono ibalulekileyo ngomphefumlo onxulumene rhoqo, ngaphandle kwezithintelo kunye nemfihlo. Akufanelanga ukhangele "amathambo" kwiKhabhinethi yeqabane, ukuze ungabunzi ubudlelwane wangoku, ixesha elidlulileyo lidlulileyo.
6. Chukumisa.
Unxibelelwano lweTactile yinxalenye yolwalamano. Inceda amaqabane abonisa iimvakalelo zabo kwaye uphumle ngokukhawuleza. Kwangelo xesha, inqanaba loxinzelelo liyancitshiswa, i-nevaous inyamalale kwaye imeko iyanda. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba hug rhoqo kangangoko kunokwenzeka.7. Ukunyaniseka.
Kwezinye iimeko, ukuhlala uthembekile kwiqabane labo akululanga ngendlela endifuna ngayo, kodwa ukuba olu lwalamano lubalulekile kuzo zombini ukuthanda ukugcina ukuthembeka.
Ulwalamano olude kunye nolomeleleyo aluyontsomi okanye luhlobo lwentsomi, kodwa yinyani kakhulu kwabo bafuna ukufezekisa kwimanyano yabo, ababonayo kwaye bayalihlonela iqabane labo. Ukujonga nokuqonda le mithetho, kunokwenzeka ukugcina ubudlelwane nokuba yintoni.