Umbutho wethu ngokwesiko ujonge kwimitshato engalinganiyo kunye nokungalingani. Nokuba oku kungalingani akuveliswanga kwi-intanethi (kunye / okanye impahla), kodwa kwi-Bantration Paunter. Ke ngoko, amantombazana athe athandwa ngabantu abathanda kakhulu abazali babo bangaphantsi kwaye ababandakanyeki ekugwetyweni koluntu.
Amantombazana aphumla. I-skovo iyakubukela, nokuba uthandana nontanga, faka isiketi esifutshane okanye ungene kwinkaba yethu, kuluntu lwethu kukujonga nabani na. Kwaye uyonwabela uthando ngendoda eqolileyo kwaye ufumane iingxoxo zokubetha unxibelelwano hayi kwi-saftrow, kodwa emehlweni.
1. Ngesizathu esithile, isini esifanelekileyo kukukholelwa ukuba isini esihle sifuna amakhwenkwe, agqume i-pubstat. Ayilunganga. Inkwenkwe, ityheli ekutshutshiseni i-pubertat, ihlala ikholelwa ukuba isini esihle 'andikwazi ukuyigqiba. "Kwaye" ndingaphinda ndikwazi kasixhenxe ebusuku. " Kwaye umntu onamashumi amane, uhlala esazi apho unamatheli.
2. Incoko yababini elungileyo yeyona nto inkulu kakhulu kwaye eyona nto iphambili kwi-Harse yeHlabathi yethu - oku kufumanisa ulwazi. Sidla ngokufumana ulwazi kwisangqa sonxibelelwano, kumava obomi kunye nokufunda iincwadi. Indoda endala yabantu abadala ibetha amakhwenkwe aphakathi kuzo zonke izikhombisi.
3. Ngokuqinisekileyo umva-ngqondweni weli planethi kukho inani elaneleyo leentsana ezingamashumi amane ahlala noMama. Kodwa awukhumbuli kakhulu uthando. Njengomthetho, kwiminyaka engamashumi amane, indoda inokulinika iqabane lakhe elinamandla kungekuphela ngengqondo yokoqobo, kodwa nakwindlela yokuqikelela. Kwaye igxalaba eliqinileyo elinamandla libaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba likwimeko ethe ngqo. Ngelishwa, uninzi lwabafazi bayayiqonda kufutshane neminyaka yabo engamashumi amane, bayavuya, ulumkile.
4. Isikhephe esiqinileyo sothando esincinci ukuba sijongane nobomi. Indoda endala ihlala ibona ukuba i-crane ihamba, kwaye iyayazi indlela yokuyilungisa. Kwiimeko ezigqithisileyo, unomdla okhethekileyo, oqeqeshiweyo ngokulungisa iikhreyithi.
5. Imnandi! Ewe uyayazi indlela yokupheka.
6. Inkosazana yam yentombazana ekhule ngaphandle kotata (kwaye zininzi), ekugqibeleni ziyaqonda-ukuba lupholile njani, xa umlume omkhulu onomtshato ongenayo, utya njani kwaye yintoni Ingubo kuwe.
7. Ukwazi notata, ngokuchasene nenkolelo ethandwayo - bathi, abazali baya kufa kukuhlaselwa yintliziyo xa umntwana wabo esiya kukhokelela kwindlu kamalume, hayi umzali ongenaqabane kwimeko enjalo. Wawa kamnandi, kwenzeka, kodwa yafa ngokuthe tye - ke hayi. Ngapha koko, emva kwemizuzu emihlanu yokuqala yothusayo, abazali sele bonwabile kunye nokhetho lwakho, kuba banekhowudi yenkcubeko efanayo - bakhumbula ukuba olo hlobo lweblowu luye lwahlukana ne-cheese. Umfundi weminyaka engamashumi amabini athathwa ngokukodwa 'njengokuthi "Nkosi, intombi yam ilala nolu lubisi!".
8. Inkuthazo enye yeMithetho yeChitlele ifundeka: "Ufuna ukuba ngumntu obambe umntu-nxibelelana nabantu abangaguqukiyo." Eyona nto uyithandayo kunye nesangqa sonxibelelwano, njengomgaqo, asingobubi. Iminyaka engama-40 yincopho yomsebenzi, kwaye unxibelelwano kunye noontanga bodwa onothando lwayo lungayi kukhalimela ngokuthengisa intengiso yenethiwekhi.
9. Oyena tata ubalaseleyo umfana owodwa ongoyena mntu unokufuna ngokunyaniseka ngokupheleleyo ukuba uzale. Kodwa entlokweni yakhe, umntwana ujonge, aluphole, kodwa kakhulu. Indoda endala (ikwasoloko ihleli, kodwa ubuncinci ithuba) sele ingaqondi kuphela into yokuba abantwana bapheke, kodwa nendlela ayenza ngayo ukuba itota i-Cakes ngandlela thile.
10. Udelen Wlato, ewe. Akuyi kuqutyeke kakhulu, kodwa kunokubangela into. Nokuba kukho itanki ye-taker-isala inkanuko.
Yonke le nto, ewe, iyaqhubeka ukungarhoxisi i-oblique ijonge kwicala lakho. Kwaye ukuba indoda ithandekayo ngequbuliso ikuphatha imoto. Impendulo efanelekileyo yokutshona kwamazinyo: "Uninike nemoto?" Yile: "Ke, ukuba ungakhange uyikhuphe, ndaphola nje."