Kungekudala, kubomi besibini ngasinye, ingongoma engabuyanga iyeza xa kufuneka wazise umhle (okanye umhle) nabazali bam.
Lo ngumzuzwana onzima kunye nobunzima, kodwa yena, Awu, akunakuphepheka. Kuya kufuneka ubonise ookhokho obukhethiweyo kunye nokukhetha kwaye ufumane imvume (ethi ngeentsuku zakudala kwabizwa ngokuba yintsikelelo). Kwaye okhethiweyo kuya kufuneka benze yonke into eyenzekayo ukucacisa ulindelo oluphezulu lwabazali. Nika amadoda amadala ukuba aqonde ukuba awunguye iqela lemigulukudu kwaye ungabi hiubalka, iinjongo zakho zinzulu, kwaye ukhululekile.Ke indlela yokumisela lelo mzuzu nje? Ungaqonda njani ukuba sele ixesha?
Kukho imiqondiso elula elula yokuvumela ukuba ubale ngeli xesha likhulu ngokungathandabuzekiyo (kwaye wenze utyelelo aluphantse lungabi phawu, lungabi kakubi kakhulu kunephulo lokucoca ugqirha wamazinyo).
Ngaphandle kwakho, awunamntu
Inqanaba lokuphosa, xa kwangaxeshanye liqhubeke nemihla kunye namanye amaqabane, i-keled-feded, um, xa ilala namaqabane aliqela-hayi olona phuculo luphumelele umama wabo owuthandayo kule nto. Kuyavakala ukuba uza neqabane endlwini kaBawo kuphela ukuba unembono kuyo. Emva koko umama udidekile.
Sele ujijele kubo bonke abahlobo
Ndithandile iqabane labahlobo (kakuhle, okanye bakhusela nje ikratshi lakho), yena (okanye yena, okanye yena, athi, athi, Amenyiwe kwipikikhi yehlobo, ungxamile, abahlobo banxibelelana naye, kodwa ngaphandle inzondelelo enkulu. Elokugqibela, endleleni, ikwabalulekile: Ukuba umntu ovela kubahlobo besini esakhe wasabela kumkhethe owukhethekileyo, kuqala kubalulekile ukuba kuqonde okwenzekileyo. Ndikunye nomhlobo, umzekelo, ukuthetha. Okanye nentombi. Kuba namhlanje umhle nomama, kwaye ngomso uya kufundiswa phantsi kwempumlo.Iqabane sele lidibene namanye amalungu osapho lwakho.
Efanelekileyo - Abazalwana noodade. Utat'omkhulu ulungile ukuba ulwalamano lwakho naye lunqambile kunabazali. Linyathelo elinye elibi ngakumbi kunabahlobo (kuba abahlobo baya kubonisa yonke into, kwaye abazalwana bahlala benomdla kwaye bacinga umtshanana omncinci kubudala, kodwa boyika kunomama. Umzalwana akakhange enzenga umlo? Utat'omkhulu akazange afumane ipush? Ewe, kulungile, ungaqhubeka. Ngendlela, ukuba yenzekile ukuba ndidibane nam, masithi, nomakazi wakho ngokungacwangciswanga kwindawo yokutyela okanye kwivenkile kwaye kwafuneka ukuba ube lusizi, kuthetha ukuba iyimfuneko ukuya kumama ngokukhawuleza, nokuba andizukuya. Kuba abantu banepropathi yokuthetha, kwaye umama uya kudlulisela ukuba umntu wakho okhethiweyo unempondo, umsila kunye ne-acne.
Usebenzisa igama elithi "" sincokola ngekamva
Ukuba iza kwiphulo elidibeneyo kwi-bar okanye kwiklabhu yeFetish, lo ngumqondiso obalulekileyo. Kwixa elizayo kuya kubakho abazali. Kwaye ngaphezulu kunokuba ungathanda.Ukhethwe. Uxele oku. Kwaye awuyoyiki
Impendulo eqhelekileyo kwintlanganiso kunye nabazali abangaphandle komntu omdala yindiza ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba lo mnqweno awuveli, oko kuthetha ukuba akusekho abazali bamanye amazwe. Yintoni ke? Masibambe umphefumlo wakho-kwaye uqhubeke.
Uhamba nje
Akunakwenzeka ukuba uyicacisele nangayiphi na indlela, uthandane nje, awunakuphila ngaphandle komhlobo, ufuna ukwabelana nabanye ngayo kuyo yonke into onayo - kubandakanya umama. Sukucinga ngayo nantoni na, hamba uye kuqhelana, okokuqala kubazali omnye, emva koko ke kwabanye. Ekugqibeleni, xa bebona indlela obambelela ngayo yonke imithwalo kwaye ubeke elinye lamaqhekeza amnandi, masithi, ongqwangaza, njenge-gigge kuphela, akukho mntu ungayi Ndide ndilidle.
Eyona nto iphambili, ungazilibali iintyatyambo kunye nekhekhe.