Nasiphi na isibini sinokukhawuleza okanye sifike kade. Into eyaqala njengenoveli enesaqhwithi nelixesha lokuhlala ixesha elingaphaya kokukhula ibe ngumxube wentiyo. Oku kunokuphepheka ukuba unemiqondiso eyingozi ngexesha kwaye uzame ukuphelisa. Ngapha koko, kukho amaxesha amaninzi anzima, kwaye zahlukile kwisibini ngasinye. Siqokelele kuphela ezona meko ziqhelekileyo.
Uyekile ukunxibelelana.
Ngokuthe ngcembe, izihloko ezindala zeencoko zaphelelwa ngamandla, kwaye intsha ayizange ivele. Kwaye yintoni oza kuthetha ngayo, ukuba nayo yonke into ilungelelene? "Isuphu evaliweyo" - Ewe, yintoni na yokuxoxa, ngakumbi kuba ikhutyekisiwe ngequbuliso kwaye iza kucwangciswa isikrelemnqa? Ngenxa yoko, ukuthula kokutofotofo okuya kukhokelela ekunyukeni.
Iimvakalelo zokudandatheka.
Amaphupha, izicwangciso, izimvo, ingqumbo ethandekayo, ivakalise ingcikivo-yonke le nto ekuqaleni kolwalamano lwakho, kwaye emva koko iguqula incoko kwi-Connel-"kwaye ingabi nayo kabini iphepha lodonga "Umzekelo. I-ALO, ukunqanda izihloko ezibukhali unokuphulukana neyona nto iphambili. Ngaba uyabuza ukuba yintoni amaphupha akho ahamba ngayo? Ngaba uyazi kakuhle?
Awunayo into efanayo.
Ngequbuliso kuyavela ukuba awunanto inomdla. Kukonke. Kwaye akukho phupha liqhelekileyo. Kwaye ngokubanzi akucaci ukuba wenze ixesha elininzi kunye. Ayizange icocekile?
Ubungakanani bendlu.
Xa uxaxa, nganye yakho ilungile, yi- $ 146%. Ukungabikho kangangokuba akucacanga ukuba i-idiot (le idiot) ayinakuvumelani nawe. Kwaye akukho mntu akasayi kunika indlela. Ngoba ndingasinika njani i-idiot (idiot?)
Omnye umntu.
Ayisiyo ingqondo, kodwa inokuphumelela nje ukuba umntu osebenza naye emsebenzini, okanye umhlobo wakudala, okanye intombi- yazi ngobomi bakho. Ewe, ngenxa yokuba apho kwaye nemidla eqhelekileyo, kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ungcono kakhulu. Ungayithetha njani into yokubamba ibhola-"umzuzu oyingozi!" Kuba, enyanisweni yonke imicimbi esondeleyo, amathandabuzo kunye nobunzima ekufuneka uxoxe kunye nomnye, kwaye ungabi ngabahlobo, abahlobo kunye noogxa bakho.
Ukunqongophala kwenyathelo.
Ngelixa amaqabane omabini azama ukuyila into - izipho zasemini ngequbuliso, isidlo sangokuhlwa esinekhandlela ngaphandle kwesizathu, isondo esingalindelekanga apha kwaye ngoku - yonke into ilungile. Xa inyathelo lokuqala linyamalala (okanye liyohlwaywa, liyenzeka) - kukho into engahambanga kakuhle.
Phawula.
Eyona nto imbi kakhulu enokuthi inokwenzeka phakathi kwentanda ihleli iqhubeke ukuthintela ukungqubana. Ukuzama ukuhlala kusonjululwa imeko yehlabathi xa unokukhathazeka, kwaye ke kumnandi ukuxolelanisa - impazamo enkulu. Enye into kukuba ukuthuthwa okungapheliyo ngokwezizathu ezifanayo zentiyociyi xa omabini amaqela azikhumbuza zonke izono kumhla wokuqala nakwi-Edolo-idolo.
Ukunqongophala kwexesha.
Ewe, wonke umntu unomsebenzi omninzi. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha kuya kuba kuhle ukudibana nabahlobo. Ewe, abantwana bahlala phantse lonke ixesha lamahala. Ekuqaleni oko kubonakala ngathi kuhle, kwaye ukuhlala kunye, abantu banesithukuthezi. Kodwa emva koko iqhele. Ekugqibeleni, akukho nto imbi kangangexesha lokugqibela esichithe ixesha kunye ngexesha lokuthandana. Kwaye emva koko ungacinga ngequbuliso: Yakha njani ukuba sihlala kunye?
Ngokuthe ngcembe ukwandisa intiyo.
Kukho imikhwa emibi, ukudandatheka, kunye neenkcaso ezindala ezinepropathi yokukhula kwilitha ezingapheliyo, kwaye okungenakwenzeka. Kwaye apha, kakhulu, akukho nto iya kwenza nantoni na.
Akukho sini.
Namhlanje unentloko ebuhlungu. Ngomso wasela kakhulu. Ngosuku emva komso badiniwe. Ngemini elandelayo babeneendwendwe ezihamba kade. Ngenxa yoko, uluhlu lwe-gortic luvele kwi-Excel - zonke iimeko apho zinokwenzeka khona, kodwa akunjalo. Ixesha elingaphezulu, uqhela kwimeko enjalo. Ekugqibeleni, esi sini sikhethekileyo? Kwaye siphila ngaphandle kwawo! Kwaye enyanisweni hayi. Ukongeza, kumnandi, ngamandla kwaye kuyimfuneko, yeyona ndlela ibaluleke kakhulu yokunxibelelana, kunye nokuzithemba kokwenyani, kunye nengxoxo, kwaye ngomnye wezizathu ezimbalwa kufuneka aphile omnye komnye. Akuyi kubakho sini- akukho nto iya kwenzeka konke konke. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, olu luhlu alulunganga kangako. Iyimfuneko nje i-1) ukufumana ixesha, 2) Tara, 3) Qhoboshela kwaye wenze kunye ne-4) ukukhwela ebhedini. Nokuba kunjalo, inyanga uphila kunye okanye iminyaka engamashumi amabini.
