Xa kuvela isihloko sogonyamelo loSapho, ngokuqinisekileyo kufanelekile, oko kuya kuthi: "Kodwa ke, njani, sithandwa, sangaqalanga nkqo into yokuba umsulwa wakho ungumrhanisi, Ngaba awuboni ukuba uziphatha njengeenkomo "? Ngokwesiqhelo lo mbuzo unoxanduva lokuba umntu onobuqhetseba okokuqala wazikhokela kakuhle. Njengekati uziphathe kakuhle. Kwaye akukho nto ifanekiweyo. Kwaye emva koko kwakudala. Ke, kule meko, ixhoba logonyamelo losapho kwaye lingalunganga. Kuhlala kukho iintsimbi. Nje ukuba i-filtsitutions esenza ukuba siphume kuthi nge-intiots evakalayo: Yintoni ke iba yintlungu yethu, ekuqaleni kwethu ijongeka imsulwa kwaye intle.
Unenkathalo kakhulu
Icoca izihlangu zakho? Ukuqokelela isitya ngesidlo sasekhaya? Ngokwabuqu ngokobuqu ukuba usoloko une-gazick kwaye uqhekeze empumlweni ngaphandle kwesidingo, kuba "sisidenge, kwaye ungaphoswa"? Hayi indlela ekumnandi ngayo ukuzibona ngathi ubuthathaka kwaye uyazi ukuba kukho umntu omkhulu kwaye onobubele - ongayi kuvumela ukuba ufe kwilizwe elimangalisayo lezakhiwo ezimdaka kunye neebhutsi ezimdaka. Kodwa inkxalabo yenye, kwaye i-hyperopsek yahlukile ngokupheleleyo. Kwimeko yokuqala, olu luncedo olunobuhlobo, kwaye okwesibini - umhle, kodwa osisidenge, engakwazi na umntu ngaphandle kwebhulukhwe. Awu, njengokuziqhelanisa nemiboniso, "Usisidenge" rhoqo uguqulwe ube "apho sinyuka, isidenge."Unexhala ngam
Amakhonkco qho kwimizuzu elishumi kwaye ubuza ukuba uphi kwaye wenza ntoni, umzekelo. Kwaye ukuba ngequbuliso ungaphenduli, uza ngamehlo asasazekileyo kwaye uphathe. Ukwenza wena kuyo yonke imisebenzi yakho, kubandakanya neepericure kunye ne-gynecologist. Kwaye unesikhwele kuwe kwiintombi kwaye ubabize "ezizidenge." Hayi, sithandwa. Akakhathazeki ngawe. Uxhalabele ukuba usenokwakho ubomi bakho, obungaphantsi. Ubomi abufuna ngokwenene ukulawula. Isilumkiso! Uya kuqengqeleka uluhlu lweendawo ezikufutshane nekamva elikufuphi, apho ungahamba khona noluhlu lwabantu onokuthi udibane naye. Kwakhe, ubukho.Unothando
Wenza i-tatoo ngegama lakho kwaye wabhala phantsi kwefestile yakho "ndiyathanda ngonaphakade", yaye xa uxabane, wadanduluka waya emanzini akhe ukuba uyakuyeka? Abantu basongelwe, kwaye uziva unamandla eebhloko zeHollywood? Ewe, imeko yemithungo. Olo thando lokuphakanyiswa ngokungazithembi ngokungazithembi malunga nokungazinzi kwengqondo, umkhwa wokuqubuda kunye nomnqweno wokufezekisa iindlela zabo. I-veins iya kuyivula ngokungalindelekanga, kodwa igazi lakho liya kuhamba.Unobuntu
Uyakuvala lonke ixesha, ukwanga, ugcina izandla, echukumisa. Ngamanye amaxesha kancinci rhoqo kwaye yomelele kancinci kunokuba ndingathanda. Ngamanye amaxesha apho kungangcono ukwenza ngaphandle kwe-hugs. Umzekelo, xa abazali bakho betyelele. I-ALI, "I-Tactile ye-Tratile" sisizathu sokulumkisa. Kuyabonakala ukuba, "mhle" ngokuqinisekileyo uqinisekile ukuba ungowakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba ilungelo lokuhlasela indawo yakho nangaliphi na ixesha. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu ajikeleze umntu ongumniniyo apha, ngubani na. Ibonisa, iwele phambi komntu wonke kwaye ungaphenduli kwizicelo zakho zokuma.Unesisa esingenangqondo
Ibonisa ngezipho, ngokucacileyo azifikeleli kuye? Uthathe imali mboleko kwaye ukuthengele i-iPhone / yemoto / indlu? Uyakufumanisa kwiindawo ezibizayo kwaye uqeshise ihelikopta yepinki ngeempelaveki? Musa ukungxama ukuba nemihlali kwaye uqhayise. Okokuqala, oku kwakhona kungqina ukuba sisiseko esiphakanyisiweyo, kwaye okwesibini, uyayijonga ngokucacileyo imveliso onokuyithenga. Nantso imini unokukhumbula abakhweli kunye nehelikopta yepinki.Angafakwanga ngesondo
I-ivolventive, inomdla kwaye inqabile kancinci. Unokuba neentlobano zesini kunye nawe nangaliphi na ixesha, enganikeli ingqalelo kwizinto "izinto ezincinci", njengokudinwa kwakho, ukugula okanye ingqesho. "Ndifuna wena, mntwana ongakwaziyo ukuthintela," ke wena, ngokunjalo. Enjalo masibe yinkalo yokwenene! Kodwa ngaxa lithile ufumanise ukuba lonke inyathelo livela kuye, kwaye uyavuma nje. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu ukubuzayo. Kwaye "Ndifuna kakhulu, babe" kudala banciphise "Wenza ntoni apha"?Ucwangcisa ubomi bethu bexesha elizayo ngokweenkcukacha
Waqala ukuthi "thina" esivela kwasekuqaleni kokuthandana? Kwaye phantse ngoko nangoko waqala ukucwangcisa ukuphumla kwakho ekwabelwana ngayo, khetha ifanitshala kwindlu yakho yexesha elizayo kwaye ubize abantwana bakho bexesha elizayo nge-foma, i-NE-NORMETNA? Kumnandi, kunjalo ukuba umntu ubaluleke kakhulu malunga nolwalamano. Yiyo nje le nto ingeyiyo eyakho, kodwa ubomi bakhe kwindawo yakho kwenye indawo phakathi kwe-rips yakho oyithandayo kunye nephakeji ngeetshipsi. Izinto onomdla kuzo azikhathazeki ngokupheleleyo. Ngaphandle koko, wayeya kubuza ukuba ungathanda vassens kunye nompuffikhi kwiholo, okanye mhlawumbi unezicwangciso ze-MBA kunye ne-antarctica.Ngokwenyani akabathandi abafazi, kodwa ndimkhulu
Oku kudla ngokuthetha ukuba "mhle" ibonisa wonke umgangatho obuthathaka ukusuka kusasa ukuya ngokuhlwa. Bonke abantu basetyhini banezidenge, ezihenyukazi kunye nemizimba enobukroti nowedwa - intyatyambo ebomvu, eyathi yahlangana nayo kwikhondo lalo elinomeva. Ukuba isihloko 'sangaphambili' sivela, ke yonke into iphuma isoyikisa ngokupheleleyo. "Wangaphambili" bahlala bethatyathwa eSchizophrenia, iKleptomania, ubundlobongela kunye nokutyeba kakhulu. Sukukholelwa ukuba akunakwenzeka. Okokuqala, uyakholisa. Kwaye, okwesibini, wena uyazi ukuba ungoyena mntu ulungileyo kwabasetyhini. Injalo loo nto, ngelishwa, kuya kuba kukuzibuza okwethutyana. Nje ukuba aqiniseke ukuba awunakuze naphi na, uya kudluliselwa kwenye into. "TUT kunye namafutha", "i-phurtertical kwaye ibawa" njalo njalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kwenza into ayikhethileyo.Emva kwakhe, ndiziva ndikhuselekile. Uyindoda yokwenene
Wasasazeka ukutshaya ekungeneni kwabafikisayo. Wahlaselwa elunxwemeni kum, uAlkash, ukuba wamkelwa. Akwanele ukujonga abanye abantu, kwaye basuka kum kude. " Le yindawo enzima. Phantse ayinamceli mngeni. Ukuba 'yindoda yokwenene ", oko kuthetha ukomelela, kunesibindi kwaye kungoyiki. Ukuba kufutshane nomntu onjalo - iphupha lomntu wonke. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ekuqaleni kobudlelwane obungadidanisisa inkalipho kunye nobukrwada. Ibalulekile. Kuba lowo namhlanje "njenge-alkash", ngomso bekungakubetha ngokulula esiswini. Ewe kunjalo, ngoku ndiqinisekile ukuba oku akuyi kwenzeka kuwe. Ulumkile, ngononophelo, unobuqili, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, uya kwandula ukwenziwa kwaye uhambe. Kodwa okwangoku, kungcono ukuyijonga ngakumbi ngoku, ngelixa usenokuba njalo. Ewe ulungile. Ewe unenceba. Ugqobhoza amathontsi empumlo kwaye ahlome iikawusi zakho ebhetri. Kwaye makazingcwabe. Kunye naye! Kodwa ukuba uthe wasondla okanye umlo ngaphandle kwezizathu ezibonakalayo, ukuba uye emntwaneni okanye ehlaze indoda endala, ukuba ukhe wavumela ukuba alumkise ilizwi okanye into ebuthathaka - yiya. Ulonwabo aluyi kuba lapha.