Kwakungekho zinto zixhalabisayo kwibhinqa, waqalisa uthando olungelulo. Ngethamsanqa, kwipics.ru ibhala i-Psychotherapist Adrian Izh, ngubani owaziyo ukuphelisa ukukhohlisa kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukujongana nedrama yothando ayiyonto (okanye ayinayo loo nto).
1. Awumthandi mntu
Ewe, enyanisweni, awukathandi. Ngapha koko, ukuthanda umntu, kufuneka azi. Ngokukhethekileyo kulungile. Ukuba ubandezeleka kwaye uyashukuma, kuya kufuneka ungalazi lo mntu.Umzekelo, uthanda uhlobo olufanelekileyo. Okanye intle. Okanye indlela yokutshintsha i-sexy itshintsha ngayo itayara ngemoto. Okanye njengokupeyinta kakhulu iindonga. Okanye indlela yokuhambisa umnqamlezo. Olu asilothando. Ngumnqweno obhalwe ngokwesini wokufunda ngcono. Ukuba awukwazi ukwazi-uthando oluthile.
2. Ugqibe ngemfuneko
Imeko yothando inokubizwa ngokuba yimfuneko yokuchaza. Unesidingo sokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu, inkxaso, ukoneliseka ngokwesondo. Kwaye lo mntu ubonakala kuwe ngale nto ifanelekileyo.
Kodwa ayisiyonyani leyo kukuba kufanelekile oku. Ye. Ngamanye amaxesha siwela kwiiapile zeplastiki kwindlala. Ngakumbi ukuba ngaphambi kokutya okuqhelekileyo akuzange kubonwe konke konke. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ngokufuthi sisabela kwezinye izinto ezingafunekiyo kubudlelwane kwaphela - umzekelo, umntu uhlelwa njenge chemistry. Leliphi ixesha, enyanisweni, thetha nge-chemistry? Okanye kaninzi kangakanani ngonyaka abatshintsha amavili?
I-Apple yeplastiki kungcono ukuba ihambe kakuhle ilele kakhulu apho, apho ilele kwaye ayizami ukuyenza idlule.
3. Udidekile kwiilebheli
Ukuba ubandezeleka ngenxa yokuba ungamthandi (okanye yena), onokubakho, ayinasimo sengqondo kuye okanye kuwe, nakuwe.Uyilondoloze "i-tick" eyoyikisayo "kulo mntu, kwaye ilebhile" ngu-ke ", kwaye ngoku i-disons ikuqhuba. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, abanye abantu bakubamba enye iqela leelebheli. Mhlawumbi kule ndoda uninzi lwabanye, izitikha zakhe.
Kodwa umsebenzi othile kukuzama ukudibana nenyani kwaye niyazana. Kunqabile ukuba iphume. Kodwa, kwakhona, de kuphele-akukho thando. Kukho incoko yababini ngeelebheli. Ayizizo zonke iimpahla ukusuka kwi-valentino intle. Kuncinci ukujonga ithegi, kufuneka uzame ngaphandle - njengoko ubona, akukho mtshato. Kwaye ngokubanzi, ivela phi? Uyinxiba phi?
4. Ubandezeleka ngelize
Kodwa ndiyabandezeleka inyaniso! " -Batsho abathandi abangonwabanga.
Yintoni ebandezelekileyo - inyaniso. Kwaye, ngantoni, yintoni?
-Ngoko Akandithandi? -Ke kutheni ukungabikho kwento yento ebangela intlungu.
-Ngaba yinyani yokuba ndiyinto yokutya? -O ayisiyonto malunga nothando.
-Ngoko inyani yokuba zonke iintlobo zencwadana ziyathandana nam, kwaye zingabi ngumfaneleko - nguThixo onesigidi seedola? Ewe, kakhulu kwenzeka rhoqo. Kwaye ndifumene phi umbono wokuba umzimba womelele kufuneka ube phi? Kutheni le nto akwanelanga kum?
-Ngoku ngekhe ndibekho ebomini bolonwabo? - Yiza, masingazixeleli ngekamva elililo. Njengemvakalelo yendlala, akunakwenzeka ukwanelisa iiapile zeplastiki, kodwa ungayifumana i-Apple ye-Apple, i-carwich kunye nesandwich yesanti, kunye nendlala yesandla kunye nendlala. amadoda nabafazi. Umbuzo kuphela apho uza kufowunela kwaye uyokunxibelelana njani nabo.
5. Uzama ukuzincama
- Kuthekani ngothando, umanyano lweeshawa, iihafu ezizodwa?
Lo ngumbuzo endiwuthandayo, enkosi ngaye.
Ngokwesiqhelo phantsi kwale salece ufihla i-tensey enye into enomdla ngakumbi ukuzincama ngokwakho. Ngokukhethekileyo-umntu. Kucetyiswa nje kwaye ungabi nabala kuyo nayiphi na into. Unokwenzeka - umntu oqhelekileyo ongayaziyo. Ngaba uyayifuna?
Ukuba kukho imfuneko, olu asilogqirha wezengqondo, ukwihlelo. Bayathanda ukuzithanda, ukusela iintshukumo ezincinci.
Ukuba akunyanzelekanga ukuba uthando luyimvakalelo enzima, yenziwa apha enyakeni, enye kwisibini esitshatileyo ngokwenene. Kungavela izihlandlo ezininzi ebomini kwaye yonwabe kakhulu. Kwaye kolu hlobo lwayo.
Kwaye ukuvula imithambo ayifuni. Ukuba iyafuneka - olu asilothando. Iqinisekisiwe.