Ngesiphi na esingabahlobo, eh? Awuthethi nabani na, awuyi kubhukuda kwi vest, awungekhe wenze iwaka ukuya ngomso, awuyi kuyisela i-vodka. Kwaye ukutyhubela iminyaka, abasafi. Ngapha koko, ayisiyonyani, kunjalo: abantwana bavela kwiminyaka edlulileyo, abantwana bavela ebantwaneni naseWilly-Ivalite Uqala ukuba ngumhlobo kunye nabazali babantwana. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iguqula abantu abamangalisayo. Kodwa kunqabile. Emsebenzini, kungcono, kuyavela ukuba bafumane amaqabane okusela, kwiiklabhu zasebusuku - uthando lobomi bonke, kodwa abahlobo kwiminyaka yonke incinci, ye-ALAS.
Abantu babelana ngokopolitiko
Ke ngoku, xa enxibelelene nemfazwe, iza ngobudenge. Umhlobo omnye ugqiba ekubeni abe yi-URA Patriot, owesibini otyhafisayo, kwaye ngoku zonke. Asitsaleli emva kwaye singathethi izihloko zethu eziqhelekileyo-abantwana, abafazi, umsebenzi, imali, ukuhamba kunye neendiza ezinqeni. Ngoba? Yintoni, enyanisweni, itshintshile? Ekugqibeleni, iresiphi yobuhlobo yangoku yenye kuphela: ukuba ingabi njalo. Hlonipha umnxibelelanisi, ukuqonda ukuba iimbono zakhe zinomhlaba onzulu, iiyure ezininzi zokubonisa okanye izizathu zezemali eziqinisekileyo. Ukumamela ngononophelo kwaye uchaze umbono wakho ngentlonelo-oku kungaphezulu kokufaneleka ukuze ubudlelwane bugcinwe. Ekugqibeleni, abantwana, abafazi, umsebenzi, imali kunye neenqwelomoya ezinqeni-ngamanye amaxesha zibaluleke kwaye zibangele imbambano yezopolitiko.Imeko yentlalo
Esikolweni okanye kwiziko, saya kwibhulukhwe efanayo (ingekuko ngobuqhophololo, kodwa ngokommandla weqonga, kodwa ke umntu wahlala engunobhala kumvuzo omkhulu, kwaye umntu uthathe umntu kwishishini elikhulu. Ke yintoni? Usengabahlobo. Uneminyaka emininzi yembali ngokubanzi, izinto eziqhelekileyo, unento yokuthetha ngayo. Kanye apha, kunye nomhlobo otyebileyo kakhulu, kuya kufuneka ubonise ubukhethekileyo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uqonde xa kufanelekile ukuhlawula, kwaye xa kungcono ukungabi nakuphathelele malunga nayo (kwaye kungcono ukungabi nakuphi na ukuba kungcono). Kufanelekile ukuya kwiindawo zokutyela kwisandla esiphakathi, apho umhlobo ohlwempuzekileyo engenzi sifo sentliziyo ngelixa ufunda imenyu. Ngamafutshane, intlupheko (okanye, masitsho njalo, kulungile kwaye siyimfuneko ekuhlonipheni.
Abafazi abatshatileyo
Inketho ethambileyo-Umhlobo uwela eluthandweni ukuze kungabikho nto ivelayo. Kodwa inokunyamezela nje. Ixesha elibukhali xa abantu bebambe izandla kwaye kwithuba lokuqala lokutsiba ebhedini, kuhlala, kulungile, iinyanga ezimbalwa. Inqanaba elilandelayo lilandelayo: "Kufuneka sibonise intombazana kubo bonke abahlobo, sivuye kum nomona, eGada." Kule meko, nayo ayiyi kuba lula, kodwa ubuncinci umhlobo uya kubonakala. Kwasekuqaleni emva kweenyanga ezintandathu, uya kuvuyela ukudibana "kwimodi" yabafazi kwaye aphumle kancinci ukusuka kwisiqingatha esihle. Okubi, xa intombi yomhlobo ikholelwa ukuba bonke abahlobo bakhe yishiti. Amantombazana anjalo, ngelishwa, kakhulu, kodwa uthando lubi kwaye oku kufuneka kunxulumene nentlonipho kunye nomonde. Izinketho zophuhliso lomsitho ziya kuba zintathu. Nokuba ngabahlobo bakho bomhlobo abulungile- kodwa asiyiqondi. Nokuba ubudlelwane bakhe abuyi kuhlala buhleli, kuba "uyandithanda-uthando nenja yam, kunye nemoto yam, kunye nomthetho we-11. Nokuba uya kuhlala, kwaye nabahlobo badibana emfihlekweni. Le meko, nangona kunjalo, ikwasoloko ikhokelela ekuqhubeni. Ke kuya kufuneka nizole, nizilile kunye naye. Intombazana iyamkeleka, enye ngexesha lezikhuselo zokubonelela nge-clamshead, kwaye emva kwekhefu-yanyamalala nge-vodka emnandi neluncedo.Usapho lokuhamba kwabahlobo
Indoda ilele intaba yeedayithi kunye neentlanganiso zabazali, ihamba ngempelaveki ukuya kumkhwekazi kunye nomkhwenyana kwi-cottage nakweyiphi na into ngebhola ekhatywayo ayinakuthetha. Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe apha? Oku kufuneka kuhlonelwe. Intsapho inikiwe asikokuphela, kwaye ityhubhu yenkunkuma yityuwa yomhlaba. Kuyenzeka ukuba unethemba apha kuphela ukuba ubuhlobo luhambo lomdlalo, abantwana baya kukhula, kwaye umntu ovalekileyo wawulindelekile okanye kamva odiniwe kuko konke kwaye uya kufunda. Ewe, kubahlobo, nabo, kunjalo. Ekugqibeleni, asikude kakhulu kule nto.
Ukuncedwa nje
Sinezinto ezininzi kakhulu, kwaye ekugqibeleni siyalibala ukuphakamisa ifowuni kwaye umnxeba (Ngubani ngoku ongqalileyo ngoku? I-SMS-KI engcono), asinakuza kwisikhumbuzo, siziphathe njengezimbiza ezigcwele. Ubudlelwane nabahlobo lukwabudlelwane, kwaye kufuneka zixhaswe. Bhala, tsalela umnxeba, buza unjani, akuyimfuneko ukunceda ukuba loo mntu akahambi amanwine ezivela kwiireyithi zakhe, abafazi ababi, ubuhlwempu kunye nobutyebi kunye nengxoxo yezopolitiko?Iinethiwekhi zentlalo
Oku ngokubanzi yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kuluntu, ebonakala ngathi isondele, kwaye enyanisweni. Ulonwabo lokuzalwa uCongratus-online. Ukuthanda endaweni yonxibelelwano. Nokuba uyakwazi ukuhlangana kwaye uqala ukuxelela ibali elibangela umdla, umhlobo uthi: Ewe, sele wabhala ngayo, ndifunda. Zonke iziqhulo eziqaqambileyo kunye neziqhulo ziba ngumlo kwangaphambi kokuba unexesha lokusela iglasi yokuqala. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kwinethiwekhi yentlalo yesizathu esithile phantse yonke into ijika nge trolls kunye ne-freaks. Abantu, abakhokelela kububele bokwenyani, baphendukele ebugocukudu, amajoni eSofa, abacimi abangoyikiyo kumthetho wendalo iphela. Kwaye nguThixo othintela loo mazinyo: ayinamsebenzi ukuba kwiminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo ubuphupha ngeedola ezintlanu kunye nezicwangciso zeNapoleonAnic. Umbala, njengerag kwaye awuyi kuqaphela. Phuma, kwakhona, elula: Hlonipha, xabisa, hayi ukuxhatshazwa. Ekugqibeleni, inethiwekhi yoluntu yasuswa ukuthumela iikati, kwaye ingabubuleli bokuzinzisa ngokuziphatha. Zinakekele kunye nawe!