Ngelishwa, phantse wonke umntu ujongene nokukhanya kwegesi ngexesha lobomi bakhe. Eyona nto iyoyikeka kakhulu xa ivela kumntu othandekayo, kuba kule meko ubungangazi nje kwaye kuya kuchaphazela impilo-ntle yemvakalelo, eyenyama nengqondo. Ngapha koko, ezi "mdlalo wengqondo" zinokuba zicacile kangangokuba abantu abaninzi bengakrokrela ukuba ubundlobongela obuqhelekileyo busetyenziswa kubo.
Esona sizathu siphambili sokuba ungakuqondi oku kukuba uhlala ukholelwa umntu othanda, kwaye ucinga ukuba akazukukwazi ukungcatsha kwaye anigxeze. Inyani yile yokuba ukugalala yeyona nto inobungozi kwaye, ngelishwa, yeyona ndlela isebenzayo yokuphumelela.Igesi, ngubani, kwiimeko ezininzi, yi-DAFFODIL okanye i-daffodil, isebenzisa ngabom olu hlobo lobundlobongela ngokwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo ebantwini nasekulawuleni ngokupheleleyo. Inqaku lokwenyani lokukhanya kwegesi kukucutha imvakalelo yokuzithemba ngokwayo kunye nemvakalelo yesidima sakhe ukuya kuthi ga ngoku ixhoba liqalise ukuthandabuza, impilo yengqondo, kunye nenyaniso yokuba ayithethi nakanye nantoni na. Imvakalelo yokungazithembi ikhula kangako ukuba idini alinakwamkela nasiphi na isigqibo ngokobuqu, kwaye lixhomekeke kwi-gaslavl.
Igesi ngabom ifihla ulwazi, kwaye iphinda ithathe indawo yezibakala eziziva zikrexezile. Unokuqala ngokutsha ngokutsha kwezinto ezijikeleze indlu kwaye uphaphile ukuba "yonke into ibinjalo." Inyani yile yokuba kufuneka idideke kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwaye ichithe ixhoba, idlala ngengqondo yakhe. Ngapha koko, akasayi kukhankanya izinto ezikhonkqisayo, ukuze ke akuqinisekise ukuba "sele uthe le nto ingaphezulu kwesinye."
Kwaye ke, ude uqale ukukholelwa ukuba uyaphambana. Umzekelo, unokukuxelela into ekhubekisayo kwaye enoburharha, kwaye xa uthe wacaphuka ngenxa yoku, uya kuwonakalisa ngoko nangoko akhanyele. Uya kube esomelela ukuba ugxile kuphela kwi-neganey kwaye ujonge nje isizathu sokuthambisa. Uya kukwenza uzive unomona, ungaqinisekanga kwaye utshabalalise ukuzithemba kulwalamano, kwaye ukuze uziva uziva ngathi uyamkhohlisa. Kwaye xa umangalela umkhombandlela onjalo kule, uya kuvakalisa ukuba uzama ukuba phambukeli, njengoko uneengxaki ezinzulu ngentembeko.
Igesi iya kukugculela, tsalela umnxeba kwaye uyihlazele ngesazela ukufumana amandla amakhulu ngaphezulu kwakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Ke, oko kufanele ukuba kuthathelwe ingqalelo kubudlelwane ukuze uqonde ukuba awukhange ungonwabi.
1. Uhlala ucela uxolo kwiqabane lakho.
Nokuba awenzanga nto iphosakeleyo. Kungenxa yokuba i-manipulator ikwenza uzive ngathi usisizathu sayo yonke into engeyiyo kulwalamano lwakho, kwaye, ke, uziva unemfuno esisigxina yokuthatha uxanduva kuyo yonke into kwaye ucele uxolo.
2. Awunakho ukwenza izigqibo
Njengoko uya kuhlala uziva ngathi akukhathaleki, kuya kuhlala kuphosakele. Ekugqibeleni, uya kuvakalelwa kukuba awusakwazi ukucinga kwaye wenze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo malunga nantoni na, kwaye ke uya kuqala ukulinda iqabane ukuba likusombulule.3. Utshintshile
Xa uqala ukucinga ngomntu owawungaphambi kobuhlobo, kwaye malunga nomntu ngoku, kubudlelwane, ke qaphela ukuba ngaphambi kokuba uhluke ngokupheleleyo.
4. Uziva uneentloni
Kunzima kakhulu ukuba uthembele ingqondo yakho kunye nengqondo yakho, kwaye uhlala udidekile kwaye uneentloni. Umbono uhlala ujikeleza entloko, oko kufanelekileyo kuwe.5. Uba yinto yokutshintsha
Uqala ukuncama abantu kufutshane nawe, zihlobo kunye neentsapho. Isizathu soku silula- uziva ukhathazekile, ukhathazwe ngumntu wonke kwaye ungabalulekanga, ongenamandla okuba kufutshane nabani na okufutshane.
Ukunyanzela ukuba uzive ulungelelene ngokupheleleyo, igesi iya kukulawula ekugqibeleni. Uya kuba ngumthombo wakhe, kwaye uya kukusebenzisa ukufezekisa ngokwakho ukuzingca kunye nokugqwetha. Kwaye xa ubanika yonke into abayifunayo kuwe, baya kuya kwixhoba elilandelayo. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka uyikhumbule ihlala ifuneka ilandele intuition yakho kwaye ujonge imiqondiso yogonyamelo lobundlobongela bengqondo. Ukuba kunjalo, kwaye i-Intuition iphakamisa ukuba ayilunganga, ibaleka kangangoko unakho kwaye ungaze ujonge ngasemva.