Kukholelwa ukuba zimbini iintlobo ze-daffodils: iveze kwaye ifihliwe. Uhlobo lokuqala lungalula kakhulu ekufumaneni, kuba abantu abanjalo babonisa ukungasebenzi kakuhle, ukuxhaphaza kunye nokudinwa, kudla ngokunxulumana ne-narcissism. I-Narcissusfissusfissus efihliweyo, nangona kunjalo, ayibonisi. Kubonakala ngathi ukuthozama kwaye kunolwazelelelo, kodwa ngaphakathi 'kukufihla "oyena mntu uzithembayo.
Ngokwesiqhelo ii-daffodili ezifihliweyo zithathwa njengexesha zivaliwe kwaye zinovelwano. Kwangelo xesha, iimpawu zabo zomlinganiswa badidekile zididekile ngokungena ngaphakathi. Ngelixa uNarcissus obonisa ukuba uza kuvuma ukuphakama kwayo ezindleleni ezibonakalayo nezingaphantsi, i-DAFFODIL efihlakeleyo yokuchonga inzima ngakumbi.1. Banobukrwada
I-narcissus engathandekiyo, efuna ukuqaphela kwaye ayithandele, inokubangela ingqumbo ngayo nayiphi na into oyifunayo. Xa ufuna inkoliseko, uya kuthi "ewe" kwaye aqiniseke ukuba uza kujongana nale ngxaki, kwaye akufuneki unexhala. Emva koko ungoyiki "ugoso" wedwa, kuba uyakuthatha oko ukuba ixesha namandla lawo lichithwe.
Iya kukuphepha ukwenza into ethenjisiweyo, emva koko ize ingenzi ukuba ingayithathi ifowuni xa uzama ukunxibelelana naye. Kwaye xa ekugqibeleni uyijonga ngokuziphatha okunjalo, uya kuqalisa ukuthuka aze axabane ukuba ingakanani ilayishwe ngumsebenzi kunye nokuba ubusisidenge kangakanani na ukuveza amabango anjalo ngokubhekisele kwixesha lakhe. Kwaye nokuba wenza into obuyicelileyo, unokuqiniseka ukuba uza kuxelela wonke umntu wonke umntu ukuba unomdla kuye kwaye uzivelele kwixhoba.
Ezinye ii-nacissists nazo azinazo iingxaki zobuqhetseba, zibangela ityala. Basebenzisa olo qhinga ukufumana into abayifunayo. Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukuba uhlale naye ekhaya, unokubhengeza ukuba uziva kakubi. Ukuba ke uthe ngalo ngeyure akenzekanga kuye, uNarcissus uza kuphendula into enje: "Kulungile, hamba uye kuchitha ixesha. Kanye ukuba uyazi, ndinengxaki yokuphefumla, ukuze ndiswele kuhlaselo lwesifuba ngalo naliphi na ixesha. "
2. Abasweli bonakaliso
I-daffodils efihliweyo kwaye ifihliwe i-daffodils i-egodric kwaye ayibalulekanga kangako kwabanye. Kwimeko ye-DAFFALIL eyimfihlo, oku kunokuzibonakalisa kwinto yokuba iphantse ingamameli, kwaye ngokucacileyo ayibonakali ngokungqalileyo. Rhoqo bakwazi ukunika inkcazo kwiimfuno zabanye abantu, nangona inokwenza ngathi ikhathalele. Inyani yile yokuba kukhubekiswa ngabanye abazama ukubabiza ngeengxaki zabo.3. Banobuthathaka kakhulu
I-narcisis esebenzayo ihlala inobuthathaka kakhulu kwaye ayikwazi ukujamelana naluphi na uhlobo lokugxekwa. Bajamelana neengxelo ezimbi malunga nabo, baya kukhuselwa (kwaye, ngokwenza oku ngengqondo ecacileyo yokukhathazeka kwaye basebenzisa iimpikiswano ezivakalayo), nakwiimeko apho "umntu" anokugungqa imeko. Ngokwesiqhelo bazama ukufihla ukuba bakhathaza kangakanani, kwaye endaweni yoko bazenza ngathi bangenamdla.
4. Abakwazi ukwenza ubudlelwane obulungileyo.
I-DAFFODS ECONDEFADDS inamava ngakumbi kwinkxalabo eninzi ekusekweni kobudlelwane nabanye ngenxa yobuthathaka bokuzithemba kwabo. Banokukuphepha ubudlelwane ngenxa yokoyika ukuba ukungaphumeleli okunokubakho kunokunganyamezeleki kubo. I-Narcissian-Inroversian Prives ivavanywa ngokungakhathali kwaye iphazamisa into (ngokuchaseneyo ne-daffodis engqonge, ebizwa ngokuba yinkohliso, ikhohlakalo, ilahlekile).5. Bamangalela abanye, hayi ngokwabo
I-daffodils engathandekiyo iya kuzama ukonakalisa wonke umntu ozijikelezile ebomini, ongazange wamkele uxanduva lwakho ngenxa yokuba "engahambanga kakuhle."
Baza kugxeka abazali babo kwinto yokuba bengazange babanike amathuba awaneleyo ebuntwaneni, kwaye umphathi wabo kukuba ubahlawula imali eyaneleyo. Bazakutyhola abahlobo babo kwinto yokuba bengabanceda bahlangabezane nabantu abafanelekileyo, kwaye banxulumana nabantu abathandanayo xa besingena kubudlelwane kunye nabo.
Ukuba kufunyenwe ukuba ujongene ne-DAFFODIL ecaleni kwakho, uhlala ufuna ukukhumbula ukuba kufanelekile ukuhlala ugcina i-gonit kwaye ungasasebenzi ngokweemvakalelo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye uphephe ukuzithoba.