Ingqondo yanamhlanje isixelela ukuba ngaphandle kwezakhono zokuva okusebenzayo akunakwenzeka ukuba uphumelele kulo naliphi na inqanaba lobomi. Iipics aziyi kuphikisana noku. Kodwa sinomdla kwelinye: Kutheni le nto i-Psychology ingasichazi ngemizekelo eqhelekileyo neqondakalayo, enje, imamela ngenkuthalo?
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Ukukhuthaza
Umsebenzi wakho kukunika umnxibelelanisi ukuba aqonde ukuba umamele ngononophelo. Jonga amehlo akhe. Ingqungquthela. Sebenzisa ibinzana elithi "Ngokulukhuthazayo?", "Wowu!"
Ukucaciswa
Cacisa ukuba kuthetha ukuba umnxibelelanisi afuneke ngokupheleleyo. Ngaphandle koko, bobabini baya kuqala ukucinga malunga nokunye okuncinci. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba uMnxibelelanisi wakho akazi ukuba angazi nto ukucacisa imiba ethile ebuhlungu. Sebenzisa ibinzana elithi "awukwazi ukuphinda." "Ubufuna ukuba ...", "ekuqondeni kwakho ..."
Ukutshintsha
Ukuba uyakufunda iingcinga zomnxibelela wakho, yena, uya kuva ukuba ivakala njani ukusuka ecaleni, kwaye okwesibini, iya kuqonda ukuba ingxelo isunguliwe. Kwaye iya kuba nakho okanye ihlengahlengise amagama abo, okanye ukuya kushwankathela. Sebenzisa ibinzana "Ngamanye amagama ...", "lonto ...", "njengoko bendiqonda ..."
Ukuphuhliswa kweengcinga zomnxibelelanisi
Kuya kufuneka uthathe umbono ophambili womnxibelelanisi kwaye uzame ukuphucula. Ke kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uye kwintsingiselo yokwenyani yengxelo. Sebenzisa ibinzana elithi "ndicinga ukuba ..", "Ndifumene umbono .."
Ukucamngca ngeemvakalelo zomnxibelelanisi
Umsebenzi wakho kukunika umnxibelelanisi ukuba aqonde ukuba uyaqondakala kungekuphela nje kwintsingiselo yabo, kodwa neemvakalelo zakhe malunga noko kwakutshiwo. Sebenzisa ibinzana elithi "wena, ngokucacileyo, ukhathazekile kakhulu .." "," Ndicinga ukuba uziva .. "
Uvelwano
Kuya kufuneka ukuba wazise umnxibelelanisi ukuba awuqondi, kodwa ukwabelane ngokupheleleyo. Sebenzisa ibinzana "kwindawo yakho ndingakwa.", "Ndikuqonda njani .."
Isishwankathelo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukushwankathela incoko. Ke ngoko, uMoruter wakho uya kuqonda ukuba yayingelilo ilize ndilisusayo umphefumlo ophambi kwakho. Sebenzisa ibinzana "ukuba ukushwankathela kwatsho ..", "ekugqibeleni kuyavela ukuba ..."
