Kukho iimeko apho ungafuneki ukhwela ummelwane wakho kunye noncedo lwakho kude. Ishishini lethu liyasiqonda kuphela kwaye lisinde la maxesha.
Ngamanye amaxesha uyaphula ububi nokungabikho kokusesikweni kuwe. Kwaye ukuba awuyiyo inkqubo ye-rocket ngqo kwaye yafika ngokukhawuleza-ndaye ndabona - emva koko ndikuqhekeze kwaye kumgubo wokukhetha. Ukubhala, kungenjalo kuya kuba "oh" - okanye ungalingani, kwaye ke iya kuba mbi ngakumbi? Ewe kunjalo, azikho iimpendulo eziqhelekileyo. Kucacile ukuba kwimeko nganye kukho iqela leendawo ezinqabileyo. Kodwa kukho amaxesha apho impendulo inye: "Musani ukulungelelana, kwaye kuya kuba mbi."1. Umntu uyala ngokuthe ngqo
Unaye ngeenjongo ezintle: "Lenochka, into onosizi namhlanje!" Kwaye lilizwi eligudileyo: "Ewe Hayi, yonke into ilungelelene." Uyaqonda: Ewe, ewe, intombazana ethobekileyo nenesidima. Kwaye qhubeka: "Ndiyayiqonda yonke into! Kwenzeke ntoni kuwe? " Sele iyothusayo: "Ewe, akukho nto ujongeyo." Unikezela ngokunyaniseka ukwahlula ubunzima kwaye ubambe igxalaba lakho. Uphosa kuwe ... kutheni? Kungenxa yokuba inombolo yomyalelo yenye yazo yonke i-chip-i-dale: "Ukuba awufuni uncedo lwakho - ungahambi noncedo lwakho." Iyasebenza kwaye kwiimeko xa umntu esondele kwaye nangona usizi ngebhongo, uyala ukukwazisa ngesizathu. Okanye xa umntu ekufutshane ancede ngokuzithemba, kodwa ingekuko ukuba yindlela yokwenza le nto - ngokombono wakho ogunyazisiweyo.
Xa imida ihamba: Ukuba uhlala nalo mntu hayi inyanga yokuqala-kwaye uhamba eyona nto iphambili kwilitye ebumnyameni bamafu, kwaye zonke iinzame zakho zokuziqonda ukuba zenzeke kuphela. Kubonakala ngathi lilize Uhlala naye ngaphezulu kwenyanga!
2. Abantwana abadlala kwi "Ndiyiyona nto" apha "
Umbuzo awunguNaphakade njenge-"yenkukhu okanye iqanda", "ukuba okanye ungabi njalo" kwaye "ophilela i-Sokeys? Kwaye ngubani owokuqala ukufowuna? Kwaye ngubani oza kuba yinto ebalaseleyo yibhokhwe engaphantsi okanye i-dilda ende? Umzali (kwaye ngakumbi i-Pronigetor, ngengqondo kamakhulu) rhoqo kuwo onke amabini kuyabaleka, ukuva kwakukhubeka emkhundleni kunye nokunkqonkqoza umda. Njengommiselo, iya kuba yinto engalunganga ngokuzenzekelayo ngomntwana womnye umntu - okanye, ukuba zombini zezakho, umntu omkhulu. Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba ube yijaji yokulamla. Akukho sidingo sokukhupha "ixhoba" kwaye sisongele "umoni"-ngakumbi ukuba ulungelelwaniso alucaci. Bonakalisa uvelwano-nceda. Mamela kwaye ubonise into oyiqondayo - kunjalo! Kodwa hayi ukwahlukana nendawo "kaThixo emotweni", kodwa ukuchaza indlela abantu abaphuma ngayo kwezi meko zilungele ukuba zizenzele kwaye zizenzele njani. Ngaphambi kobomi, kwaye kuyo awuyi kuyikhokelela ngexesha apho ithusi lomntwana liya kuza emlenzeni.Xa imida ihamba: Xa uqonda ukuba oku akusekho le skdnya, kodwa inkohlakalo kakhulu - kwaye ubona umsongelo kwimpilo (emzimbeni okanye yengqondo).
3. Abazali abaphangiweyo bacaphukisa umntwana wakhe
Okanye ukukhwaza umntwana, ububi. Okanye akamthobeli ukukhala, iMonster. Ewe kunjalo, akuthethi ukuba kufutshane kakhulu, ngakumbi kwindawo yoluntu esondeleyo. Kodwa akukho nto inokwenziwa, akuyomfuneko ukuba abantwana benze ingxolo, kuya kufuneka siphile nje njengendudumo. Kwaye kude kuthi ukuba uya kuzifezekisa umsindo wakho olungileyo, oko kukuthi, uya kwenza yonke into uthe cwaka kwaye ulungile. Kukho isizathu sokuphefumla, exhaphaza kwaye sicinge: Kutheni ndiza kulwa? Yintoni endikhumbuza ngayo? Kutheni le nto ndinguye "andiyiboni" kwaye "ayinakuyishiya njalo"? Ngaba ndizuze umntwana, ngokungqongqo ndimnika umzali wakhe emehlweni omntwana kunye nabanye? Njengomntwana ngaphandle komnqwazi ("umkhenkce!") Okanye kwi-puling ("into eyiyo isidenge.") - Emva koko kuthunyelwe izimvo ezinjalo ngokusemthethweni.
Xa imida ihamba: Kwakhona, xa ingozi yokwenyani. Xa umntwana ebetha. Okanye xa benganikeli ingqalelo kwinto yokuba umntwana sele ephelile endleleni kwaye ngoku anokufumana phantsi kwemoto.
4. Intombazana ayibonakali kakhulu
Ewe, ayihambi, genyane, yingubo ye-lilac ngentamo. Ewe, akayazi indlela awayezisebenzisa ngayo i-cosmetics elihlwempuzekileyo. Kwaye ifuna ukuba yahluke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye wena, njengovulindlela onyanisekileyo, umgubasi obalaseleyo kunye nokunqwenela ukushukumiseka okuhle, uya kuyazi ngoku, tshintsha kwaye ubeke indlela elungileyo. Kwaye kwakhona, njengelanga, khanye! Emva kokuba iya kukuqokelela ecaleni kohlobo oluthile lwezinto ezinzima. Apha, kholwa, akangabahlobo nawe ukuze uyichithe. Kunye nebhunga lemidlalo, nayo, abantu abaqeqeshiweyo bakhona. Mhlawumbi unethuba lokufumana i-stostlists. Kodwa ithuba lokuphulukana nobuhlobo bukhulu ngakumbi.Xa imida ihamba: Ewe, ukuba ingenisa imascara kumbhiyozo, kwaye akazange azijonge esipilini kwaye akaqondakali - oku kuyaqondakala, icala elahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo.
5. Umhlobo "Kufuneka siyenze"
Iya kufuneka ibhalise ngokungxamisekileyo echibini. Yena ke, yena, engaze, ngoku uyakuhamba ngoku kwaye uyibhale phantsi. Kwaye ilunge ngakumbi kwi-yoga. I-Yoga inceda ngokugqibeleleyo ngokutyeba kakhulu, indlela engaqhelekanga yomqolo, engalunganga i-aura kunye neKarma ayichanekanga. Sele ulungiselele incwadi ye-mega-eluncedo kuye ... yima. Okokuqala, awuzazi zonke iinkcukacha malunga nempilo, ubushushu kunye ne-cockroisting entloko. Kwaye umntu unelungelo kunye nelokugqibela. Kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba akungxamisekanga ukhathalela impilo yakho, nokuba ungayithatha kangakanani. Mhlawumbi uza nakuphi na isenzo sokuphilisa. Mhlawumbi uya kukucebisa. Kodwa ukuba uthe walibala amehlo akhe ekungafezeki nasekuthekeni kwakhe, akuyi kuba kulungileyo.
Xa imida ihamba: Xa i-Bell ye-Bell tower Tewente iyakuqinisekisa ngento. Masithi uhleli phantsi ekutyeni kwaye ungachukumisi mntu ukuba phaya, kwaye phantse iikeyiki ezinyanzelekileyo nge-clelets zilungile. Ewe, kunjalo, itroll embi, ukuze ukwazisa.
6. dibana nomhlobo womyeni wakhe kwelinye
Hayi, kulungile, akunakwenzeka ukuba ungavuli amehlo akhe. Ubusoloko ukrokrela ukuba yena ... Le yeyona nto ... hayi esona silwanyana saseKosher. Kwaye ngoku ndiyabulela kuwe, ndikhumbula i-schigraphrovsky county, ulwaphulo-mthetho lwenkulungwane luyatyhileka! Ke ngoku? Ngaba uyabazi bonke oodadewabo kunye neqabane lakho leshishini kwaye kunye neempawu ezizodwa? Uqinisekile ukuba uthintele ukuvezwa kwakho ayisiyo imeko "-iguquko-sele litshilo kwinkanuko kwaye yayiza kukhawuleza ukuya kwintanda enkulu"? Kwaye nokuba yonke into inzima. Ewe, yonke into ayiyi kuba kwingcaciso yakho yokusebenza ngokulula. Kwaye ngokubanzi, iintloko zabathunywa abaye bahamba ne-West West, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhe weva into.
Xa imida ihamba: Xa yena eqonda yonke into kwaye eyazi; Uyakhalaza; uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba le nyaniso yebhokhwe yenze amanqaku alishumi kuluhlu; Ilinde inkxaso. Nantso ke, ukuba andibonanga nto, andivanga nto, andiyi kumxelela mntu, ngandlel 'ithile ibingelele.
7. Ixhala kakhulu ... OKANYE UKUZIPHATHA
Unayo intombi kunye nomhlobo. Phakathi kwabo, sisibini. Le yindlela yenzeke ngayo ngempumelelo! Kodwa akukho nto iphantsi kwenyanga, kwaye ngoku uthando lwabo olungapheliyo ngokuhamba kancinci kwesandla lijika libe kukungavumi "gav-gav-gav". Yindlela emdaka ngayo! Uxelela amabali abuhlungu kakhulu ukuba umbuzo: "Ngaba uyandithanda?" Uphendule wathi: "Ewe, yintoni uthando ngokubanzi?" Akabonakali nje- malunga nendlela enye indlela awayehamba ngayo, kwaye endaweni yesidlo sakusasa kubusuku "ndishiye umama." Ngohlalutyo lokuthelekisa, uyeza kwisigqibo sokuba omnye wabo akalunganga. Kwaye uzama ukonwabela umdlalo wesibini. Okanye ukuqukumbela ukuba bobabini banemincili kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ubaxolele ngokungxamisekileyo. Enkosi ngawe. Hayi-a. Nokuba bayabhidanisa, abayi kuxhoma iifoto zakho kwigumbi labo lokulala. Kwaye ukuba uyanyamalala - umngcipheko kwinye eyakhayo ukwahlulahlulo kunye nobuhlobo obutsha, ngoko nangoko: kunye nawo njengesibane, kunye nayo kunye naye ngokwahlukeneyo. Ewe, owesithathu ugqitha apha- kwimicimbi enjalo.Xa imida ihamba: Xa ezinye zazo ziwela eluphahleni kwaye wenza nantoni na eyingozi kwaye engekho mthethweni. Kodwa oku kwenzeka amaxesha amaninzi kancinci kune-temps "ebotshwe iitamatisi, awuzange uphathe ibhakethi, iNatasha, yabona indlela endenze ngayo i-prick."
8. Oogxae baxambulisana
Le meko iyafana neyangaphambili, xa iVan Ivanovich, kunye ne-Ivan Nikifovich, ndinamathela kwi-huxak kwisiseko-kwaye sikubize ngokuchaseneyo kumaNgqina athile. Ukungabi nakuqhelekileyo komhlobo wexesha elide okanye ugqirha wezengqondo obalaseleyo, awusoloko uqonda apho imilenze yakho ikhula khona kwaye ithathe indawo kwakhona. Ke kungcono ukungalingani. Owona mntu uthobela umntu oqondayo kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kokuphakamisa amashiya. Ngaphandle koko, siya kuzifumana entlokweni yakho ngokuthatha inxaxheba kunxantathu olibazisa ukucoca i-bermud.
Xa imida ihamba: Xa bengakuniki ukuba basebenze kwaye baphule isicwangciso. Akwanelanga ukuyinika kwanelanga ukwazisa ukuba uzolile- emva koko uya kuba nakho ngononophelo kwaye uxelele abasemagunyeni abaya kuzalisekiswa umsebenzi onjalo.
9. UBukhoboka Babantu abadala "Ayenjalo"
Wazifumana iqabane elingalunganga. Isini esingachanekanga, ngombala ongalunganga weenwele kunye noluhlu olungalunganga lweefilimu ezithandwayo. Molo, eli ayiliqabane lakho, eli liqabane lakhe! Waba ngumfuzisi kwaye kungekudala wayenokufa ngaphandle kokucheba. Uya kwisiqingatha sonyaka ukuya kwi-Volone e-Afrika- kwaye unokufa kwi-tsez fly. Owu, kunzima ukuthetha nawe, kodwa wonke umntu unokufa naphi na. Nangakuwe phantsi kwephiko. Yima ebusuku kwisofa, vuka intloko yakho ecaleni kodonga kwaye ufe. "Ungumntu omdala, wahlula ubuntu kum" - zama ukuphinda le muntra xa ubiza i-morgue, kuba ishumi elinantathu ayizange iphakamise ifowuni kwimidlalo emihlanu ngexesha le-Beep.
Xa imida ihamba: Ingozi ecacileyo onokuyithintela. Intombi ibiza kwaye ithi umyeni wakhe waphula. Akukho "mhle unxibe". Inkxaso, ukwamkela, amapolisa, ugqirha wezengqondo, yiyo yonke le nto. Ukuba "ka-fe" ukuba akonelanga kuye, ngenxa yokuba "i-Mamary the-erz", emva koko unike intliziyo yakho ukuba ikhule kwaye ingazenzi intloko ekhulelweyo!
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