Akunjalo rhoqo eRussia, iincwadi ezithetha ibhinqa lithetha ngoyena mvakalayo, kwaye lobuqu, kwaye nangaphezu koko, aliguquleli kulwimi lwasemzini (kwaye lingathethi phantsi komnqweno osondeleyo wokutshata). Ke ngoko sivuya ukuveza ingcingo yokuhamba kwam ngo-2017 - "umzimba, ukutya, isini kunye nexhala. Yintoni echaphazela umfazi wale mihla "ovela kwi-psychologist yulia.
Kufuneka samkele kwaye siwuthanda umzimba wakho. Umhlaba waphambukela emhlabeni wamancinane. Yekani ukuphosa ngokupheleleyo, kulungile, luhlobo luni lobukrwada. Izimvo ezenziwa nguRussia zanamhlanje, ngokomgaqo, zahlangatyezwa kwiimagazini zabasetyhini. Kodwa endaweni yoko ukubhengeza kwabo ukubhengeza kwabo kuye kwanika ukutya okuncinci ukuze ucinge.
Ngaphambili, abafazi babengoyiki ukuselula, kodwa banxiba amakhuba amabi. Ngoku abanxibi ii-corsets, kodwa kulwa iselula. Umfazi ophakathi uyayibona njengephakade yomzabalazo wobuhle. Abanye, ke, ukuba bathethe, inkcazo ayisiyo ngenxa yokuba i-fuss izala.
UJulia akapheleli kwiinkcukacha zembali yobuhle. Ikhokelela kwidatha yenzululwazi, ndinyanzela ukuba ndijonge ingxaki phantsi kwekona entsha kancinane. Umzekelo, phambi kwe-dysmorphophophophofofbia (uloyiko lokubonwa njenge-freak) yayisisifo esingaqhelekanga, esaphuhliswa sisiseko seenguqu ezibuhlungu. Umzekelo, iilokhwe emva kotshisa. Ngoku umfazi ongawuboniyo umzimba wakhe (ukuba uthi, ukuba yena, kunjalo, akabonakali njengephepha lephephabhuku leglosy), kuthathwa njengengaqhelekanga, mhlawumbi ubuncwane obungaphezulu . Ukususela nini intiyo yomzimba wakhe ibe yinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye ukungabikho kwayo yinto ephuma kuthotho lokuphuma? Kubonakala ngathi kudala kuphela, kugobe ngogonyamelo ukutshabalalisa inyama yabo, kulivavanye izithintelo ezinzima kukutya nakwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bazo ezizinikeleyo kwiindidi ezininzi yendlela yokucoca. Nangona kunjalo, malunga neXesha Eliqhelekileyo kwiNcwadi alibhalwanga. Bona ngokwabo beza nengqondo xa ufunda ngayiphi na indlela ephantsi kwe-Drelie, i-Anorexia ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga i-Psychology enkulu.
Elinye inqaku elinomdla - umbhali akafuni kwenza lula "umfanekiso wotshaba", abhale yonke i-neurosis eqhelekileyo kwimpembelelo yomzi-mveliso wefashoni kunye nefoto yamaqhinga. Akayifuni ipilisi yomlingo, eya kuthi inyanga yonke into kwaye kwangoko, ngathi "Masibe nokuvalela ubutyebi, kwaye yonke into iya kuwa endaweni." Ewe, kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba i-Arexia yanika iimagazini zabasetyhini, ukuba isifo siyaziwa kwaye esi sifo sithiwe ukusukela kwixesha likaKumkanikazi uVictoria, kwaye bakuphatha ngoogqirha baseSoviet. Oku akuthethi ukuba i-anorexia ifumaneka. Oku kuthetha ukuba i-psyche yomntu inzima ukucwangcisa.
Enye intsomi edumileyo yokuba uJulia ithathela ingqalelo - ukubekwa imbonakalo yabazali, kubamangalele kuyo nayiphi na iingxaki zengqondo, kubandakanya nezo zikhokelela kubudlelwane obunzima nomzimba wabo, ukutya kunye nezesondo. Ke, kwimeko ye-nevaus efanayo ye-nevarx, isityholo sikamama sithintela inkqubo yonyango kuphela.
Ubunzima nendlala - zombini indaleko, ubunzima, kunye nendlala, ubunzima, kunye nendlala kunye nendlala-kunye nemfuno yomntu okwihlabathi jikelele ukuthintela. Ugqirha wezengqondo uqaphela ukuba nganye kwezi zinto zininzi zichaphazela indlela yokuziphatha kwabasetyhini kunye nembono yayo yomzimba yazo, kunye nemiphumo emininzi yenkolo yokutya kwangoku. Into ongayicingi ngayo, echaza okanye ukuva eli binzana "umzimba ophantsi lomzimba ngumsebenzi, lo ngumsebenzi wakho," ekugqibeleni uthatha uphononongo lwakho ngqo.
Kodwa, eyona nto ibaluleke ngakumbi, umbhali uthi hayi kuphela malunga nee-pathologies kunye neengxaki. Inika uphawu olubalaseleyo, echaza ukuba ubudlelwane obunempilo bubonakala njani, kwaye buxela nje kwaye bufikeleleke ukuba kutheni ubudlelwane obusempilweni.
Isinye kwisithathu seencwadi sinikezelwe kolunye unxantathu kunye neencopho "zomzimba" kunye "nexhala", isipili ngokunxulumene nonxantathu kunye ne-vertex " Ingabonakala ingakanani kula mastindathu? Kodwa ngokwenene bangamawele, njengoko uLapina ebonisa ngokuqinisekileyo. Kuba sibona lonke uqhagamshelo olufanayo: umzimba kunye nezesondo - kunye namandla, umzimba kunye noxinzelelo, umzimba kunye nenkcubeko - kunye nenkcubeko yengqongqo.
Into emnandi kakhulu-Imibhalo esezantsi rhoqo kumanqaku kwi-Intanethi, ikwimo ye-intanethi, hayi amagama. Akafune-kwaye ulungele, unokufunda izinto ezongeziweyo kumhlathi othile. Ukuthathela ingqalelo inyani yokuba ingxoxo ebaluleke kakhulu (Ewe, umbhali ubonakala exoxa ngazo zonke izihloko ezichaziweyo kunye nomfundi) akakwenzi ukuba ubeke kwinkalo nganye, ixabiseke kakhulu.
Kodwa, mhlawumbi, ididanisa ukuba phantse i-90% yezalathiso kwisicatshulwa-ukuqhuba uphando eUnited States, iimpapasho zaseMelika, amava abantu baseMelika. Ewe kunjalo, kucacile ukuba isizathu selinani elinelanga lophando kunye nathi, kodwa kusenzeka ukuba iingxaki zokususwa, ngokungathi zinxulumene nebhinqa laseRussia enamandla, kwaye bona phila ikakhulu kwindawo ejikeleze uLwandlekazi lwaselwandle.
Kwaye i-china yencwadi ngulowo sicebise ngayo yonke into endandiyigxininisa kuyo yonke into ehlala kuyo ngenxa yokuba itya okanye ayidli, ubungakanani bempahla yokunxiba nokuba ingaba ulungile ebhedini nomntu. Incwadi yakhe nabani na, engazukuphilisa, lulwazi nje, hayi umxube womlingo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ulwazi ngokwalo luchanekile, luqondakale, lunengqondo, lutshintsha ukuqonda kwethu kunye nombono.
Ndifunde incwadi: Lilith mazikina