Enye yeendlela zokuzonwabisa umntu-ukuchitha incoko elungileyo kunye naye kwaye ushiye umbono omnandi. Abantu abanomdla ngoku, ngelishwa, banqabile, kwaye ukuba bahlasela, bakhunjulwa ixesha elide - ndifuna ukudibana nabo. Ukuze ube ngumnxibelelanisi olungileyo - khumbula nje kuphela imigaqo-10.
1. Thetha ngemozulu
I-Etiquette ithi ingxubusho yemozulu sisihloko esifanelekileyo sokuncokola ngokupheleleyo kuye nawuphi na umntu. Oku kubandakanya izihloko eziphathelele inkcubeko, iindaba (ukuba zingadibani nezopolitiko), ubugcisa, ezemidlalo. Into ephambili ayibandakanyeki. Ngaphandle koko, ingxubusho yeendaba zehlabathi ingaya kwimbambano eshushu kwisihloko senkqubo yezopolitiko. Ukuba uziva ngathi imbambano sele iza kuqala, tshintsha nje isihloko. Khumbula, isiseko sencoko ayikufaneleke ukweyisela umnxibelelanisi kwaye utshintshe umbono wakhe wehlabathi, kodwa yenza abantu abaphilayo kunye nexesha elimnandi.2. Yiya kwimixholo "ebomvu"
Indawo ebomvu "ebomvu" ibandakanya izihloko apho abanxibelelane baninzi khona kwezona zimvo zichaseneyo. Esi sisihloko sezopolitiko, kunye nenkolo, kunye nezezimali, njl njl. Akukho mfuneko yokuxoxa ngayo yonke into enxulumene nobomi obusondeleyo, nosapho, impilo. Ezi zihloko ziphantse zivele zibe ziimbambano, kwaye ngokukhawuleza kakhulu. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ulibale ukuba kwindlu yeHungman akathethi ngentambo - wonke umntu unoluhlobo oluthile 'lomxholo othi "omele ukuba abonakale engenabungozi.
3. Khumbula ukuba awuyiyo i-gingerbread
Umgaqo ophambili wayo nayiphi na incoko yehlabathi ayikhubekisi, kwaye ingayi kukholise kwaye nceda kwaye ngolu hlobo kumgaqo awunakwenzeka. Ungakhubekisa umnxibelelanisi nge-joke, akazange ayeke le ndawo, ngokungahloniphi, izwi lam eliphezulu, ukuhlambela izimbo zomxholo ongahambelaniyo.Ke ngoko, ukuba unxibelelwano lwenzeka nomntu ongazi nto, kufanelekile ukuba lumnyameke. Kwaye ukuze ungazinyanzeli ukuba umnxibelelanisi akathandeki-zama ukuyitshintsha, kodwa uyenze ngokungesitya ngokwenkcubeko, enkosi ngengxoxo kwaye wandixelela ukuba singathanda ukuthetha nabanye abantu abaqhelekileyo.
4. Ukuthintelwa ngamagama
Kwiincoko, uhlala uva indlela umntu ekunene kwaye eshiye "amagama abantu abayakhayo iimpawu zekhonkrithi (okuthile apha). Rhoqo, ukuziphatha okunjalo kuyacaphukisa abanye, kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba umntu umntu azama ukubhengeza imeko yakhe, azibeka phezulu kunabanye kwaye ayolise ixabiso laso. Inokunika ezinye iimvakalelo zomona, ihlazo (ayinguye wonke umntu osepokothweni zeplanga, aphumle kwiindawo zokuhlala ezibalulekileyo) kwaye awazi ukuba usabela njani umnxibelelanisi. Ke ngoko, kungcono ukulandela ngononophelo intetho yakho.
5. I-Aindach kunye ne-APRF
Ukusebenza inani elikhulu lamagama angaphandle kwincoko ithathelwa ingqalelo i-wiston. Ngokuqinisekileyo wonke umntu okungenani kanye nje bafikelela kubantu abafaka isindululo ngesicelo. Yinto enye xa kusenzeka kwelinye ilizwe, apho amagama athile anokungazi okanye awasebenzise ngomkhwa kwaye ahluke ngokupheleleyo xa umnxibelelanisi wawo uLwimi lwaKho. Incoko yababini kufuneka iqhutywe ngolwimi lwelizwe apho kuhlala abantu, kwaye amagama angaphandle asebenza kuphela kwimeko yesizathu esikhulu.6. Igramar-Nazi ayizukudlula
Enye yeempazamo ezinkulu nezinkulu kakhulu kwingxoxo kukulungisa umnxibelelanisi wakho ukuba uphosile kwigama, umzekelo. Akunakwenzeka ukwenza le nto, nokuba iyacaphukisa kwaye ayifuni ukugxininisa ukwazisa kwakhe kwiilwimi. Umnxibelelanisi akanakulungiswa, kodwa unokuthetha ngayo yonke imithetho ngokwakho, wathi "Lalette", kwaye uyaqhubeka nokuchaza, kodwa uyayazi kakuhle indlela enjalo.
7. Molo Mamela umnxibelelanisi
Ingxoxo elungileyo ithetha ukukwazi ukumamela umntu othetha naye. Buza umntu imibuzo kunye nomdla wokumamela impendulo yakhe, uphendula ngoko akuxelela kona. Ukumamela ngononophelo, awuzange uphumelele izihloko zencoko- unokuhlala ucinga ngokucacisa imibuzo. Ezo. Ukunxibelelana ngokwakhe kule meko ngumthombo wezihloko. Mhlawumbi, ngexesha lonke incoko, uya kuba nakho ukufaka amagama ambalwa, kodwa qiniseka, ngale ndlela, uya kuva malunga nawe njengomthombo, kuphela uphononongo olucekeceke.8. Uzoba phi izihloko
Owona mbuzo uqhelekileyo ophulukene nabaqeqeshi kwi-Etiquette nakwiintetho ezincinci. Kwaye impendulo kuye ilula kakhulu kwaye i-banana- ukuze inyanzelekile ukuba inomdla emhlabeni, funda iincwadi ezinomdla, kwaye ungazisi iindaba zamva nje inethiwekhi yentlalo. Kuyimfuneko ukunxibelelana kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngabantu abanomdla, apho unokufunda khona izinto ezininzi ezintsha. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye kulumkele kwaye ulandele ulwazi oluvela kweliphi ulwazi olufunyenweyo kwaye yintoni kanye kanye oyicaphula. Kwintlanganiso yabantu abasebenza kwishishini, umzekelo, kuya kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukuxoxa ngolwazi oluhlanganisiweyo kwijenali yeJimor.
9. Ngethamsanqa uthanda abo bakulungele yena
Ukuba uyazi kwangaphambili ukuba kufuneka utyelele umsitho wempangelo, uhamba nonxibelelwano nabantu abangaqhelekanga- ulilungiselele nje. Yintoni enomdla kuluntu oya kuba lapho? Funda ulwazi olufanelekileyo, skrolela ngeelogo ezigunyazisiweyo kunye namaphephandaba. Zama ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani kanye kanye oya kubakho, susa ulwazi malunga naba bantu kunye namaphepha abo kwinethiwekhi yoluntu-ungafumanisa ukuba inomdla kumntu kwaye uyakuthanda. Kwangoko, becinga ngesihloko sencoko, upasa nje iimeko zokudideka.10. Lahla isithintelo
"Iza kucinga ntoni ngam?", "Ndiza kujongeka 'nayo yonke into kwisitayile esifanayo ekufuneka uyikhuphe ngokukhawuleza entlokweni yam. Ngubani obonakala ehlekisa, ngenxa yoko le yindoda ehamba kwikona eneglasi ye wayini kwaye ingcwatyelwe kwifowuni ngelixa abanye betshintshana ngolwazi. Iphathwe kakhulu ngabantu xa inzalo lubonakaliswa kwicala labo xa zithetha ngento ngento ethile, banomdla wokufunda into entsha, eyabelana ngezimvo. Musa ukoyika iincoko-kuba bandisa imikhono yobuntu, kukuvumela ukuba wenze entsha, ngamanye amaxesha iluncedo kakhulu ukuthandana, jonga abahlobo abatsha. Ke ngoko, yeka uyoyika wenze amanyathelo okuqala okunxibelelana ngempumelelo.