Ukubonakala komntwana omncinci endlwini kunokuvula yonke into emilenzeni. Kwaye abazali bamelwe kukuba akukho lula, ngakumbi ukuba lo ngumntwana wokuqala. Ezi ngcebiso ziya kunceda abazali abancinci ukuba basinde kwinyanga yokuqala kunye nombulelo, musa ukuphoxeka kwaye ugcine impilo yabo.
I-1 yokondla umntwana rhoqo
Ubisi otya umntwana kukuphela kokutya kuye. Iya kunceda umama ukuba ahlakulele unxibelelwano nomntwana wabo. Kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ixesha xa ixesha lokugqibela ndondla umntwana wam - kufuneka ndizole malunga nezihlandlo ezithandathu ngosuku. Kuyenzeka ukwandisa ixesha lokutya umntwana ngokweemfuno zabo, kodwa ungaze uzame ukulawula ixesha lokutyisa okanye ishedyuli (iimfuno zomntwana ikakhulu). Kwaye ekugqibeleni, akunakwenzeka ukondla umntwana qho ngenyanga apho kwenziwa khona iposti, kufuneka usebenzise "ilungelo", ocebisa ugqirha.2 Musa ukulibala imithetho yokhuseleko
Ukhuseleko kufuneka lube luphawu lwakho kuyo yonke into enxulumene nomntwana. Umntwana eneminyaka enye yenyanga enye akazi ukuba yintoni elungileyo nengasebenziyo. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka ulumke kakhulu nomntwana kwaye zonke izinto ezijikeleze yona. Ungaze ushiye izinto ezibukhali okanye ezinzima ecaleni komntwana, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba akukho zithombelo zijikeleze umntwana xa elele. Xa umntwana elala okanye elele ebhedini, kufuneka uyibeke ngemiqamelo ukuba isuse nawo amathuba aqaqambileyo anokubandezeleka. Ngapha koko, kwanangaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana, kuya kufuneka ujonge igumbi lonke.
3 Nxibelelana nomntwana
Ukondla rhoqo kudala unxibelelwano nosana. Kukho ezinye iindlela ezinokunceda ukudala unxibelelwano nomntwana. Xa umntwana evuka, umbono olungileyo uza kuzama ukudlala kancinci okanye uncokole naye. Oku kuyakunceda ukufunda umntwana wakho ngcono kwaye ukhawuleze ukuze ukwazi ukuqonde ngcono iimfuno zayo. Ukunxibelelana ngcono nomntwana, ungazithenga iithoyi ezimibalabala okanye ezivakalayo.4 Qonda ukuba umntwana ulele njani
Ukuqala ukusuka kwinyanga yokuqala, kuya kufuneka ulandele ngononophelo ixesha lokukhetha umntwana. Uhlala ufuna ukunika umntwana ukuba aphumle xa ukhululekile. Kuya kufuneka ukondle usana olusanda kuzalwa ngokungqinelana nomjikelo wokulala kwakhe. Soloko uhlala ujonge umntwana, nokuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle naye xa elele.
I-5 ibonelela ngokucocekileyo
Kuyimfuneko ukukhusela umntwana wakho ukuba anganxibelelani nalo naluphi na usulelo olunokubakho okanye intsholongwane. Ukungaphumi kwalo mntwana usandul 'ukuzalwa kuyaphuhla ekuhambeni kwexesha, nto leyo yenza ukuba kube sengozini kwizifo. Akukho meko ayinakuphoswa naluphi na ugonyo, okanye ukutyelela ugqirha. Kuya kufuneka uhlambe ngokucokisekileyo izandla zakho ngalo lonke ixesha uthatha umntwana iingalo zakho okanye uchukumise, kwaye ugcine iimpahla zomntwana wakho zicocekile kwaye zi-odolo.