"Lilo eli linempulelo yakho ekwantini ayisiyontombi nje kuphela, kodwa yeyakho," utshilo ugqirha wengqondo yam malunga nomxholo we-kindirgarten. Kwaye ulungile. Kufuneka sithathe kwaye siphile kwi-Hindedonity ye-Kindergarten nesihogo esinxulumana naye.
Iinyanga ezimbini zegadi yentombi ziinyanga ezimbini ngokwenene kwisihogo sam. Ndidinga ukumshiya umntwana apho kubi khona, nabantu ayoyika. Kum, kwathi loo nto imangalisiwe kukuba uGeerergarten akandiniki inkululeko, ukuba ayisiyondawo yobomi kum, kodwa umthwalo ongezelelweyo.
Kwakufuneka ndiyamkele inyani yokuba i-fendergarten yinkqubo. Kwaye hayi iinzame zam ziya kwenza, umzekelo, ootitshala bethobekile kwaye benothando, kwaye i-casserole nge-snatch yasemva kwemini imnandi. Kubandakanya uncedo lwezemali kwiqela.
Kodwa, enye indlela okanye enye, kwafuneka ndivume into endingenakutshintsha. Kwaye usinde kwilize yemizamo yabo. Ndidlulise phambili kwam. Njengoomama abaninzi abangenayo ithuba lokufumana umntwana kwigadi yabucala enobuchule kubantwana, kwaye, njengam, bakhokela umntwana kwigadi kamasipala, eyanikwayo. Kwaye nantsi okanye unethamsanqa, okanye ungabi nethamsanqa. Sasingenathamsanqa ngentombi yam.
Ke, kwaye kuphela, kwaye akukho ndlela
Isinyithi Ukuba akukho nyani, uya kutshutshiswa ukuthandabuza kunye novelwano ngomntwana. Ewe, umntwana uyimfesane, kodwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ke ngoko, nokuba uhlala kwigumbi lokunxiba lomntwana ovuthayo, ngelixa umntwana ekhalaza kwaye akavumelani ukuba uye kwiqela, uyazi ukuba uyakuhamba, umntwana uya kuhlala.
Isazela Esisulungekileyo
Nceda umntwana oqhelane nohlengahlengiso: Izithethe zakhe zokuzibulala kunye neentlanganiso, ukudibana ngokweemvakalelo nomntwana ukuya egadini nasemva kokusekwa kootitshala-olusebenzayo noMama. Ukwazi ukuba wenze yonke into ixhomekeke kuwe, inika amandla kunye nokuzola.Ndingumama okanye hayi umama ?!
Intembelo kukuba indlela ohlengahlengisa umntwana uye kwigadi iphezulu kakhulu kumntwana wakho. Le nto kum ilandele kwasekuqaleni kwaye ivuza eyokuqala. Ukuzithemba ukuzithemba kuvumela ukuba kugcinwe amandla.
Ndimi ekuqinisekisweni kancinci kancinci kunye nokugcinwa kokuthembana ubudlelwane obuvulekileyo nomntwana, ekuzuni kogonyamelo, kubandakanya nengqondo. Iinyembezi, i-hysterics, ibonakaliso yeemvakalelo ezingalunganga zivunyelwe. Nangona kwakungekho lula ukuba iqulethe iimvakalelo zomntwana ... kodwa ke uncedo logqirha wezengqondo wancedwa, - into elandelayo. Kunye "neposede".
Ngaba uza kuqubha nabani?
Ngokufanelekileyo, nangona ingasoloko ikho-uncedo lwabantu abathandanayo. Ugqirha wezengqondo wabantwana wandinceda. Phantse yonke imihla emva kokuba ndiphuphe intombi esemyezweni, ndalala ne-intanethi. Kwaye kakhulu wacaca. Uye wandinceda ndabona ukuba iingxaki zomyezo zazingakhange zibangelwa kukuphambuka kwam okanye intombi yam, kodwa iipropathi zenkqubo yendibano. Kwaye ukuba andiphathanga nabantu, kodwa ngeenkcukacha zendlela.Kwaye wanceda umhlobo - ulwazi lwemfundo yasekhaya. Yathi iyaqonda ukuba, ewe, kunzima kangaka kum, uyandibona kakhulu ... wandigqesha, ndaphalaza ikofu ye wayini. "Ndithathe izisinga" kwaye ngokubanzi yathuthuzeleka ngayo yonke indlela xa ndandinenxaxheba emva kwenye ingxoxo notitshala.
Kodwa eli tyala lam. Mhlawumbi uthembele ngamava nje nale nkqubo kunye nootitshala. Kubalulekile ukuba inkxaso yabo okanye umntu omthembileyo.
Ngokukhawuleza kakhulu…
Kuhluthwe, kodwa izenzo. Ukuphumla kwenkqubo. Amathontsi apholileyo, iitiya okanye iipilisi. Iinkqubo zamanzi. Umoya opholile. Ukuzivocavoca. Ndandihlala ndihamba ukusuka kwi-kindergarten ngeenyawo. Ngokwesiqhelo siya egadini ngebhasi (uhlobo olunjani lwegadi enikelweyo ...), luhamba inyathelo ngokukhawuleza kwimizuzu engama-30 ukuya kwengama-305. Ngeentsuku ezinzima kakhulu ndafika kwiNdlu kwimizuzu engama-20. Uthathe ishawa, wawa ebhedini ... besilila izihlandlo ezininzi, iinyembezi ziyaphumla kwaye zizolile. Ngeengokuhlwa, bahamba kancinci kunye nentombi yakhe, balala kwintombazana yakhe. Iibhafu zokuhlambela komntwana, i-massus, ukuhamba, ukubaleka kwaye zitsiba nazo ziluncedo, ngendlela.
Inkululeko yenkululeko
Ukulungela kokuqala ngenxa yokuba inkululeko engenakwenzeka kwaye 'yenzeke. " Ubuncinci, okokuqala ukuba i-kindergarten ayinakukhululwa kuwe, kodwa umthwalo ongezelelweyo. Kunye nokuziphatha, kunye nokwenyama, kunye nezinto. Khange ndibengenalulungela. Imfuneko yokuthenga iqhekeza lezambatho lokungayi kuhlamba yonke imihla, iifom kwimfundo yomzimba, iibhutsi ayisositshisi / intle / incinci okanye i-shorterings, okanye ingenamntu onqabileyo , kubangele ukucaphukisa kwaye kwakungacwangciswanga kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho.Isibakala sokuba iinyanga ezimbini zokuqala zegadi iya kuba lixesha lokuqhubeka nokulwa le nkqubo, ikwaye yamangalisa.
Ugqirha wezengqondo yabantwana u-Lianashvili ucebisa oomama ukuba baqale ngokulungelelanisa umntwana kwigadi yeenyanga ezi-3-6 ngaphambi kokuba basebenze (ngokuqinisekileyo, ayiyonto yonke into) I-kindergarten yinkqubo engalindelekanga enenani elikhulu lezinto eziguquguqukayo: Kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo amanqaku omntwana, ubudala, ubudala, kunye nemvakalelo yomsebenzi wabafundisi-ntsapho, kwaye ngaphezulu. Kwaye omnye umntwana ngaphandle kobunzima obukhethekileyo bengena kule nkqubo yegadi, kwaye enye ifuna iiveki ezimbalwa okanye iinyanga ezimbalwa zokuziqhelanisa, ngoko ke inqweneleka ukuba nendawo ethile "yokuGcina i-Maneuver".
Kutheni le nto iyimfuneko?
Ukufunda ukufunda kuyanceda - ngolungelelwaniso lwemeko kunye nokuthathwa kuyo. Yintoni eyandinika eyona ingekagqitywa kukudibana kum kwintombazana yentombazana?
Intembelo enkulu kubuchule bakho nakwilungelo lawo. Ukukwazi ukumisela umntwana wakho kwaye ukhusele imida yethu. Le yeyona mpumelelo ibaluleke kakhulu kum. Xa utitshala esithi: "Ke ngoko, uyamcacisela umntwana ukuba umntwana angaqondi, kodwa ndithetha ngokuvakalayo," andiyi kumxelela umntwana wam ukuba angazivanga into engeyiyo. "
Yiba ngabahlobo, yibahlobo ... kodwa yinyani
Kwaye nento esinayo, ngelishwa, ayisebenzi ngaphandle - ubudlelwane nootitshala. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, kuxabisa lo ubudlelwane ukuseka nokugcina. Xa umntwana ebona ukuba umama unxibelelana ngobubele notitshala, kulula ukuba athathe utshintsho kwaye aphile ngokwahlukana nabazali bakhe. Kwaye umama kulula ukushiya umntwana egadini.
I-Liana iNorthovili: "Kubalulekile ukuzama ukufumana ibhalansi phakathi kokukhusela imigaqo yayo kwaye ichanekile, ihlonitshwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo akufuneki ulinde indlela yomntu ngamnye kwi-kindergarten - kulo naliphi na iqela, umdlali wesininzi uya kuba nako kuneminqweno yomntu owahlukileyo. " Ndikumlo wokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ulungile, wazama ukufezekisa indlela umntu ngamnye. Ulindelo olusengqiqweni sesinye isitshixo sempumelelo.