Uziva kakuhle abantu abazifumene. Unemisebenzi enomdla kunye nethemba lomsebenzi. Unephupha kwaye usondele kuye. Kodwa kutheni, ukusukela kwintsimbi nganye kukwambatha "kwaye iwotshi iphawula ... kwaye emva koko ihambe ... into ehlwempuzekileyo ..." Awuvali ndoda ihlwempu! Kuqhubekani?
Ngokungathandekiyo ngokwaneleyo, ingqolowa yenyani esezihlebeni ilapho. Kodwa kukudla okuziinkozo okufana neperile kwi-dung bug. Masiphumelele ngenyameko ukuze siphumelele iqhekeza eliseleyo kwinkunkuma enesazela esicocekileyo.
Imeko yile ilandelayo: Unomzimba, nayo yonke into eyenzelwe wena kobu bomi ifakwe kulo mzimba. Ngaphandle komzimba-ayisebenzi. Umzimba uneemfuno ezingqongqo, ixesha eliqikelelweyo lentsebenzo elindelekileyo kunye neqela leseto elihle, eliye lamangalisa! -Bachaphazeli indlela nje umzimba ophantsi ngayo, kodwa nakwinto onokuyifuna. Ukufuna - oku ngokubanzi yinketho yomzimba, buza nakwipiramidi yebhotolo.
Kucacile ukuba iimfuno ezingqongqo zazo zonke ziphantse ziyafana, kunye nocolonshelo loseto, kokukhona ukhetho oluthe kratya. Kodwa kukho izinto ezibonakala ngathi azibonakali, kodwa zivele kwaye zingakhathali nantoni na. (Khumbula ukuba yintoni na indlela yokucaphukisa kunye nengxaki yokuqala ezimbini okanye ezintathu-ukuya ezintathu - zange bakubuze ukuba zeziphi izicwangciso zeentsuku ezizayo).
Ezi zinto, ezizezi, useto lwethu lwe-hormoonal, into eyahlukileyo kakhulu kumakhulu wethu omkhulu, kwaye kukho into engatshintshanga. Masiqalise ngento yokuba siye sakhawuleza kakhulu ngokungabonakaliyo ngakumbi kunerami yethu. Izihlandlo ezili-10 ngonyaka. Njenge-mun. Sakhawuleza sakhawuleza kakhulu kwi-Tramaiti yethu: Ukuzibhokoxa kwabantu abangama-12 ukuya kweli-5, kwaye emva kokuzalwa kuka-5-8 abantu abakulo mhla wokuzalwa, "mna yonke into imibuzo. " Kwaye, ngaphezu koko, ngoku kuphela ngabafazi abathe tye kuphela abaqhelene nesiphumo se-Amerrhea elambileyo, ethintela kuphela abatshutshisi kwaye bazikhusela ngamaxesha anzima.
Kodwa kusekho amabhinqa awonakaleyo ngeli xesha low. Awunakufuna abantwana bonke kwaye bangaziqokeleli ukuba baqalise. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantwana abasesesinga siqinisekiso sokukhula okhuselekileyo. Ngapha koko, abantwana namhlanje sisibambiso ikakhulu. Kwaye kukho abafazi abaceba ukuba ngexesha baya kuzala abantwana. Kwaye abo bafuna nje ukuzalwa kwezona nkozo, kwaye bangaphindi kuye.
Kwaye apha anabantwana mathathu. Ujongana Ntoni? Ukukhula komsebenzi kakhulu. Ukuziqonda kakuhle. Inomtsalane ngokhetho lwesangqa samahlakani (esifunwayo - yonke into ephosakeleyo kwaye icoca indoda eNorway). Kwezi, i-mines yangoku kukho enye-wena ngokuthe ngcembe inciphisa inani lamaqanda abasebenzi. Ukuba uhlala usela, ulale ngeambrela kwaye ukhwele imimandla emininzi engcolisekileyo - kakuhle, ikhulule amaqanda aliqela. Kwaye oogqirha abazicebisi ukwenza le nkqubo ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka engama-34 kuphela, kuba kuphela emva kokuba le minyaka iqala ukuhla kwenziwe ngokuzala. Oko kukuthi, ukuba awuzilayishi inkunkuma yezityalo zamandla enyukliya, awunakukhathazeka.
Ivela kwi-iron "apha ndifuna ukutshata ngoko, akukho mntu uya kuthatha!"
Ycinge. Indoda ephakathi (ukuba uza entlokweni ukuze utshatelwe umntu ophakathi), wazibuza ngengqondo entle kubafazi kangangeminyaka emi-5 ukuya kwengama-10. Oko kukuthi, ukhangele nje ukuba ungamfutshane, kodwa incinci, ishishini. Nimashumi mathathu anesihlanu, ukhoma amashumi amane anesihlanu, yintoni na ingxaki? Kwiminyaka engamakhulu amabini eyadlulayo, kwanomkhosi wamashumi amane anesihlanu oneminyaka engama-5 ubudala akazange aqwalasele abo batshatileyo abangamashumi amabini anesihlanu, ngokuyintloko abavela kwiingcinga zokuzala - ezo siye sabhala ngaphezulu, kwaye sele utshintshe kakhulu. Amadoda, ewe, ngabantu abalondoloze kakhulu kubunzima, kodwa utshintsho lubenzakalisa. Umfazi oneminyaka engamashumi amabini naye mhle, akukho mbambano, kodwa ngubani na xa sele ekhulile? Ngaba kuya kuba kuhle naye xa egcina umntu epheleleyo?
Kodwa okubaluleke ngakumbi kunentelo enye. Ukutshata okanye ukutshata okuthe kratya ukuba ufunde kwi-iron, nje "ngexesha" - umfazi uvala uninzi lwamathuba okukhula. Umtshato kwingqondo yayo yesiko ngumsebenzi osebenzayo opheleleyo. Kunye nokulima abantwana-kwaye ngokulayishwa ngokubanzi nge-24 \ 7. Le asiyo-squat yentlalo, "ukuba isuswe", yiminyaka emihlanu ukuya kwemithathu, esuswe ngokupheleleyo ekuqaliseni, amava akhoyo. Awuyasiya kwi-PDD, akazange aphumelele kwiimviwo, akazange aphule iprojekthi, akazange akhe ishishini. Kwaye omnye umntu uyenzile. Ke awuzange uhlale kwindawo enye - udiniwe. Kuthetha ntoni kuwe? Ndikunye nomntwana wakho, ubuncinci ubuchule bodwa, imeko kamama (kwaye oku kusekho into) kunye noxolo lwezalamane. Kwiprojekthi "Umtshato" awuqinisekanga nantoni na.
Ke yintoni embi ukuba ibe nye kwiminyaka engamashumi amathathu? Inyani yokuba umntu ufuna i-sex kunye ne-hugs.
Ewe, lo asingombuzo wemeko yosapho, lo ngumbuzo wokukwazi ukungena kubudlelwane, kwaye ubukho babagqatswa abahle kakhulu kubudlelwane kwimo yakho. Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buyinto ethile, oko kuthetha ukuba akukho nkosi ye-chibiticaction ngaphezulu kwakho, ujonge nje into yokuba ubudlelwane bukhona abunikiweyo. Ewe, ukuba uyayiqonda kakuhle into kanye - kwaye ukuba ayiyiyo-kuyanyanzeleka ukuba uyifumane, kwaye ungavumi ngokungaboniyo kwinto "into engaqeqeshwanga." Ukuba akukho bagqatswa-akukho mfuneko yokuba uzitshintshe, kwaye indalo esingqongileyo. Kungathatha ixesha, akukho mntu uthile-kodwa sele sitsho: Unexesha.
Umbhali wombhalo: I-Aya mikeev