Umkhwa wokubumba phantsi kwempumlo ayisiyo uphawu lokuba ungumntu onemibuzo. Iluncedo kuwo onke amacala. Izazinzulu ziqinisekisa ukuba incoko kunye nabo ...
Nceda ulwazi lokwenza izinto kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo
EDyunivesithi, iWisconsin-Madison iqhuba imvavanyo: Amavolontiya anyanzelekileyo ukuba ajonge izinto ezilahlekileyo. Kweli qela, lalivunyelwe ukuba libethe phantsi kwempumlo 'lingaphi ukukhwela? Ngaphantsi kwesofa kwajongile, phantsi kwetafile, kananjalo, "kwaye owesibini wanconyelwa ukugcina umlomo kwinqaba. Kwaye abo bancokola nabo, bengafumani basuswe ngokukhawuleza - emva kokuqalisa, imood yayingcono, kunye nepulse - nangaphezulu.Senze ngononophelo
Into efana neengcali zengqondo zaseGarry ezidlalwa kunye noDaniel Svimbley, xa zinikwa ukuba zikhumbule uluhlu lokuthenga ivenkile enkulu. Abanye babo babenokujonga uluhlu, kwaye abanye babo-ngaphandle kokuthetha amagama emveliso. Abo babethetha nabo, ngenxa yoko babafumana bekhawuleza kwiishelfu kwaye baphoswa zizikhundla ezinqabileyo.
Phucula inkumbulo
Xa sithetha nabo, imemori ye-top isebenze. Unomthamo omncinci, kodwa usinika ithuba lokujonga intsingiselo yegama, kwaye iya kukhunjulwa ngcono. Indlela yokufunda isekwe kule nto xa abafundi ekufundeni ulwimi lwasemzini kufuneka baphinde amagama amatsha kunye nokuguqulela kwabo.Nika ukukhutshwa ngokweemvakalelo
Xa wonke umntu Dangayo, unokuthula cwaka kwikona yokubandezeleka, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba uthethe kakhulu "% # & !!!" - Ngoku sele lula.
Cacisa ubuchopho
Inye kuphela into yokuthetha nam cwaka, enye into kukufihla ufakelo kunye nemiyalelo. "Ke, mama, bathobe kwaye bacinga ukuba ungaza apha." Xa uthetha nawe, awuyithethanga kuphela- uyayiva. Kwaye amagama athatyathwa njengecebiso elifanelekileyo elinokulandelwa.
Phatha ixesha elide ngengqondo
Kuba eli lizwi liphakathi liyinxalenye yethu kuphela, kodwa uninzi lomzali. Ukuba umama ngotata bonke ebuntwaneni ugwetywe ngenxa yokuba wolulwe kunye ne-ballad, uya kuthetha naye "kakuhle, into endinokulahleka ngayo izitshixo!". Ukuba abazali babeme ngakumbi, uya kudwelisa iindawo osele uzijonga kuzo kwaye ufanele ukhangela kuzo.
Umzali ongumzali unokutyhalelwa ukuba bavumela ukuba bathethe ngokuzimeleyo - ukuba bangaphindi umkhwa we-knuckle owevayo kwidilesi yakho ebuntwaneni, kodwa ukuze uthethe ngelizwi lakho. Kwaye zidumise ngokwakho ukuqaphela xa kufunyanwe izitshixo.