E-US, iipesenti ezingama-30 zokuzalwa komntwana ngecandelo leCesareyar. Ngaphandle kwengxoxo yoluntu, inqanaba lilonke lokunyaniseka kwabantu baseMelika kunye nolwazi ukuba lo msebenzi usindisa ubomi boomama nomntwana, intsomi engcwenge, kwaye abo bazalayo . Aba bafazi abayi-13 bavuma ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiseshoni yePuffyton Post kwaye baxelele amabali abo. Siyathemba ukuba ucinga ukuba icandelo leCesarean alisebenzi "ukusebenza", utshintsha ingqondo kwaye uqalise ukuhlonipha ukukhetha abanye abantu.
"Ndiyakuthanda esi sitshetshe, ubonakala ngathi uyandibetha," Lijia, 37
"Ndiqale ukumka emanzini ngoMgqibelo ebusuku kwiinyanga ezili-18 ezidlulileyo. NguNon, ngeCawa bendisele ndikwisibhedlele seMakhaya. Bendingayi kwenza eCesarean, kuba igwala kwaye ndiyakholelwa ukuba kuya kuba kupholile ukuzala kakhulu. Kodwa oogqirha baya kwiholo kwaye bathi ndinoxinzelelo lwengcinezelo, kwaye umntwana unokubanjiswa. Babesithi, Bafuna ukwenza iKesareyan. Andisokuze ndicinge ngomzuzwana. Kwaye emva kwemizuzu engama-30 umntwana wam sele elele esifubeni sam.
Yoyika xa uxelelwa, ngoku siza kukunqumla umntwana wakho. Kodwa yayikuphela kwendlela ekhoyo. Kwaye andikaze ndicinge ukuba ndizalwe "hayi".
"Ndandisazi ukuba ndifuna ukuthoba, kungenjalo - isiphelo", Mara, 41
"Sizame ukuthuthuzela intombi yethu yesibini iminyaka emi-3. Kwakukho iimpazamo ezimbini eziphosakeleyo. Ke imizamo emi-4 yokuchumisa ukuchumisa kunye ne-eco. Xa ndandimnxiba, ndayoyika kakhulu ukulahlekelwa nguye.
Emva kweeveki ezingama-37, xa yonke into ibilungile, i-bull yentliziyo ihambile kwi-ultrasound. Ugqirha wam, endimaziyo kangangeminyaka eli-15, wajika wandixelela esithi: "Siya kudinga i-celeresarean kaxakeka." Kwaye ngokubanzi ingqondo, ukuphazamisa kakhulu kwaye ndinoloyiko. Ndaye ndafumanisa ukuba ukuba andizolithanga ngoku, ndiza kuphulukana naye. Ukuzalwa kwam kokuqala kwakulula kwaye kwendalo. Kodwa zombini ezi meko zinjalo andisokuze ndilibale kwaye ndinombulelo ongazenzisiyo. "
"Ndiyithandile umbono kaCessarean kwaye ndandivuya kakhulu," joda, 42
"Ndizelwe amantombazana akho kwiinyanga ezi-8 ezidlulileyo. Ukususela kwiveki ye-26, ndandikulondolozwa ngenxa yolutsha lwesibeleko. Oogqirha bacinga ukuba andifikanga fihla i-28. Kodwa bekukho i-30 ka-32nd. Nditsho ndatya kwaye ndisenza imithambo ebhedini. Ndaxelelwa ukuba iKesareyan, ndavuya kakhulu. Mna nomyeni wam sizama iminyaka eliqela, kwaye ngoku ndiyayithanda i-conito yakho. Ngapha koko, undikhumbuza ukuba umntwana wam ulapha nam. "
"Ndifuna iimvakalelo zam ziyahlonitshwa," uSusan, 32
"Intombi yam eneminyaka emihlanu ndazala neKesareyan. Ndifuna ukuzala komntwana, kodwa emva kweeyure ezili-15, ugqirha wathi abayifumani intloko, kwaye ke kuye kwenzeka buthathaka intliziyo yakhe. Bathe, Bafuna icandelo leCesarean. Ndacaphuka kakhulu. Bayoyika zonke ezi ziqwenga, ndaziva ndisosiphoso, kuba isibeleko sam sasingakwazi ukutyhala umntwana. Nonke bendithetha kamva, kodwa umntwana wakho uphilile, kwaye andizange ndikwazi ukuthoba.
Ndazale intombi yam yesibini emva kwendalo. Kwaye yayiyiCatharis efanelekileyo. Ndayeka ukuzibeka emqaleni okokuqala. Ndifuna nje ngalo mzuzu ukuze ndixhaswe kwaye ndixelelwe, Kulungile, ndinomsindo, unelungelo. Ngoku ndifunda kumbelekisi wokunceda abasetyhini ngale mibuzo kunye nobunzima. "
"Ndibona kakhulu umzimba wam kwezi foto," molly, 37
"Oogqirha babeka iliso kwiikontreyithi zam kunye nentliziyo nganye entsha yonyana wam ubetha yonke into ebuthathaka. Emva koko ndaxelelwa ukuba iKesaresan iyakwenza. Ndingu-fan omkhulu wolu ngcelele lwamanqaku athi "i-anatomy yeTenteion", ngenxa yoko ndabuza ogqirha ukuba baziphathe kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwaye basebenzise kakhulu. Uninzi lwenzeka, andisayi kuba nabantwana, ke, ndingathanda ukuziva yonke into, kodwa andizisoli. Andindithandi kule foto isenyongweni, kuba andiyicingi ngokomzimba wam. Ndiyamthanda, nam ndiyamkhathalela, njengoko ndinako, kuba undinike unyana wam. Ndinokukhulelwa okukhanyayo kunye nokuchacha. Kodwa ndifuna abasetyhini ukuba bazi, bangakhathazeki ngomzimba wabo emva kokuzalwa komntwana- yinto eqhelekileyo. "
"Ndicinge nge tattoo, kodwa ngoku andimdingi", liz, 27
"Ndandineentsuku ezintathu, kwakuyinto yokwenyani, ngokunyaniseka izame ngokunyaniseka ngeli xesha, kodwa oogqirha bathi kuyafuneka ukusika. Kwaye benze yonke into kangangokuba kwakukhangeleka ngokungathi lukhetho lwam. Ewe kunjalo. Umntwana wayecule kwaye kufuneka akhululwe. Mna nomyeni wam andiyicingi miphefumlo yonke, kodwa ngoku sinomntwana ophilayo.
Ndinomkhweli, ke kwabakho imisebenzi emibini ebomini bam. Kwaye konke ukungenelela okunjalo kunzima kakhulu kucingelwa kakhulu. Ngaphambili, bendifuna ukwenza i-tattoo ndizukisa ukuzalwa komntwana, kodwa ngoku ndabona ukuba andizukuthi. Sele ndinesikhumbuzo ngohlobo lwesikhafu. Uyandinceda ukuba ndithathe yonke into eyayiyiyo.
"Ndiziva ndonzakala kwala mava," marissa, 34
"Ndinetyhefu eyoyikisayo. Ndasiwa esibhedlele izihlandlo ezininzi kwaye ndilahlekelwe yi-9 kg. Kwiveki yama-36, ndaqala ukunciphisa isibeleko. Ndithathiwe ukugcina, kodwa umlo wawungafundwanga, kodwa wahlulwa kwiiyure. Kwaye iiveki ezimbini. Andikwazi ukutya okanye ndilale. I-Ultrasound ibonise ukukrokrela kokuxelwa kweplati. Oogqirha abakwazanga ukufumana ixesha elide, njengoko besenza, de kwacaca ukuba isifo sengqondo esinengxaki, kwaye kwakuyimfuneko kuKesare. Kwakundixelela oko, mna nomyeni wam wandixelela, amehlo am aqengqa, ndilandelayo, ndilele intombi yam esanda kusana. Ndikhulelwe kakhulu kakhulu kunye nokuzalwa komntwana, ke nditsho ndihlekisa ukuba isikhafu secandelo le-CSISARAN asikho ngokubanzi xa kuthelekiswa nokuphumla. Kodwa ndiziva ndonzakele. "
"Ndifuna iintlobo zendalo", i-savannah, 35
"Unyana wam wokuqala wazalwa kwiminyaka emithathu enesiqingatha eyadlulayo. Umama kamama wam. Ke, bendicwangcisa ukungaguqukiyo kunye nokuzalwa komntwana ngokugqibeleleyo ngaphandle kokungenelela. Kodwa kwavela ukuba imbonakalo ye-feus pelvic yangaphambili. Ndizame yonke into, nokuba i-actuunctuncturety kunye ne-chiropractic. Ke kaloku, baqeshwa ke baseKesaren. Ndaziva ndibuhlungu, bendibuhlungu kakhulu, ndacinga ukuba andikhange ndiyenze ngomzimba wam kwaye kutheni ingasebenzi ngendlela yendalo. Ndandinika abafazi ababehamba epakini ngezihlalo ezinamavili epakini emva koo thixo, kwaye ndandijonge esibhedlele.
Emva koko ndakhulelwa okwesibini. Kwaye ngokungxamisekileyo yayikukuqinisekisa ukuba ngokwemvelo. Ndandingu-profelol ngokoqobo emva kwe-cssarean. Le nkqubo yayine-yoga, yolula kwaye ngaphezulu, bendilungiselela ukubaleka. Ndiyazi ukuba ndiza konwaba ngayo nayiphi na imeko, kodwa ukuzalwa komntwana okwesibini kwandinceda ukuba ndiwamkele amava okuqala. "
"Andilindelanga ukuba khulu, kodwa ndonwabile," uMariel, 32
"Ndinomthamo ongonelanga wokuqokelelwa kwamanzi, ngoko ke uGenera ubanjiwe. Emva kweeyure ezili-13, i-fetus ayihambela phambili kwi-5 cm. Ndathi: "Guys, yenza nantoni na".
Ngo-2010, uPitbul wawahlasela, kwabakho isikhafu esikhulu emlenzeni, ngoko ke isikhafu esivela eKesareya, ngokubanzi,. Andize ndimbonise kwaye andizukumxhoma kwi-Avatar kwi-facebook, kodwa ndibonisa le projekthi. Ngokwesiqhelo andicingi ngayo. "
"Kunzima kum ukucinga ukuba umntwana wam wavela kwesi sifuba, uLatina, 41
"Umntwana wam wagqiba iiyure ezingama-36, kodwa umntwana akazange aphindezele ngakumbi nge-8 cm. Ndikwanokumelana ne-anesthesia. Oko kukuthi, xa baqala ukundisika, ndaziva ndimhle kakhulu. Oogqirha bacela ukuba bam, ngoku bangaphambili, umyeni wakhe uphume. Kwaye emva koko ndizinqumle ngokungummangaliso.
Isikhafu asindikhathazi kwaphela. Ucocekile kakhulu. Emva kweKesarean, ndazala kabini ngokwemvelo. Ukuba ufuna ukuba ne-quadede kwakhona, andizukukhathazeka. Bendingayi kucinga ngayo. "
"Yeka ukuba uzive unetyala", Nicole, 30
"Nyana wam ngu-6 Wayemkhulu kakhulu kwaye nogqirha bathi wayelungile kunoKesareyan. Andicingi. Kwakusoyika, kodwa yonke into ihambe kakuhle. Isiqingatha seyure kwaye molo. Ndaye ndacwangcisa umntwana wesibini nge-cessan. Ndiphazamisekile, nokuba isikhafu siya kuba ngakumbi kwaye siya kuba buhlungu kakhulu. Yayibuhlungu kakhulu, ewe, kodwa isikethi asitshintshanga.
Kudala ndiziva ndinetyala ngokungaze ndizama ukuzala ngokwemvelo. Kumangalisiwe ngenxa yengxoxo ye-intanethi malunga nabasetyhini abakhetha iKesareyan, bathi, oko kuthetha ukuba le yindlela elula. Andikhathali abo bacinga. Kukho abantwana ababini basempilweni, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndibabele, akekho namnye umntu.
"Ndikhathazekile ukuba isikeno siya kuba sibi", i-shanda, i-40
"Ndikhawuleze ndaphindaphindile emva kweKesarev, kodwa inxeba alizange lihlupheke, ngenxa yoko kwafuneka ndinyamekele umongikazi kumthungo, kwaye ndandinexhala lokuba kuya kubakho ukungathobeki. Igama elithi "inqaba" iyayikhame.
Ngoku ndingugqirha wengcali yomhlaba kwaye ndivuthuza. Ndiphatha ixesha leposi ngovelwano olukhulu, ndiyazi ukuba emva kweCesarean, ngeli xesha kunzima ngakumbi kumfazi. Kwaye andicingi ukuba kwenzeke into engaqhelekanga kum. "
"Ndiziva ndijikelezwe ngononophelo kwaye ndihenyuzi," uCaroline, wama-36
"Ndine-glaucoma kwaye malunga necandelo leCesarean kwityala lam bendiphambili. Ndikhumbula ngokuzalwa komntwana nje kuphela izibane ezimangalisayo kwigumbi lokusebenza kunye nobuso obulungileyo beqela logqirha. Ukuba ngoku ndiza kunikwa ukuzalwa komntwana, ndikhawuleza, bendisithi: "Bashiye omnye umntu." Bendimhle kakhulu. " Kwaye isikhafu sisebenza njengesikhumbuzo esilula sezo meko zintle neziganeko ezihamba kunye nokuvela kwabantwana bam babini. "
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