USteve Sampon, utata weentombi ezintathu, wagqiba kwelokuba ahlukane nabanye ooyise ngokuthambileyo, ukuze babengeyothusi ukuba babone izinto ezifihlakeleyo zeentombi zabo. Yile nto umntu ngamnye afanele ayifumane.
Yilungiselele ukuba uzive waluphala
Xa isizathu sokuba usondele kwinkangeleko yabazukulwana ngokusondeleyo nokuzalwa kwentombazana yakho. Ngenxa yoku, unokutsala ukunxila kunye / okanye uthenge imoto yezemidlalo. Nceda, wenze nje into ngaxeshanye.Lungela ukuziva unxunguphele
Ukufumana, indlela intombi ye-rose, ngamanye amaxesha izikwe ngayo kumaxesha xa ulinde ubuncinci. Xa udade wakhe omncinci ebuya esikolweni, ekhala, ngenxa yokuba inkwenkwe ebhasini ibiza "engaqhelekanga", kwaye ibonisa iliso, injalo iliso, lithetha nje ukuba nguwe entle." Kwaye ibinzana elinye uza kuphilisa inxeba, onokuthi uzame (ayiphumelelanga) ukuphilisa imini yonke.
Yilungiselele ukuziva woyika
Nangona kunjalo, unokufumana umntwana ohle kumntwana ophambeneyo nowesilindi, kwaye awunakuqonda ukubangela inguquko. Mhlawumbi wenze into. Okanye awukhange. Okanye ukuma. Awusoze uqiniseke. Kwaye kule nto ungayaziyo ukuba yintoni ityala, yonke into ihla iba mandundu: "Tata, yintoni ingxaki yakho?"
, Lindela kwakhona imvakalelo yokubulela kakhulu xa kamva wasondela kuwe ukuba ufihle kwaye aphule egxalabeni lakho. Qonda-ayisiyishishini lakho. Ishishini lakho linokuqhubeka nokuba kufutshane.
Yilungiselele ukuziva ukuba usetyenzisiwe
Ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi rhoqo. Ngelixa sele evelisa uluvo lwakho, imbonakalo yakho yesitayile, intetho yomdlali wakho, ngaphandle kokuyeka imali yakho ngaphandle kwesithunzi sokuthandabuza. Kwaye ulungele ukuzive esilumkileyo sobulumko xa ufakwa kwiingxaki zokwenyani kwaye eze kuwe kumabhunga. Kwaye uyive. Uthi: "Enkosi, Tata".Yilungiselele ukuziva unesizungu
Kuba intombazana ehlala ikuthanda, ngoku inomdla ngakumbi kubahlobo bakaMbutho wabahlobo, ifowuni yakhe, kwaye, mhlawumbi, inkwenkwe. Kwaye kuya kuphinda athethe nonina malunga nantoni na, kuba uya kuhlala ungumntu omncinci kubo, nangona ke baya kuqhubeka bekuthanda. Lungiselela inyani yokuba ngamaxesha apho ufuna ukuya kusela ibhiya ukubukela umdlalo kwiTV.
Yilungiselele ukuziva ulangazelelo lwamaxesha amadala amnandi
Xa emi kwingubo eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka apho wayenenqwaba yemali, kwaye efotwe ngamantombazana phambi kwebhola yokuphumelela. Uyakhumbula ukuba waguqa njani amadolo akho kwaye wangcungcutheka xa udanisa naye, ebeka iinyawo zakhe ngokwakho. Kwaye uya kuzisa iliso kwaye abuze: "Undijonga ntoni kakhulu?" Kwaye uhlunguzela intloko yakho kwaye udibanise kunye nabajikelezileyo.
Yilungiselele ukuziva ikratshi
Kwaye silwe neenyembezi ezibukhuni, xa siza kuzisa iinyembezi ezintlanu, okanye amanqaku ngexesha lomdlalo weqela lakho, okanye ubhale ingoma ethi yonke le ntsapho iba yintsapho. Lungiselela into osoloko unesizathu sokuqhayisa ngayo. Zilungiselele ukuba nguyeyona fan ithembekileyo.
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