Ayizukuba malunga nesibane esineluhlaza esiluhlaza, esingahambelani nengaphakathi. Kwaye hayi malunga ne-frank ady, njengokubetha. Kwaye malunga nokusilela kweziganeko eziqhelekileyo, ezityhafileyo kakhulu, ngoku ubomi obudala.
Andidingi mntwana onjalo
Kwaye kwakhona "nesizathu sokuba ndiluncedeni lo lusizi entlokweni yam," "ndingathi ndingcono ukuzisa inja" nezinye iingxelo ezivuyileyo ukuba "andizange ndikhuphe isisu." Uninzi olunokwenzeka, lokuthetha amagama angoyiki, abazali babethetha into njengomntu, njengoku: "Ndidiniwe emsebenzini, kwaye ndingayihlambulukanga ebusuku, kwaye ndiza kuhlamba ebusuku, kwaye ndiza kuyenza ungalali kwakhona. ". Kodwa yaqala ukuba: "Umculo". Ukuhamba ngengqondo yengqondo ukusuka kwimvelaphi enjalo ihlule izibambo kwaye kuqwalasele unyango lwexesha elide: ukubala emva kwayo yonke into, umntu ofileyo ovela engcwabeni kuya kufuneka awe.Ndiza kukushiya apha, kodwa ndizakuhamba
Irente kwikhaya leenkedama, ndiza kunika ipolisa, ndiphumelele, yingcuka engwevu. Abantwana ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka ethile kulula ukuba bube mnyama kwinto eyoyika kakhulu, enani, ukwahlukana nabazali babo. Abantwana bakhula kule shugal, kwaye baqinisekile ukuba umhlaba unokubhabha phantsi kweenyawo nangaliphi na ixesha. Iziphumo zahlukile. Umzekelo, njengenketho, umona owoyikekayo kunye nokukrokre- Kuthekani ukuba umyeni uyaphosa? Okanye ngokubanzi ukunqongophala kobomi bakho, kuba ukuba awunamakazi, ngekhe uye kuyo.
Uthetha njani notata wakho?
Okanye "hayi oomama hami", "bamba umgama" kwaye ngokubanzi "ungubani apha, obonakeleyo, okanye yintoni !?" Ingxaki ayisiyonyani yokuba ukungalingani kuboliwe phakathi kwabantwana nabazali, ngokufanelekileyo. Ingxaki kukuba kukungaqondakali, kwaye njani ukuthetha nabazali ukuze oku kuthathwa njengento eqhelekileyo? Akukho mpendulo kulo mbuzo, kuba amabinzana anjalo ookhokho adla ngokugubungela uloyiko lwabo, ukungabinakho nokudideka. Nangona kunjalo, indlela yokuthetha ngokuchanekileyo notata, oko kukuthi, indlela yokuziphatha kwindlela ye-hierarchicial? Kungcono konke nangayiphi na indlela, kubi, abanye bagqiba kwelokuba abanye kwaye oku akuphuculi amathuba abo emisebenzi. Kwaye abanye bakhetha ukuhlasela naliphi na igunya, bajonga amandla kunye nemida yawo: Ndiza kuthengisa "pope" okanye nguye? Ngokubanzi, nangayiphi na imeko, ilifa elingenampilo.Kutheni ufuna imali?
Apho baya khona. Sukunqwenela ukucheba. Yintoni oyifihlayo into? Ubhala bani apho? Yile nto unayo, idayari, ha! Ngamanye amaxesha ulawulo olufanayo luqhubeka nokuvuthwa okunzulu. Uyazi: "Molo, iphi, kwaye ngubani na abantwana abahlala nabo?" Okanye "ndibaleke apha, xa usenza umsebenzi, ndambeka kancinane, ndangqengqa, ndabakho ... ithini i-rancy ye-windows kwiwadi !? Ukuphelisa ulawulo oluqhubekayo ngabazali, ngamanye amaxesha umntu ongumdala uhlala engaqondanga kwaye akazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba yeyiphi imibuzo ekubhetele ukuba ungayikhathi, kwaye apho ungenelelo lungafanelekanga. Apho unokuthatha isigqibo malunga nabanye, kwaye apho kufuneka uxoxe khona izicwangciso zakho. Ukuba ukhe walungiselela isibetho ngenxa yokujonga iingxowa zebhulukhwe ngaphambi kokuhlamba, unokungazi ukuba uvela ngoku.
Andisathethi nawe kwakhona
Kwaye ayithethi. Ezinye iiveki ezingama-40. Kwaye ke sifunda ukuba kwimeko yokungqubana, kuyimfuneko ukuyivumela ukuba ivumelekile ... akukho ndlela. Iifreyimu zityhafile. Kwaye ndiyabandezeleka. Kwaye sonke siyabandezeleka.Uyintombazana ... (inkwenkwe)
Ngaphantsi kwale salece, ungamkhuthaza umntwana onobunzima obukhulu. Kwinto ethandwayo: Inkwenkwe ingenakulila, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka unike. Kwaye intombazana ayikwazi ukubaleka, xhuma kwaye ilahle, kodwa awunakunika. Njl. Ngamanye amaxesha unokufundisa into eluncedo. Umzekelo, kumnandi ukupheka okanye ukupakisha ngokuthe ngqo-izakhono ezifanelekileyo. Kodwa kungengenxa yokuba "uyintombazana okanye inkwenkwe." Ezi zakhono zilungile kuyo nayiphi na imeko yemvelo. Ngenxa yoko, amantshontsho amanqatha aneentloni ngenyameko ebantwaneni. Owu, ndine-creatografic cretinism, ndiyintombazana. Wow, kufuneka ndinxile kwaye ndilwe, ndiyindoda. Uninzi alunakuze lubakhuphe.
Vele ubenguwe
Ewe, ukuba wonke umntu uxhuma equleni, uyakutsiba? Angtyly ngokwaneleyo, ngaphandle kwezinto ezo ezoyikisayo zezinto zokuzonwabisa zomntu ofikisayo, ukuba njengabanye wonke umntu - ubuchule obuhle. Abantu abagcina imithetho yendlela, umzekelo, abaguquli ababi. Kodwa uphila kwaye ufike apho, apho baqhuba khona. Kodwa inyanzelisa i-crow emhlophe-hayi olona luvo lubalaseleyo. Ngayiphi na indlela okanye enye into eya kubakho iingxabano ngoontanga, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abazali babonakala benza yonke into ukuba babe ngakumbi kwaye babenzima. Ukuphila njani xa ungayazi indlela yokufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabanye, wena kwaye ngokucacileyo, mhlawumbi.Inokwenzeka kwaye ilunge ngakumbi
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Ude utye konke, awuzukuphuma etafileni
Kunye nemigaqo emininzi yokutya okhethekileyo. Umzekelo, umxube kufuneka ushiye kamva. Ukuphosa ukutya-isono. Hlula-ngakumbi. Ngokutya akudlali. Shiya abanye ubuncinci. Umnandi kufuneka wahlulele. Kwaye i-corona combo: "Kukho into osele endisele ... uyacula iipine, kodwa igqume kakhulu." Kunzima ukucinga ukuba le migaqo ijijile i-Fast yengqondo yamanqatha. Abanye bathi, bazama ngokwenene ukuba bayitya yonke into abangayi kufakwa kwiplate, nokuba abafuni kutya. Abanye baqhelane nobomi (kungekuphela nje malunga nokutya) ukuzinqanda ngovuyo, de 'bade baqonde "njengoko ulandela. Kwaye xa kuqalisa ukukhanya, siqinisekile ukuba sele iza kujika, kuba akwenzeki ukuba imnandi kakhulu - nonke. Ewe kunjalo, ukuba ubuyile, le ntlekele iyoyikeka idinga ngokukhawuleza ... Ot.Zeziphi iingxaki onazo?
Yiyeke ingcambu, ngaba unaye umntu oswelekileyo? Akukho nto ikrakra, musa ukwenza ngathi. Yintoni oyithandayo njengegundane kwi-barline kwaye njalo. Okokuqala, kuthetha, ukwala umntwana kwiimvakalelo zakhe, emva koko thetha oko ikufumanayo, enyanisweni. Elona nxeba liqinileyo phakathi kwabazali, ngendlela, ephosakeleyo, i-quendicitis ephantsi kwesosi "akukho nto yokuhlangula." Kodwa ukwazi ukuba uphi kwaye unentlungu, ngokwengqondo emzimbeni nasengqondweni, ibaluleke kakhulu ngokuphinda-phinda nezempilo. Kwaye kuluncedo kakhulu ukujongana nokundiva ngoku. Ndinomsindo, ndicaphukisa, kodwa mhlawumbi ndinomona? Yintoni omele uyenze ngalo lonke uqoqosho, siza kubhala ngamanye amaxesha. Kwaye ngenxa ye-snack sinikezela ngenye intsingiselo yabazali abanamashumi amabini, agqwesileyo, kwaye ndilinde ukongezwa kwakho! 1. Ewe, ufana notata wakho / uManash / Umalume uKodwa - utsho-ungaka malini? 3. Abantu abakrelekrele abaziphathanga ngo-4. Uhlazo lwam, isohlwayo sam 5. Ngaba uza kutsalela kakhulu ngaphambi kokuba amakhwenkwe, uya kufunda kakubi, uya kuya emagosheni 7. Ke Ndikwiminyaka yakho. 8. Kodwa DISA, ngendlela ... 9. Ngaba ubuchukumise into kwakhona? Izandla-iimpuku, ngaphandle kwakho utshabalala yonke le-10. Kulungile, into eza kuthatha isidenge ... 11. Apha uza kuba noonyana bakho-iflethi yam 12. Akukho mntu tshata. "Akukho nto eyoyikisayo, yiya kwaye ungaguquki kwi-14 14 Uyenzile, ndayibiza! 15 Kuba nditshilo kakhulu 16, Uya kundizisa engcwabeni, nifuna ukufa 17. Nantsi ke, ndiya kumazi uBawo! 18. Hayi indlela yokuzonwabisa, de ube nonke 19. Hambisa indlela yokwenza kube lula ukuba kube lula kubo, ivila nje engama-20. Kwaye thatha la maqukuglusheki