I-10 yobusuku beminyaka yokufikisa apho bonke abazali abaya kudibana khona

Ixesha eliKhulu- ulutsha. Imihla yokuqala, ukwanga okokuqala kwaye zonke iindlela zehlabathi zivulekile. Kungenzeka ukuba siza kuqonda kubudala. Okwangoku, kubonakala ngathi sinokwazi ukutyibilika i-pubermare yethu yasebusuku, kwaye iphantse yathobelwa noko babekutshanje ngelo xesha 16, hayi indlela, abantwana babonayo kwaye baqala ukukhula.

Kancinci, kwaye konke uthango lwe-pubsest kuya kufuneka kwakhona. Kwaye ukwazi ubunzulu bakhe bokwenene - ezo zityhiliweyo kuphela ngabazali abakwishumi elivisayo. Hayi, asisoyiki. Sikunceda ukuba ulungiselele ngokuziphatha. Njengoko besitsho, kulumkiswa - kuthetha izixhobo.

Khwaza

Yile nto uza kuqala kuqala. Umhle, nangona inkwenkwe engenayo iqalisa ngequbuliso kwaye ngaphandle kwesizathu sokufundwa okukoyikisayo kwivolumu ephezulu, kunye nokuxutywa kunye nentombazana entle iya kuhamba kwi-ultrasound. Kwenzeka into efanayo ngexesha lentlekele yonyaka, kodwa imiphunga kunye neziphunga kunye nemingxunya em baby yayisiba buthathaka. Mveni.

Umculo wediot

Ilizwi elitsha elifanayo, umntwana uya kwamkelwa kwindlela yokucula umculo owoyike ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ube lilitye lepunk. Kuba i-punk yelitye yayisoyike yabazali bakho. Ulinde into efana nokungena komculo kwi-anime ye-anime ye-roma zhomdy. Khmykai-uthi, "Akukho nto iyoyikeka, ndiyayithanda i-Anime"? Hayi, uthanda "kwi-TIOGUN" kwaye "ngokuzenzekelayo", kwaye umntwana ujonga, emamela kwaye ecula into enganyangekiyo. Njengokhetho olubi kakhulu-umntwana uza kuqokelela eyakhe i-rap-gang kwaye aqalise ii-pathos ukuya eludongeni kwi-webcam, esusa izandla, njengegorilla, i-gorilla, i-gorilla, i-gorilla, i-gorilla, i-gorilla.

Iinwele zokubulala

Kwinkwenkwe yakho okanye intombazana, kuphela kwiinkcukacha ezixhomekeke. Ndikholelwe, umntwana wakhe nasiphi na isini uza kuvavanya iinwele ngendlela eyi-100%. Oko kuyimfuneko. I-curls yegolide etshisayo, iyoyikeka, inqunyulwe phantsi kwe-idiot encinci ye-Superpopular ... Eyona ndlela iphambili kukutshisa iinwele zakho kunye nepeyinti yetyhefu, engabinayo kanye loo nto ilindelekileyo, Kwaye ngenxa yoko, babhengeza ubomi bakhe bugqityiwe ngonaphakade.

Uya kuzama ukunyoba umntwana kwangaphambili. Sinikezela ukuya kwi-salon kunye okanye sithenge ezona zinwele zintle emhlabeni. Veza indlela kwii-fitsen curls zenza i-stepp ye-step yeplanga. Ayithinteli nantoni na. Akukho kwanto. Umntwana akafuni imidlalo kunye noMama, nokuba phantse ngabantu abadala. Umntwana ufuna wonke umntu abe hit. Unokufa. Ngokubanzi, umama obizayo, ongcono e-Shrigi Curl kwimemori ngoku, kusekho ukuba ivela phi.

Iqhayiya elisesichengeni ngonaphakade

Awuyiqondi yonke into. Uyindoda endala apho ukhoyo. Awuyihloniphi yonke. Babesithi, ngokungathi umntwana uluhlobo oluthile lwesigqwirha. Umthiyile bonke. Ngaphandle koko, kutheni ungamxelelanga ukuba uphulaphule umculo kwaye adane rhoqo ngandlela zonke? Hayi ithoni. Hayi jonga. Hayi isidlo sakusasa. Hayi ihempe ethengiweyo. Abazange babuze ukuba ufuna i-Turkey. Ngesizathu esithile ndikhumbula iqhinga elihlekisayo kwi-kindergarten yendwendwe. Iifoto! Tsala ezi foto! Akukho nto ilunge kubo! Ngoobani ngokubanzi bakucela ukuba wenze iifoto ezimbi! Kwaye bonke abanye bababeka kwi-Intanethi! Ingakumbi le nto, ishumi elinesihlanu leminyaka eyadlulayo, embizeni!

Ukuqina okungaqhelekanga

Ukuba umntwana okwishumi elivisayo akafikanga kwizitulo ezingaqhelekanga nge-12, yalilungisa le nto ukuya kuthi ga kwi-16. Kwaye ukuba ayihambelani kwi-16, oko kuthetha ukuba awuyazi into. Kulapho wawuneminyaka eli-16 ubudala, "thambisa i-Subcutures" yayingabahlobo nje opholileyo naye owawuye waziphatha izinto ezipholileyo. Kwaye ngoku ezi zinobuntu obuqhelekileyo apho kupholile nabani, umculo osisidenge, aculayo, i-idiotitions, apho i-chado yenziwa ngamehlo kunye 'nehlaya labo kwinethiwekhi yoluntu -Unxulumene nabahlobo bakho apho. Kwaye hayi, ayisabikho. Ungumbhalisi nje. Njengabo bonke abangaphakathi kwezintandokazi, oko kukuthi, amaqabane kwintshukumo engacwangciswanga.

Akukho nto ingekhoyo ukuba ayikhumbule indlela awothusayo ngayo xa ejikeleze isikhumba sakho kwimixokelelwane kunye ne-bandana ngama turtles. Le yindlela ukuba umakhulu wakho wakubuza njani kuwe okwishumi elivisayo ngeejalas zakhe malunga nezitayile. Ngendlela, ngoku uya kuqala ukucinga malunga nokuba kutheni intshukumo enekhowudi engqongqo enxibe ibhulukhwe engakwazi ukutsalwa (ngokwemvelo, ayinakwenzeka) ithathelwa ingqalelo. Ukuba wazise okusesikweni emsebenzini, nje ukuba ubone.

Uqikelelo

Abayi kunyanzeleka ukuba batshabalale enzonzobileni, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuqalisa ukubhala ijika elinonxibelelwano olubonakalayo nge-Hormonial iqhuma komntwana. Ungaze uzame ukuqalisa ingoma malunga noMtonitor, umkhosi kunye nomsebenzi wexesha elizayo. Nangona uzama. Malunga ne-wall peas. Ishumi elivisayo ayisiyo loo nto ayifuni kufunda kakuhle konke konke - akakwazi. Andifuni kufuna ngokuqhelekileyo, ngengqondo. Lixesha lonke okanye into exakekileyo, okanye uxinzelelo. Kwaye awuyazi into embi, kuba into exakekileyo, ikuqhuba kuxinzelelo. Idabi lovavanyo ngumsebenzi "wokusela indawo yolwandle olumnyama". Ngamaxesha athile, uya kuzibamba ngokulula kwinto yokuba kukho amakrele amafutshane kwelona luvo lubalaseleyo okanye, ngokuchasene noko, ubuza ngethemba lokuthula: "Mhlawumbi ukhulelwe nje? Kodwa? "

I-termism ye-termism

Kubonakala ngathi umntwana esweni wawa isiqwenga sesipili somzobo, ngokungathi "kukumkanikazi wekhephu". Ukhule, iileta iziqhulo zeChynical kunye ne-mocks engagungqiyo nangaphaya kwelona xesha liqinileyo leefilimu zembali. Emva koko iqhekeza liyanyibilika, kodwa alikho ixesha elide. Iidemon ziya kuthwala esinye isipili esinye, iya kuqhekeza kwakhona, kwaye yonke into intsha. Kwaye i-ramp ilula: I-Dyatyko izama ukuphola. Kwaye kunzima ukuba ubunobusuku obusebusuku ngenxa yenja ngelishwa, bayilibele ukuncwina ngokuphela kwefilimu kunye namanye amagorha. Ewe, ewe, izihlangu. Ubusuku. Ngenxa yenja. Itsaliwe, ngendlela.

Ukulibala okumangalisayo

Uya kukholwa ukuba woyisa umntwana, kwaye umntwana, ngokuchaseneyo, uya kugxeka. Kuba uya kuyilibala yonke into ukuba anyamezele inkunkuma, ahlawule iirisithi kwaye ubuze malunga novavanyo oluphawulayo kwikota. Kwaye wena, abazali abakhohlakeleyo ngabazali, into ebaluleke kakhulu. Itikiti liyimfuneko kakhulu, musa ukuthenga okanye ulibale ukurekhoda umntwana kwiklasi enkulu ukugcwalisa iihagu zendlu kathathu ukuba zingaziva. Kwaye ngoba? Ngenxa yokuba ungamhloniphi umntwana kwaye ungacacanga ukuba kutheni bezale ukukhanya.

Izinto zokuzonwabisa

Ulutsha luya kukhula inkanuko. Xa imeko ye-canonio-ukuya kwimidlalo yekhompyuter. Kwiimeko ezisungulwe- ukuya kwimidlalo yokudlala imidlalo, i-Urbards, iholo yemidlalo yasekhaya, umdlalo kwiqela lomculo wesikolo kunye neParkour. Kuya kufuneka ukuba udlule kulo mnqweno-ngenye indlela awuyihloniphi okufanayo - ukutyala imali. Kwaye phantsi kwakhe indawo eKvarir ifakiwe. Naphi na apho ujika khona, okanye amanani e-anime, okanye oonodoli obophayo kwi-chinges, okanye imizobo ye-monsters, okanye iitanki zemodeli, okanye ezinamatanki eetanki, okanye iitanki zonke. Kwaye konke oku kufanelekile, kubonakala ngathi ayibizi, kodwa ukuba uthengisa, ungathenga inqwelomoya. Zonke iincoko ezisetafileni zimalunga nohlaselo kuphela, ziziphinde ngokutsha, ikliphu entsha kwaye iphi i-bafomet ebika igaraji. Wena, bazali, kungcono kuphela ukuba ungabi naluvo lwakho kule monologue musa ukukhwela, kuba, okokuqala, aniyiqondi yonke into eyonwabileyo. Nangona iliso lisohlwaya ngoku.

Iimfihlo ezingamawaka

Yonke into, yonke into ijikelezwe yimfihlo kunokuthathwa nje kokubaluleka. Yonke into eyenzekayo ebantshureni-mystery, kwaye ke akunakwenzeka ukuba ungene ngaphandle kokunkqonkqoza. Soze. I-smartphone enamandla acinezelwe esifubeni somntwana okwishumi elivisayo, kufanelekile ukuba umntu othile kubazali ukuba aphakame. Ibrawuza ivala ngokukhawuleza xa inkqonkqoza emnyango. Kwiifowuni, umntwana udibana nelizwi elikhethekileyo lokuhlola. Kwenzeka ntoni ngemini esikolweni? Imfihlo. Uthini igama labahlobo bakho be-bafeet kunye noMiko Coca, isandla sikaTian? Yeka inciniba. Uhleka ntoni apho kwinkampani? Ayiyondaba yakho leyo. Nje ukuba ungami kwaye, uzigulela ngokungazihloniphi isidima somntu kwaye kwangaxeshanye, ukhuthaza amabali malunga neehlelo kunye ne-Peophiles, funda iSMS kwaye uhlole iitora zetafile yomntwana. Kwaye, ukunyaniseka, awuyi kufumana enye into ngaphandle kwehlaya elinobudenge, isokisi yakudala kunye neendawo ezine-morri enamafutha ahleliweyo. Ngokungathi asibonwa apho!