Yintoni omele uyenze ngosizi lomntu

Intlekele, nokuba yenzekile nathi, bathelela ukothuka nokudideka. Nokuba lo mntu ngoyena mhlobo wakho osenyongweni, uyikhonkco kwaye ungayazi nje indlela yokuziphatha kunye nendlela yokunceda.

Ulibale malunga ne-cliche

I-Cliché ijika nayiphi na intlekele kwindawo yokubeka indawo - ke i-bibal kangangokuba sele iwaka kwiminyaka eyadlulayo yayiza nempendulo efanelekileyo. Oko kukuthi, umntu ufana nosizi, kodwa lo mbandela yonke imihla, cinga. "Kulindelwe," "Wonke umntu uza kuba khona," "Kufuneka ulibale kwaye uqhubeke," "uyaphila." Kwaye i-cliché ayisiyo kuphela amagama aqhelekileyo ovelwano. Esi sisidlo esinje "kakuhle,". Uphose umyeni, ukubamba i-ofisi yetikiti yosapho, kodwa ngoku ngoku uyintaka yasimahla. Uswelekelwe nguGranny othandekayo, Well, kodwa yena wayishiya indlu. Ibinzana elinjalo lalibonakala ligxeka amanxuwa-batsho, hayi, bona iZibonelelo ezingakanani!

Ulibale ngemibala

Ukuba umhlobo wasweleka, ukuxhasa i-bouquet yakhe ngumbono wobudenge. Wabona kwezi ntyatyambo emngcwabeni kwisiqingatha ngosuku. Ukuba ungene esibhedlele ngegama elinzulu, iintyatyambo zibonakala zisiba mandundu - zisabeka amanqindi ngandlela thile. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo kwi-roses kunye neenyibiba - ukutya. Ewe, nokuba kwenzeka ntoni ebomini, kwaye akukho mntu udimazekileyo. Iziseko zobomi ziyakhubeka, kwaye kusekho isidlo sakusasa. Nokuba akukho nkozo lokupheka kunye nemali kwiivenkile zokutyela. I-boequet ayifuneki kuye nakubani na. Ibhokisi yeecookies zekhaya iya konwaba ngakumbi.

Veza umonde

Akulula ukuba uvelwano. Ngamanye amaxesha indoda eNtabeni ijika ibe sisilonda okanye iesile elipheleleyo. Lo ngumsindo - inqanaba eliqhelekileyo lamava elusizi. Kubonakala kuye ukuba wonke umntu ungomnye wentlekele yakhe ngokungakhathali kwaye ungayiqondi inzonzobila. Unomsindo kwinto yokuba abanye banento awayelahlekile. Ufuna ukufumana ngokugqithileyo. Kwimeko enjalo, eqhelekileyo kwaye ikhuselweyo isasazeke. Kodwa abahlobo-oko kukuthi, abahlobo bokwenene-kusafuneka bahlale kufutshane.

Nika indoda ukuba ihlangane

Iinyembezi kunye nezikhalazo zidinwa ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye abantu abasentabeni bahlala beva "ukulila okwaneleyo", "yomelela" okanye "iinyembezi aziyi kunceda apha." Musa ukuba yihagu enjalo. Akwanelanga ukuba umntu unabo bonke ubomi bakhe, ngokunjalo nabo babengqongileyo bayamyalela indlela yokuziphatha, ukungazinzisi iqela kubo.

Hlala uqhagamshelwe

Indoda eyasinda kwilahleko enkulu, inkqonkqoze isikwelo semfesane. Kodwa yiveki yokuqala kuphela. Ixesha lihamba, kwaye abo bathumela amakhadi kunye neeleta, banikwa "ukufaka isicelo, ukuba" ukonakaliswa zinengqiqo, zizele ziinkxalabo zabo. Inyanga kamva, ivulekile ihleli kwi-valuo. Kuzo zonke iindaba zakhe ezindala, kodwa yena unamanxeba aphilayo. Unganyamalazi ixesha elide, qhubeka unxibelelane, tsalela umnxeba okanye usebenze emva komsebenzi, kwaye ungcono- ukhuphe umhlobo ngomoya omtsha, makayeke. Kodwa andikhathali intonga kwaye ndingabizi yonke imihla.

Sukucela

Ukuxelela okuvuselelwa, nto leyo umntu obalaseleyo owawungunina, ngokucacileyo nawo. Uyayazi. Ngokwenyani, kuba umngcwabo ucinga ngayo kuphela. Kwaye abo bacele ukuthetha naye, batsho ngokusisiseko ngayo. Uncedo olungcono lokuphazamisa kwaye lubambe kwelinye into, ukungabi nalo ubudlelwane kumxholo wosizi. Akukho mntu ufuna ukuguqula ukuveza kwakhe eluhlaza.