I-Anthropologist kwinkxalabo yendalo yamadoda kunye nogonyamelo

I-anthropologist kunye ne-blogger ol rakitanskaya-balynikov ifumene indlela eyaZitale yintsomi kwiimfuno ezizodwa zesondo zabantu kunye nokungabikho kwabo bafazi. Kwaye unento yokuthetha ngale mpazamo.

Intombi yam yabhalwa ngolwesiHlanu (kwaye ndivumelana ngokupheleleyo naye) ukuba umhlaba ujikeleze: ilonger kwaye engakhange ibunelele kwindoda ngokuqinisekileyo iya kujonga i-gay. Ingcinga yokuba bobabini indoda kunye nebhinqa anokuthi nje abadingi kubudlelwane ngalo mzuzu - okanye abadingi bangabantwana, kwaye bafumana amaqabane afanelekileyo - ihlabathi alizi kwintloko edibeneyo. Nangona inokubonakala ngathi - yintoni enokuba lula kwaye yendalo?

Ewe kunjalo, ingqondo ye-vedic iZhainschinsky yayingakhiwe ngokukhawuleza kwiZimvo (oko kukuthi, ukuba loo nto, ukubethwa kwemiqathango kohlobo, hayi inkolo) kwaye kwaqala ukuphikisana, kunye nengxaki kwinqanaba elinye lesini esitshatileyo umntu une. Kulungile, okanye ngokufihlakeleyo kwi-Babam, kwaye abanye abazazi nje. Ngenxa yokuba umntu, yena, ngokungafaniyo nomfazi, akanakumenzela! Uyafana! Kwaye ukuba kubonakala ngathi iyanyamezela kwaye uphile ngaphandle kweqabane lesondo, oko kuthetha ukuba nokuba yintsomi eyimfihlo, okanye umxhasi wemfihlo wehenyukazi, okanye ongenamandla. Ngapha koko, le yimeko yakhe, kwaye ke lixesha lenkulungwane!

Kwaye kwangoko kwiposi elandelayo, inale manenekazi yaxelela malunga nokukhulelwa kwakhe okwesibini ngolu hlobo: "Ndazala okwesibini, kodwa, ngokunyaniseka, kwenzeke! Ndandizintloni, ndihamba nesisu sam kwaye ndiyacinga, kuba nam ndijonga kum kwaye mhlawumbi ndigwebe - njani, isabelana njani? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ndingumfazi, ingenguye umntu, ukuba ndingayiphosa yonke ixesha elide ... "nakwimigqaliselo yekwayala yemfesane, iBrazay yeyabo banikezela nge-40 (hayi , hayi kwaphela ngenxa yeengxaki zempilo ezinokubakho okanye umntwana).

Ngalo lonke ixesha ndisiva kanjalo, ngakumbi malunga nendalo kunye nexesha lenkulungwane, kwaye ndiva rhoqo - kwenzeka kabini i-faissum. Iphindwe kabini - kuba ndiyinto enesifo se-anthropologist ene-antiqued eyadlulayo kwaye ndiyazi okuthile ngezi zinto zombini.

Bathandekayo! (Andizukuphinda ndidibane ne-vedic himozes, kuba ayinamsebenzi). Ukuba ufuna abantu kufutshane nendalo, ke, apha, umzekelo, iBushmen. Kutshanje baphila phantse njengoko izinyanya zethu ziphila kwi-paleolith (ndithetha iimeko kunye nendlela yokuphila). Ke, iBushmen iyakholelwa ukuba isondo limalunga nokufuneka ngokulinganayo ngumgangatho, kodwa abafazi basele ngaphezu kwamadoda. Indoda leyo kukuba uya kubandezeleka - nangona kunjalo, iya kuba yinto engathandekiyo, kwaye awuyi kuba neelekese ngaphandle kwesondo, kodwa yindoda, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba babekhona abantwana ukuba babakhulise kwaye babatye. Kodwa kulungile, uya kubandezeleka, uyindoda. Kodwa umfazi ngaphandle kwesondo rhoqo uya kugula aze afe! Ke ngoko, enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo zomyeni kukukholisa umfazi wayo ebhedini kwaye ngokubanzi ukuba zithandeke kuye, kwaye ke inokuyishiya (umntu afuna ukugula kwaye afe). Abazingeli basimahla ngaphandle! Ngendlela, lo msebenzi ophuma kumyeni wakhe awususwanga kwaye emva kokuyeka ukuyeka ukuyeka (amaBudsmen avela kwiminyaka engama-50). Kuba isini somfazi asingomntwana omnandi kuphela, oko kukuthi "ukutya" kubomi.

Kwaye ukuba nabani na akawathandi i-bushmen-esithi, Akayi kwazi ukuba ingena emazantsi, kodwa sinayo eYurophu ... - oko kukuthi, omnye umzekelo, unokuthi, isiseko sempucuko yonke: amaGrike amandulo. Ngengaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo, ngalo lonke umahluko kubo ovela kwiBushmen ene-Geleolithic Elelitism - amaGrike kwakhona aqwalasele umfazi okwesibhakabhaka ngakumbi kunendoda. Ngaphezulu kwendoda eqhelekileyo, ngokweengcinga zabo, iinkalo zesondo azikwazi ukuzilawula, unokuhlala ezigculelwe njengengqondo engaphelelanga kunye neBabskist ". Kodwa umfazi, ukuziva umnqweno (ukuba iva, ukulungele na nangaliphi na ixesha), ukulawulwa kokoqobo kulahlekelwa yintloko kwaye kungasasebenzi, ngokoqobo, ke, amantombazana nabasetyhini abatshixekileyo "Iibhokhwe zabasetyhini ezifuna enye kuphela", i-AHA). Oko kukuthi, isiphelo kwizimvo zabo amaGrike amandulo ezenziwe ngokuthe ngqo kubabi, kodwa izimvo zalo zazifana kakhulu. Endleleni, amaGrike, njengoBushmen, enjengesini esiqhelekileyo umntu obhinqileyo uyagula, kwaye ogqirha amandulo amandulo, kunye nomyeni abaninzi abangamaGrike) njengeyeza elisebenzayo labaninzi Izifo (umzekelo, intloko).

Imizekelo enjalo, ukuba ifunwa, unokuphosa kakhulu kwaye kakhulu. Nenyaniso, njengasembindini, nendoda nangomfazi, ingekafiki, kwaye amadoda nabafazi banakho, kwaye uninzi alufuni) Lawula iminqweno yakhe engqondweni. Kwaye ukuba uyayibona indoda ngaphandle komfazi - ayingoyiki ukuba unesitabane, ongenamandla okanye umntu ongenantlonelo okanye umntu ofihlakeleyo, eyimfihlakalo, inokuba yindoda nje engenamfazi. Kwaye ukuba ubona umfazi oneminyaka engama-40 ubudala okanye oneminyaka engama-50 ukuya kwengama-70 ubudala, ukwanga nokubuk 'indoda - kungekuko ukuba "i-nymphomaniac edanile," ingabasetyhini onothando nothandekayo impilo entle yomzimba. Kwaye zonke iintlobo "umakhulu wam / amadoda aqhelekileyo ahlala esithi ..." Shiya isithethi kwaye sikhumbule ukuba unyaka liwaka okanye nangakwelinye ilizwe, kodwa aba bantu baya kuthi ngokuchaseneyo , ngenxa yokuba bonke kuphela i-stereotypes yentlalo basasazwa.

Kwaye abantu abanalo ubomi babo bakhulile nangaphezulu nakuphi na i-stereotypes.