Ubulumko babantu ukuba "umhlobo wakudala ubhetele kunabantu abatsha abatsha bazazi yonke into. Kodwa oochwephesha bengqondo bayaqinisekile ukuba enyanisweni le nkcazo ilungile kude kakhulu. Kukho udidi lwezinto ezibizwa ngokuba "ngabahlobo abadala", apho kufanelekile ukuhlala kude. Yeyakho elungileyo. Ke, yintoni abantu abasusela kwixesha elidlulileyo bengakhange bavuse unxibelelwano kwaye ngoba.
Amahlakani oshishino abengathembeki
Ukuba umntu ukubeka kwimeko apho wababala uncedo ekusombululeni uhlobo oluthile lombuzo, ke kungekuphela nje ukubala intsebenziswano, kodwa unxibelelana naye. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukunika umntu ithuba lesibini (okanye eleshumi lesihlanu), kufanelekile ukuba ucinge kakuhle, nokuba ukulungele ukuzimela ngokwakho kwaye uphendule wedwa ngento eyenzekayo. Kunzima ukwenza isigqibo sokwaphula nomntu endandiqala ngayo ityala, okanye omaziyo oselula. Kodwa oochwephesha bezengqondo baqinisekile ukuba "xa bengcatsha", lo mntu uza kuphinda enze kwakhona. Sukuziva ikamva, qhubeka ngaphandle kwaba bantu.Abamelwane okanye izihlobo ezaziguqula ubomi bakho esihogweni
Ngelishwa, ihlala yenzeka ukuba 'ngabantu abasondeleyo abathathelwa indawo ngaphandle kwesebe lesazela. Mhlawumbi, abaninzi bayaziwa ngemeko apho intshontsho elithilelweyo, kwaye ekugqibeleni, kwiholide yosapho, wawungonwabanga. Kwaye qikelela ukuba wenze into embi kakhulu, ayisebenzi. Mhlawumbi le yayikhe yakhethekileyo nokuba abazali bakho ngesizathu esithile. Okanye ufuna ukukukhuphela ngaphandle kuluhlu lweendlalifa, ukuqulunqwa nazo zonke izihlobo ngakuwe.
Kwaye, mhlawumbi, kwigumbi ngalinye lesakhiwo apho kukho uhlobo "lukamakhulu wedandavenion kaThixo", oxelela abamelwane abangenabahlali. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba akenzanga nto kuye. Ke, ngale ndlela, uya kunikela ukungoneliseki ebomini. Ngenkalipho ubashiya aba bantu ngaphambili kwaye bajongana nekamva lakho.
I-Bud Bud Buds olwenziweyo
Ukuba ndiye ndaya kwintlanganiso yabaphumeleleyo, nabo bafunda nabo abafunda nabo ababenobomi bancinci kuwe esikolweni, berhalela entanyeni, bengcangcazela benengqondo kwaye abashiye bodwa kunye neenkumbulo. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, banenkumbulo kuphela, kwaye uya kuhlala uzikhumbula ezo meko zibandakanyekileyo kuzo. Ngendlela, nabantu abanjalo kungcono ukuba bangahlangani, njani, ukuba bazi ukuba luhlobo luni lolindelo oluvela kubo.Iintombi ezifundise amachaphaza akho
Unokuphikisana ixesha elide, kukho ubuhlobo bomfazi okanye hayi, kodwa kukho amanenekazi atshabalalisa ulwalamano kunye nokukhokelela kwabanye abantu abanamahashe, kwanabayeni. Kwaye ukuba ubunayo, kwaye baphinda badibana ngendlela yakho, musa ukungxama ukuze bavule ucango ebomini bakho. Nokuba ixesha lininzi lidlulile, kwaye ubomi bubeka yonke into, ngokwaneleyo ukuba bakhumbule ukuba zingakanani na aba bantu. Ukuba bangenelele ngobomi bakho kwaye baphule kube kanye, ungathandabuzi, baya kuphinda bayiyeke.