Yintoni ubufazi? Batsho amadoda

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Kungekudala okanye emva koko inethiwekhi evulekileyo (hayi kuphela) ingxoxo malunga nobunqwaba kunye nabasetyhini baguqukela kwisibhakabhaka. Kwelinye icala, amadoda avuthayo, kunye nabanye abafazi abangaqhelekanga, abagudileyo ", bemnakeka", belapho, kutheni belapha kwaye balwamkelwa abaphikisi.

Umbhali wethu wagqiba kwelokuba uye enyanisweni kwaye uchithe ixesha lokuzilolonga: ubuze ngaphandle kokuya kulucekisa kwaye ungazigqali, kwaye amadoda aphendulwe ngokupheleleyo kumbuzo othi "Yintoni?" Nantsi isiphumo: I-fairmism kuxa i-masculine ayiqhelekanga! Ubufazi-kude kube ngumtshato wokuqala wonwabe. Abahlobo bachaza ngokuvakalayo ukuba ubufazi bubangelwa ngamadoda amabi. Oko kuya kuba ngamanyathelo amabini okuhamba. Ubufazi ngumnqweno wokuthoba izinto zokwenza ikhaya kunye nezoluntu eziphuhlileyo ngaphambi kokukhululwa kwabasetyhini, ngokungqinelana nemigaqo-nkqubo yokulingana ngokwesini. Ubufazi yimbali yembali, ekuqaleni intshukumo yokulingana kwabafazi abaphuhlise ngempumelelo kwihlelo lezothundo enomtsalane kwiminxeba yengqondo yoluntu ekulonyeni kwehlabathi. Ubufazi ngumnqweno wokugculelwa, ngokuchasene neminqweno yengqondo, ngenxa yokungafezeki kwemeko. Ububhiysi wale mihla kukuqhubeka komzabalazo wokulingana kwabasetyhini emva kokufezekiswa kwayo. Umntu obhinqileyo kukuba xa abafazi namadoda anamalungelo alinganayo, ngelixa amadoda enyanzelekile ukuba anikele kubafazi. Ubufazi ngumbutho wezopolitiko wezopolitiko, injongo yoko kukupheliswa kwesini kuzo zonke iindawo zikawonke wonke. Ubufazi yimbono yabasetyhini ukuphakama kwamadoda. Ihlala kuphela ukwazi ukuba iphi imirhumo yehlabathi. I-fairmism ngumnqweno wabasetyhini (yayinguBaba) ukuba yindoda kunye ne-hysteria ngenxa yento oza kuyibhala isahleli. Ubufazi - Umzabalazo welungelo lokubhala ukubhala. Guys, apha - nantsi (ingxaki yokuchama okuthe nkqo kudala isonjululwe). Ubunqwanqwa xa umntu obhinqileyo esithatyathwa ngokwesiko lamadoda-hayi kwintswelo-qhina (akukho mntu ulandelayo), kodwa ngokwakhe ngokuzithandela. Kubandakanya, ewe, ukuthwala umxhuzulane. I-fairmism kuxa umntu obhinqileyo ekhwaza lonke ixesha lokuba ewe, nayo yonke into ngokwam. Kwaye emva kwemizuzu emi-5 iphela, uyindoda, ungentoni na umntu? Kwaye lo mfazi uhlekisayo kwinto yonke. Ubunqwazi bobufazi baninzi kwivili lokuqala, emva koko wakhupha indawo). Umntu obhinqileyo uxa umntu obhinqileyo uyala imeko kaThixo ukuba ayihlome imeko ye-Doppy. Umntu obhinqileyo kuxa umbhiyoli uhamba nomfazi, umthwali webhotile yamanzi amahlanu eelitha kwaye akadanisi ukuba akamniki ukuba ancede. Ubuntu kukuba xa abafazi basokola ilungelo lokusebenza emkhosini. I-femism lilungelo lomfazi ukuba asebenze kunye ne-grinder, ngelixa indoda isebenza ekhaya. Ngokubanzi, ukuba uwele, phakamisa intloko yakho: Kwaye amadoda aphumle-yazi, ngequbuliso yayingumntu. Ubufazi kuxa ingcinga yokuba "ukulingana" kukuthemba ulwazi ngobukho bomahluko ngokwesondo. Into enje. Icala elingasemva lembasa yokungaphezulu kobudoda. Ngokugqithileyo. Ubuntu buyinto edibanisa abathwali bobukhali, kwinqanaba le-neurosis, iingxaki zokuzithemba. Ubunqwazi luyindawo yenkcubeko okanye yemfuza. Ubunqwazi--bhinqis-upoment yehomoni yamadoda emzimbeni wamadoda. Yibani nokulwela ukulingana .... Kwaye akukho mnqweno wokuqonda ukuba sahlukile. Umntu obhinqileyo kuxa umfazi engafuni ukudlala indima yabasetyhini, kwaye amadoda awanakho. )) Umntu obhinqileyo - umzabalazo wabasetyhini wokulingana. Kodwa ukulingana kukwathetha nokwala amalungelo okubangelwa ziimpawu zomzimba. Umntu obhinqileyo sisifo esaqala kwiintloko zabanye abafazi abakhule, belawula iintsapho ezingaphelelanga kwaye baqonde kakuhle ukuba kukho konke oku kukhulelwe. Kwaye ngenxa yoko, sineziphumo ... Abafazi balele, kwaye amadoda athambekele ... Ubufazi, kuyavela, ngumlo ochasene nencwadi yesikhokelo yebhayoloji. Bhala. Ubunqwazi buxa amantshontsho e-digicks kwindawo yokulala kangangokuba le ndoda ayifuneki. Kwaye ngubani esiwabhalileyo 'ngamantshontsho' ?! Ubufazi kuxa ukulingana kwamalungelo abo bonke abantu, ngaphandle kokujonga phantsi kunye nomahluko. Umntu obhinqileyo uxa i-maya ilulainichno akukho mntu ubonakalisa ukuba akanakwenziwa. Ubuntu kukuba xa umfazi efuna ukwamkelwa kwaye ehlonipha ubuntu bakhe, hayi iqabane lesini kunye nocalucalulo olunxulumene noko. Ubufazi yinkululeko yabasetyhini. Kunye namadoda). Ubufazi yintshukumo, intanda-bulumko, indlela yokuphila, ungatsalela umnxeba njengoko uthanda, kodwa isiseko sobufazi ngumxholo woluntu, ekuhlaleni kunye nezopolitiko phakathi kwabo bonke abantu, nokuba imeko yabo yesini. Iicookies kule theyibhile! Vala kwisichazi-magama, kodwa ngemvakalelo enkulu. Le yimbono kunye nokuziqhelanisa kokuphela kokuphela kwezentlalo okuhle. Kwaye le yimbiza yejam kwicandelo le-radical. Njengenkwenkwe endiyinika inkcazo yam, nangona, mhlawumbi, bambalwa abantu abavumelana nam: Ubufazi buyamalunga nothando. Apha samiswa. Kulungile? Esi sisampulu. Wena ngokwakho uyabona ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kumadoda kunye nokujonga iivili. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabameli bomhlaba onamandla, ngokucacileyo, sisaphupha ngenkosikazi enganxibanga zihlangu kunye nenkosikazi ekhulelweyo kufutshane nesitovu. Kwaye kuphela abafazi abakhethayo.

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